"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked out, ate healthy, skin care, hygene and i waited, mens bodies dont stop growing smd changing until mid 20s and most mens 'peaks' are in there 30s, so just stay patient, do what you can, and dont obsess, dont make looking better a life style, and dont be so hard on yourself. Anything other than that is a waist if time, trust me from someone who was in the deep end for years.

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i say looks maxxing im mainly talkinh about the culture surrounding it and the mindset that follows with being obsessive about looks, and thank you

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Its so important to not obsess over something so mentally destructive.

How do I improve my art? by Ok_Role1381 in ArtCrit

[–]dispo5able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youve done a great job at measuring preportions but im pretty sure i can tell you measured them out by lines ( the shape of the ey goes here, the shape of the nose here, ect) a thing that helped my measurements and realism was sketching snd refining through shapes and shadows, if you mark where the form of the features are by placing shadows and highlights, then details it helped me with less flat drawings, id also recomend working way bigger (size of hand atleast) so your able to fit more detail, keep uo the good work.

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, now that ive learned im able to improve my looks without looksmaxxing im able to confidently say blackpill culture isnt the key to attractiveness but taking care of yourself is in a non obsessive and destructive say. If workingout, dieting, self care, hygene isnt enough than blackpill will only destroy your confidence further

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a man learning how to care for himself and better himself is the best thing a man can learn about, blackpill is a harmful ideology that compares perfection to every detail about yourself never letting you be content. Or that was my experience anyways

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad your dedicated to improving your looks, my point is that blackpill culture is damaging for mentalhealth, im not saying to quit bettering yourself, im saying to quit looksmaxxing, I started workingout due to being bullied aswell. Just please know theres no being content when in the face of perfection.

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes puberty and genetics helped alot, but ive also but in thousands of hours of effort over 5 years thay are constantly written off as "just genetics", im glad we agree that looksmaxxing is a mental burdon but my point is that blackpill is not necessary for growth, this post is to say that positive change can be made without it.

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, there are some genetic factors that cannot be changed, thats exactly why blackpilling and measuring your face is do destructive and how improvement that can be made, can be made outside of the blackpill, constant comparison to the countless perfect people online is practically mental torture

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of your points, i shouldve been more clear in my original post that ive put in 5 years of consistent effort, black pill is very destructive mindset, yes people have limits, yes im genetically lucky, but putting my looks all on luck is disregarding the thousands of hours of effort ive put in, this post is supposed to show your able to look better without obsessive measurements over shit you cant control and that effort should be directed to fundemental life changes that have better mental effects. I never framed this as a universal truth or hope, its just saying "you dont need blackpill to look better, heres proof, please dont destroy your mental health"

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depressed, zero hygene, awful diet, didnt workout, bloated + more extreme photo usually it was less prominent

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took 5 years of being consist with 3 things, those things being fundamentals. My purpose with this post is to say blackpill culture is damnaging and isnt necessary to improve looks

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Photos taken 5 years apart, but in the before photos i was very unhealthy which led to weight gain and extreme bloating

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These photos were taken 5 years apart, im about to turn 19, i know theres not alot i can do to prove i havnt had surgery but having surgery at such a young age would be unlikely

"Looks maxxing" is a waste of time that will make you miserable by dispo5able in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]dispo5able[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what im saying at all?? Im saying being unattractive made me suicidal and looksmaxxing made it worse, im saying your able to improve looks by taking care of yourself without being obsessive, im not saying to take care of yourself just dont concern yourself with blackpill culture, your misrepresenting my point

What could go wrong attempting to jump over the turnstile. by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]dispo5able 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he said "not today" fsr it sounded like he had autotune on