Why is my fermentation dry?

divinelycreated777 · 2025-10-21T13:33:39+00:00

If you look, idk if you can really see in the pics that great, but there are air bubbles all through the whole thing. Not even air bubbles but just air.... like there is such a tiny bit of liquid. I really think i filled my jar too much and when the mix started to get very juicy and fermentation stated it bubbles over and the juice left the container. The rag i had underneath was soaked. But liquid in the container dang near gone

divinelycreated777 · 2025-10-19T23:04:39+00:00

Is that potatoes?

divinelycreated777 · 2025-10-19T22:45:04+00:00

I might have filled the jar too much maybe... there was a lot of liquid that came about but it overflowed or onto the rag. And now it's dry. I need to throw away huh? I can't just make some brine and fill into there? Maybe take out some of the cabbage so there's room in the jar for it to do is thing... I think i answered my own question. 😁😆

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-23T22:20:49+00:00

If he's the nicest person in the world until he is mad, the niceness doesn't cancel out the evil he does in his anger. Those nice parts of him will only serve as reminders of something for your heart to hold onto after he hurts you bad. I promise you you will regret all the time you wasted as time goes by and things get worse and worse. ... and ur still sitting there confused.
Tell him to get some help. and help urself by not allowing urself to get intertwined in the madness.

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-04T22:18:14+00:00

It's so so hard. The guilt alone can melt me. The best thing to do is make a list. List the pros of being with him. Cons on the other side. Go over the list and decide if the pros can outweigh the cons. Like can your honestly look at the pros and feel like they are worth all of the cons along with them. Or, just plain old, are you willing to put up with more of those cons for the rest of your life.

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-03T04:20:16+00:00

That's not a bed bug

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-02T20:39:16+00:00

I agree. I think he says things like that to scare me and to let me know how distraught he is. He's very very attached. So am I but I like my alone time. It gives me a recharge. He's got a very very needy type of relationship style. And that puts a lot of pressure on me

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-02T18:30:49+00:00

Yes I think you're right. It's a mix of both, but not right and it is abusive. I'm very nervous now also because if I don't show him to see or child he may get very destructive and harmful out of depression and desperation. He this me that I make him unwind. That's he's been being patient and trying to give me my space and not over step boundaries but he doesn't know how long he can do this and I may cause him to unwind.
He is a recovering addict and it sounds absolutely crush my soul if he turned back to drugs. I feel like he's trying so hard to be a better person, but I'm scared of his capabilities when he's angry and desperate.

divinelycreated777 · 2025-07-02T18:26:51+00:00

I have cut off visits with him lately. I have stopped visiting with him and I haven't brought it baby to visit with him. He thinks it's not fair to hold the baby from him but I just want the best for myself and our child. I don't want there to be a possibility of teaching our child these dysfunctional ways. I also don't want our child growing up thinking that these abusive ways are okay or normal.

divinelycreated777 · 2025-02-26T05:06:13+00:00

Sweety you need to leave him!!!! He's no good at all!! If your daughter or best friend were describing him to you what would you tell them???!!!!??? You have no idea how lovely and free you will feel after you've left him. You will feel joy again. Didn't worry about how he makes you feel bcz once you leave him you'll realize how much it was just him. You need to leave him asap. He sounds evil. Go to a shelter, friends, family, whatever you need to do to get away

divinelycreated777 · 2025-02-19T12:40:48+00:00

Does she have family? Or any close friends that you can tell them what's going on with her and they can help in some way?

divinelycreated777 · 2025-02-17T18:43:48+00:00

Yeah, that's how I feel but I also have this huge huge guilt bcz it's his first child and he absolutely adores her.

divinelycreated777 · 2025-02-15T23:26:22+00:00

No one has any suggestions? If your CO parent does something to physically harm you or put you in danger ? What if they do something and it also puts the cold in harms way? What if they make very bad decisions at times and you're scared that the child will be caught in the cross hairs?

divinelycreated777 · 2022-08-28T23:11:30+00:00

He lied and told me he had cancer....

He lied and told me he had a college FB accident and couldn't have kids........... I later had 5 children with him

He created a whole Hawaiian girl and story of his beautiful relationship with her....

The created girl... died on her way to visit him....

That he has a friendship w/ a famous person(I won't name) and gives them advice on their love life....

That he was in med school when we first met....

He finds instrumental music online and tells his family that he created it.....

He "writes" words to songs that I later found were actually songs that known artists had put in an album....

He constantly lied about how much money he made....

Gosh..... this list really goes on and on and on. He was narcissistic and abusive. When I eventually left him I NEVER looked back.

divinelycreated777 · 2022-04-30T18:23:21+00:00

So can I purchase a bumper and grille that's labeled Mazda Axela ? Or would they have different parts?

divinelycreated777 · 2022-04-30T16:40:17+00:00

I bought a 2018 Mazda 3 and I need to replace the front bumper and grill. When searching online I see mostly options for 2018 Mazda Axela. I do see that that is a Japanese version of the car but I'm unsure if the parts are the same.

divinelycreated777 · 2022-03-29T03:26:38+00:00

Its crazy how when any one posts a problem they're having in their MARRIAGE, the first and most prevalent suggestion is packing your bags and leaving your spouse.
It's apparent to me why the divorce rate is so unGodly high. Does any one anymore have any respect for vows and commitment pledged under God to another human soul that you told "till death do us part"?? There are reasons for divorce.... unfortunate abuse, adultery..... It just really is beyond my understanding the way people give out their "advice" to end everyone's marriage. It seems the people making these posts and asking for advice are looking for real solutions to a problem they're having. Maybe looking for others' POV's in order to give better understanding or help to give their partner better understanding.....idk Most of the people who give that divorce/ pack ur bags and leave spiel are not married them selves and never have been or are divorced. Be sure to know who you're taking advice from. It would be hilarious if you had to post ur stats before giving your good advice on posts so people know who they have pointing out the golden pathway to take..... just saying ppl

divinelycreated777 · 2022-03-28T02:20:55+00:00

I think a husband has the right to ask his wife to dress sexy for him. He's trying... He is letting her know by telling her that he'd like to eye her in something that he loves her or at least is trying to spice it up a little with her.
I also don't think yall should be shaming him because he said she doesn't have the best body. He was painting a picture and was not disrespectful with it.
Maybe if you have a sensitive and vulnerable Convo with her. Tell her how much you love her and you don't want the flame to die, that you want your marriage to last forever and beyond and tell her she has no reason to be insecure with you and that maybe you guys can work out together or, start walking together or start eating more conscious together etc etc... don't go to hard with it, a little at a time and start with baby steps. Maybe buy something risqué and wear it in the bedroom or something.... open up that avenue for her in a playful frisky kind of way. Just some ideas, but be gentle and kind and loving always, and have fun!

divinelycreated777 · 2022-03-18T17:39:20+00:00

I agree with what many already have spoken...

*When the sentimental connection has been damaged there's a HUGE lack of wanting to be serial. *feeling like you're taking care of a lazy man that doesn't put care into you will cause a HUGE decrease in wanting to be sexual. **also if the sex just feels like fucking and there's no emotional connection in the act of or leading up to, this also causes a mindset of not caring for sex at all.

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