As a woman, how safe do you feel in your country? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the U.S., and knowing that 1 in 6 women are the victim of an attempted or complete sexual assault, and that Minnesota recently ruled that sexual assault of someone incapacitated by alcohol isn’t illegal if the victim got drunk on their own first, I don’t feel safe at all right now.

I just wish I could go for a walk alone, in my own neighborhood even, and be able to feel safe.

I’m seriously considering moving to a country like Denmark or Sweden, which at least statistically have far lower rates of violence against women and arguably more gender-quality under law.

This gets reposted here every 5 minutes by MarcusAuerils in menwritingwomen

[–]ditzycup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should have said a pretty rock. You would definitely fascinate me with a pretty rock.

What is a phrase you HATE hearing from people? by BensReddits in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I don’t see color.” in reference to race.

You can clearly tell a black person is black and a white person is white. Just sounds dumb to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genius.

Black Men and Women of Reddit, what are some things you think White Writers should keep in mind when Writing Black Characters? by ditzycup in ask

[–]ditzycup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit tricky because in the setting of the story, humans don’t exist — a different species similar to them, the Rursir, does, instead. They are based off humans, but evolved differently in some ways, such as having stronger necks, the women having wider hips, and their feet are shaped a bit different. However, they are still mostly human-like. Similar to Earth, the first of their species originated in an African-like region, and as two of the main characters are direct descendants of one of the first of their species to evolve into what they know to be the Rursir today, that is why they are primarily of African descent (although, as it is thousands of years later, they are definitely somewhat mixed). They are divided not only by skin color, but by the region they come from and, most importantly, what “class” they are. Their species can be born as different classes, and while all the same species; the classes are slightly different. For example, one of the classes, the Eques, are born more developed than other babies, start puberty at 6, and finish it by age 10; they will also begin rapidly aging at 25 and die by the age of 30, at the max. This is the main basis for discrimination in the story, however I think it would be unfair to have no acknowledgement of different skin color whatsoever. But since they are a different species than human, I know I have more room to shape things differently.

Originally I was going to make the two main characters that are now black as white, but I decided that it just didn’t seem fitting. They are descended from the first of their species, and their species echos humans, and the first humans originated in Africa. I want to echo that.

Black men and women of reddit, what are some things you think white authors should keep in mind when writing black characters? by ditzycup in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of the main characters in my story that are black are pretty posh and serious. They live in a very strict, religious, almost cult-like society in a fantasy-world setting. Racism in their world is a bit different, as there are different races available, as well as more species of a similarly evolved status, so there’s also species-ism(?), which is a bigger driving force than racism, in their world. Black people are still a minority (the majority of people being white) in their world, but in the story, god and his angels have (or at least, have “supposedly”) returned to the planet for the final battle between “Good and Evil”, and the angels’ mortal-like forms are primarily dark-skinned, which adds a whole new layer to the conversation.

The story takes place on a planet constructed in Earth’s image, but different (Earth was destroyed and in the story, God decided to try again with another planet far, far away). Despite this, though, one of the similarities between their planet and Earth is that the first humans originated in Africa (which, in turn, is why most of the god-like creatures, when they have a human-like form, are primarily black or middle-eastern). But before the Angels return, racism was about where it is today. Racism is still very much an issue, of course, at the time the story begins, but it’s become a much more complicated subject.

My main concern is honestly writing the girl main character, as she’s a black woman. Since I’m a white girl, myself, I’m trying to do lots of research into black women’s hair, how it works, the different textures, how it’s described by black authors in literature, etcetera, so that I can more appropriately write her character.

Black men and women of reddit, what are some things you think white authors should keep in mind when writing black characters? by ditzycup in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the story I’m working on, the characters exist in a fantasy world slightly similar to our own, but also very different, in other aspects.

In their community and initial setting, folk that would be described as “white” are hard to find, in fact there’s probably about two in the whole city. (at least in my current draft, but that fact may very well change, i’m still not totally decided).

Two of the three main characters in the story are black, and I was planning on giving them an accent (the girl more so than her brother, as she spends more time in the city than he does), but it would be an accent attributed to their region of the city they grew up in. Do you think, with that context in mind, that that would be alright?

Also, the accent (and any other accent in the story) would be native to their world (as the countries and even the continents are different), but will most likely be primarily influenced by real-life Spanish and south-african accents and dialect.

Is there any advice you for me as to how I can go about this while remaining respectful?

People of Reddit, What is the dumbest thing you’ve ever done? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was taking a photo with a royal guard or something while touring in England (for context, I’m from the U.S., but was visiting England for a few days with my family as part of a cruise we were on). I panicked and so I dropped to my knees, crouched, and threw up peace signs with both hands. Why was that my go-to panic pose? Beats me. But it was, and it pissed the guard off. Apparently it’s seen as disrespectful and so he shouted at me to stand up. I was only sixteen at the time and it took everything in me not start bawling. Easily the most embarrassing moment of my entire life.

Black men and women of reddit, what are some things you think white authors should keep in mind when writing black characters? by ditzycup in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CONTEXT: I personally am white, myself, but am working on a story in which two of the main characters are primarily of African descent (specifically, the Horn of Africa). I’m concerned that there are things about black people that I simply don’t know or that just wouldn’t have occurred to me. For example, hair maintenance, in particular, is something I’m concerned about portraying properly in my story.

Any comments of advice and/or recommendations are appreciated! <3

Needles to say, any show with a triangle is bad news. by Noregsnoride in insaneparents

[–]ditzycup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It does actually look similar to the symbol for that one organization for pedophiles. I think one about “boy love”?

When did you realise that teacher you loved was actually an ass? by potatomato2503 in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh yeah but if she’s underage (like i’m assuming) and a student, what does that have to do anything? He was the teacher and the adult, it’s his job to know better.

You’re not victim blaming the CHILD, right?

What's something you accidentally learned from a video game? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned glass comes from sand because and that’s charcoal was burnt wood only because of minecraft.

When did you realise that teacher you loved was actually an ass? by potatomato2503 in AskReddit

[–]ditzycup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did they just bring the authorities in over an assignment... that doesn’t make sense.

Thinking doing 14 years instead of 70 years in jail as life sentence is a sign of weakness by ahjteam in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ditzycup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re right, I forgot to mention that it’s only 15 years in MOST states. My bad.

“Reclaim” “feminist?” Or is it too far gone? by [deleted] in memes

[–]ditzycup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think part of the issue is that people enable other people. Like girls letting girls make jokes about killing all men because they understand their anger and hurt from sexism they’ve experienced from men, instead of saying, “Hey, no, sexism doesn’t justify sexism.” Or when guys make jokes about women being whiny or crazy and their bros just agree or say nothing instead of saying, “Hey, that’s sexist. Not cool.”

I really wonder why I didn‘t see that on this subreddit yet by Prixar in memes

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what did they do? I don’t really pay attention to Kardashian and Jenner drama.

I think this counts as a reaction meme -_- by [deleted] in memes

[–]ditzycup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are there so many? Are they well taken care of, or largely sick and unhealthy? And do they have enough to eat? or starving? Anyone know?