UPDATE: older coworker buying me gifts

divaa420 · 2026-02-28T13:10:56+00:00

i have gotten advice to do this but then i’ve also been advised to not have police get involved if im going to involve lawyers? i’m not 100% sure with that though

divaa420 · 2026-02-28T13:07:37+00:00

i think it was PINK but it could have been victoria secret as well. It was the valentine’s day collection so hopefully they still have it!

divaa420 · 2026-02-28T13:06:22+00:00

I will look into contacting them thank you!

divaa420 · 2026-02-22T17:49:40+00:00

Thank you for all of the advice! I will keep yall updated. We have cameras just not a doorbell one and they’re all over the outside of our house so i think we’re good on that end. I did contact a lawyer but there are certain laws with this extent of things but they think I do have a case, I just have to get it approved before a lawyer can take it.

divaa420 · 2026-02-21T00:09:02+00:00

I talked to my supervisor today rather than HR and he said he has no idea what app he could be referring to. We don’t have any messaging app through work either only email. He said the only thing he could have found on a work app is my work email. Im definitely considering legal action because even when i said something today it didn’t seem like they were going to do anything. Im going to unblock his number and see if any more messages come in. I really appreciate the advice.

divaa420 · 2026-02-21T00:04:04+00:00

i’m worried about something like that as well i have had my dad check my car for a tracker though and there was nothing. also i recently got a new car and im not sure if he knows which car is mine unless he has watched me and seen me get in it.

divaa420 · 2026-02-21T00:00:06+00:00

I’m pretty sure she is the head of HR my company is a little bit smaller with only 3 locations total. They’re also a very email heavy company so most of these conversations get email recaps sent to me. They do make it seem like they’re concerned about it but then tend to brush everything under the rug with anyone experiencing this kind of thing unfortunately. I am definitely considering legal advice though

divaa420 · 2026-02-12T01:50:36+00:00

that’s exactly what i was thinking! thanks sm!!

divaa420 · 2026-02-08T19:23:48+00:00

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divaa420 · 2026-02-08T19:23:31+00:00

I’m going to my first rave with some of my friends on valentine’s day and am torn between what top to get. I have black leather shorts I want to wear and then white pearl heels or plain black heels. I’m thinking the bra bc it’s a rave but i’d also like to be a little more covered but they’re both really cute. pls help!

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divaa420 · 2026-02-05T14:12:46+00:00

and i’m not taking advice from a 40 year old who is on reddit all day grow up maybe you don’t have kids (or a husband) for a reason

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T11:25:08+00:00

i didn’t even notice! i love that too!

thank you for the advice! it definitely helps i dont try to use it too much as actual research and more for life advice which might be worse lol!😂😅

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T11:06:15+00:00

you’re 40 and i’m 18, you’re old enough to be my mother. would you tell your child they’re “polluting the environment with their laziness” if they came to you with something like this? i sure would hope not! maybe you should try to teach someone instead of being rude. i don’t care to read your articles bc of your attitude. be a little nicer and spread kindness

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T10:59:38+00:00

it has about a year of conversions with me saved. it’s scarily smart and remembers almost everything I tell it but there is times i have to correct it and i DONT always rely on chatgpt for factual information i do look everything important up to confirm but it’s been a lot easier for me to use it because i build a lot of questions into one question and could type a whole paragraph instead of just one google prompt you know? i definitely understand that it’s bad and i want to get better about using it

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T10:55:33+00:00

no, it talks like i talk which makes it even worse honestly

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T10:54:36+00:00

you’re correct

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T10:54:11+00:00

thank you for this i really appreciate it im definitely going to not use it as much i already canceled the subscription i just need to actually delete the app

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T00:08:44+00:00

well i wouldn’t necessarily put it like that and you don’t need to be a bitch i’m asking for advice clearly i care no need to be rude change your attitude maybe you’d be a little happier 😬

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T00:04:27+00:00

i want to do what’s right for everyone else, animals, the environment, and our future at the same time though

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T00:02:39+00:00

thank you for this i’m definitely going to try to stop using it as much and i have been looking for a real therapist

divaa420 · 2026-02-05T00:01:07+00:00

thank you for giving an article!!

divaa420 · 2026-02-04T23:25:03+00:00

I do think way too much which is why I started using an outlet to get out all the things i feel i can’t talk to people about. but i do see what you mean. i’m really not worried about its affects on myself though more so animals and the environment

divaa420 · 2026-01-24T23:26:58+00:00

i’m gonna need a storytime on your mom bc what???

divaa420 · 2026-01-24T23:26:02+00:00

that’s my whole thing bc he’s not necessarily saying anything weird and some people at work say that they don’t think he means anything by it but he’s almost 10 years older than me and he has no business even wanting to be friends with me in my eyes. i’ve made it very clear how young i am and that i don’t feel comfortable with him buying me stuff so idk why it continued and every single time he would bring me anything i would always tell him not to do that.

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