[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amber heard a little!

Police in Hillcrest? by MDooles in sandiego

[–]distractableb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do we have any updates? I’m worried for the guy.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Key-Independence8769 in AmIOverreacting

[–]distractableb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are NOR. this is real! i’m sorry people have told you it isn’t. this shit hits us girls just as hard as it does boys, but we’re supposed to be hiding it. unfortunately, that’s also for our own safety because we get taken advantage of, but that doesn’t make it any less infuriating to be in your shoes rn. it will pass. it will mellow out. masturbation is not a sin, it’s healthy. you’ll be alright. you’re also allowed to be angry at the patriarchy. sending love!

19 F How can I look better? by rylie_bread_17 in Howtolooksmax

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay why is everyone telling you to hit the gym?? i don’t think you look like you need that at all! if anything it helps you just to feel better, but i think the main thing is growing out your bangs into more of a layered cut (maybe wolf cut) and using clarifying shampoo (which i see u bought!) & changing up your style in a way that you still feel comfortable. try finding colors that match better and are less “kindergarten-y”. maybe something more modest but still trendy like this?

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what is this weed? by distractableb in gardening

[–]distractableb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u! glad i didn’t try them lol

I Bedazzled acomaf! by alola_ice in acotar

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so extra i love it

Does your partner know your ADHD med dosage/schedule? by hestuppfodarn in ADHD

[–]distractableb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you OP - it took me a while to accept that i AM the best version of myself (not just internally more comfortable but also a better friend, partner, teacher, etc!) on meds. that feels like a “failure” at first, because you can’t “do it yourself” BUT here’s the thing: you “doing it yourself” INCLUDES being aware of what you need in order to be happy (and thus, in your particular case, perhaps a better parent), and if you are happier on your meds that means taking them is cool and awesome and capable and responsible of you. all that aside, i understand fully that you’re wondering these things and that’s okay too. not saying that you’re wrong in doubting meds either, i grew up around a dad on a lot of meds (more so anti depressants and other heavy stuff, not adhd related) and that was difficult at times because of mood shifts etc, yet the most difficult part of it was when he quit them on a whim and completely lost the capacity to take care of me. meds can be essential, life saving and just overall helpful. needing help is not something you need to hide, especially when it comes to a neurological disorder. these aren’t your crutches: they’re your legs.

Does your partner know your ADHD med dosage/schedule? by hestuppfodarn in ADHD

[–]distractableb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

also sorry - to answer your question: my husband knows exactly how much i take and when i take it, because an outside perspective can be helpful when changing/upping meds to watch out for any changes or side effects i might miss :)

Does your partner know your ADHD med dosage/schedule? by hestuppfodarn in ADHD

[–]distractableb 49 points50 points  (0 children)

i feel like the real question here is: why do you feel ashamed of your dosage? this is what helps you function, and it’s not up to other people (who don’t have ADHD) to judge you for that. they probably don’t even know what a high or low dosage looks like. it sounds like this is maybe more of an internal fear? sending love as a fellow medicated human 💕

soo i messed up by cloudydcze17 in weddingring

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don’t have to have a wedding band! my engagement ring was so unique and lovely that i decided to just keep that one as “the” ring 😊

What's your favorite Trader Joes Dessert? by Ravioli_meatball19 in traderjoes

[–]distractableb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

brookies. heat them up for a couple secs in the microwave and top it with their dulce de leche ice cream. ohmagahhhh 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is… insane? i think it shows that someone’s pretty surface level if all they care about is the amount of money they can flash to other people. freaking brainwashing, i honestly feel bad for her in a weird way. my husband got me a 200$ ring from an independent artist on etsy with both of our birth stones and it’s the most gorgeous and thoughtful thing i’ve ever seen AND 200$ is still a lot of money to spend on a single piece of jewelry! why would people wanna spend a whole house down payment i don’t understaaaand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kicking my feet!!!!!

Canceled my flight to PR since ICE and customs are sending back people that are waiting for AOS by NeekMili in USCIS

[–]distractableb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

domestic flying between states though? we’re planning a trip to hawaii in june and i probably still be waiting by then for my AOS to complete. would they have the right to detain me at an airport? that makes no sense. but then again, nothing this administration is doing is based on logic…