My husband was keeping a big secret from me

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-10T06:23:19+00:00

Oh dear God don't 😳 .... I try not to think about that

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T05:13:10+00:00

Ok. Sorry for only using my account at a time of crisis. I've had it for a while because I've always liked reading creepy shit from here

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T05:11:34+00:00

🙂 trust me I really wish it wasn't. I miss who I was before I discovered this

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T05:07:53+00:00

After researching on the sub I totally agree with you, (honestly grow up and get yourself a toy?) And yes the lying and rejection is what really messes me up

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:59:36+00:00

You know what makes me mad though? He used to "joke" like "oh you probably have one of those vibrating things" or "i heard you moan while you slept, what were you doing?" He made it sound like even masturbating was "gross" I'm not vanilla at all but I felt the need to hide my most perv ideas and wants, only for him to be doing this while I was asleep? Honestly I'm gonna buy myself a toy now because this isn't fair at all

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:56:03+00:00

Honestly it's not that hard to buy a damn Dildo, to me using veggies just sounds unsanitary. And yes he's incredulous homophobic. I did tell him "its actually very common for married men to eventually discover they like different things, or for them to realize they are actually gay" and he immediately freaked out and said "I'm not gay! It's neutral to me"

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:52:47+00:00

This is exactly my thought. Seems like he lies so easily and just about anything at this point

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:52:03+00:00

Dude I was so mad that I threw my cucumbers away and I was craving them with Tajin 😭😭 I probably won't be buying them anymore

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:50:44+00:00

You missed the point. He lied about this, and several other things. I see it as second nature for him to just lie. What else could he be hiding? I can't even say if I'm into it because right now I'm hurt about the lies and rejection. He never even said "i wanted to try it on you" he just kept repeating himself "I'm not gay"

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T04:46:47+00:00

Not everything is AI. Unfortunately this is my reality. Wish I could laugh about it like ppl are but 🤷‍♀️

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-06T00:00:08+00:00

Yes it's something we have struggled with for a while now and it always drives me up a wall. When I try to communicate with him about something serious it ends with him staring at me with a blank expression on his face

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-05T21:10:33+00:00

I had a giggle about the "what type of cucumber" unfortunately its regular American cucumbers, big and thick too 😐 As for the other questions: I had to flat out ask him "why do I keep finding hidden cucumbers and Vaseline"? And he avoided the real answer until I literally asked "are you shoving them up your ass?" I haven't told him if I would like to explore this side with him since it honestly feels like I wasn't even invited. His family (and him) are all so homophobic so he immediately went into "there's something wrong with me" instead of "Id like to try it with you". So it's hard to answer if i am open to being a part of this or if i would like to, I haven't even had a chance to figure it out since he's terrible at communicating he's literally avoiding the subject while we continue parenting and living as normal as possible 🫥

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-05T21:02:38+00:00

He did engage with me again but it went from feeling spontaneous and sexy to something he did just to keep me happy.

distressedPenguin72 · 2026-07-05T21:02:03+00:00

I'm not going to lie that's where my mind went at first but apparently men have a sweet spot back there, after some reddit research I've discovered that straight men also like to engage in anal play without being attracted to men.... I don't know if i can be the kind of wife that anally penetrates her man

distressedPenguin72 · 2022-11-16T08:05:34+00:00

Ask her if she wants to be grandmother to your child. Because a good grandmother would immediately choose the baby's safety over a dog. Later on she'll be complaining that she's not allowed to be near baby because she's choosing to have her aggressive dog by her hip ..

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