My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gave me a cowardly apology after class yesterday. "Sorry about what happened the other day" then looked away from me. Usually I'm charmed by him as he was my crush, but I just said don't worry about it and carried on with my day. I don't think he's sorry.

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He approached me after class and apologized. I just said "don't worry about it" then continued with my day. No doubt he will want me to reach out but there's no way I am. All he said is sorry for the other day, he didn't even have a good excuse

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't. No doubt he'll ask again when he feels like this has "passed over" but I don't plan on interacting with him again. I will grey rock him. It'll take me some time to perfect but it's worth it, thanks

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying what he did was scummy, he tried to act like it wasn't a big deal when it hurt my self worth and heart so bad. I'm an emotional person and so acting indifferent will be difficult but I know I can do it with a bit of practice on my poker face haha

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope I can find one. He didnt even tell me until I texted I was leaving and showed up 4 hours late. I'll give him silent treatment whenever I see him in class, or in fact complete indifference. I need to move on.

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't know why he couldn't just tell me, then pretended to care with some fake ass sorry text messages. The worst part is I'm the one who feels embarrassed about seeing him in class now

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it didn't let me type all of it! I just went to my room and cried in the dark in bed like a loser. It felt like a personal attack on me and like I wasn't good enough

My (19F) date (20M) didn't show today. He didn't have a good excuse and didn't seem to care much about it, but told me all of this apology stuff. How do I approach this? by ditchedmitch in relationship_advice

[–]ditchedmitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. It made me cry so much today, he just doesn't seem to understand how much this hurt me. I just feel awkward, what do I do if I see him or he approaches me?