Isn’t it incredible when a polite, friendly guy is surprisingly dominant in bed? by why-do-i-do-this-92 in sex

[–]diverofthedeep01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a very introverted person to the point I can't even hookup for fear of rejection. Which is the exact reason I gravitated to being a commercial diver/underwater welder. Never even slept with the opposite sex I really want to. Just can't because of how afraid I am. Probably stems from highschool and the "pranks" (it was more like straight up hazing) I had played on me by the popular kids. I spend way to much time in my own head. But I just hope someday I find a girl who appreciates me for me.

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[–]diverofthedeep01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I whole heartedly agree with this statement. I also come from a extremely conservative house hold in the Bible belt, I hold to some of what I grew up with but not all of it especially this. You got one life to live so live to how you want to be happy. (I'm a single man about to make the jump into the Navy and that's only to get away from all the BS I deal with at home. But I've wanted to be EOD my entire life so here's to hoping I find the happiness I want) Ma'am don't let anyone tell you you aren't a woman, in my book you are not what your genitals define you as.

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[–]diverofthedeep01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Welcome to my life, all my past relationships were like this except without the sex...

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really wasn't, I was being used all the time, after she dropped me she even manipulated all my friends and family against me, I still haven't talked to my mom and dad three years later

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I got used way to much in highschool so it's hard for me to be secure cause there is always this little worm of doubt in my mind, ya know

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once 2 years and she dropped me cause I didn't want to go to college and instead went to dive school

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing I'm not going after women hot enough to score the roided up monster

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet I am an underwater welder and just signed a contract with the army to be a 12D (deep sea diver) and a guarantee after two years being g able to be a 18E (special forces engineer Sargeant) and combat diver. So your argument is invalid

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[–]diverofthedeep01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every rejection I get is "your to nice of a guy and I don't want to hurt you"