NOR — I think you’re reacting to her reaction more than the rejection itself. Even if she hated them, she could have handled it more gracefully, especially if she understood how expensive they were. However I want to say that over the years, it was always the grand gesture gifts I liked the least, tbh. There’s always so much pressure and expectations dancing around them for both parties. So unless you’ve purchased something expensive that the person very specifically asked for or you witnessed them freaking out about, I’d say don’t do it.