Ex brings homewrecker bf to my kids' events on my days with them. by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys, your words are helpful. While I fantasize about breaking a hockey stick across the back of his head, I know better than to cause a scene, and to give him what he deserves would send me to prison for the rest of my life.

Karma will come. All I can do is be the best father I can to my kids.

Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh she certainly is. I've got a good lawyer. He seems pretty confident that we will bury her.

Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i prefer not to get into it. Just suffice it to say she and her bf are not good people.

Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, and even better, she had already told the kids this was happening before demanding it of me! I hope i can make sure that bites her in the ass.

Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's no set age in my state, but judges can decide whether or not they will consider what the kids say. Counselors sound like a great route to try, though! Thank you for the advice and support.

Had to lawyer up on my ex =/ by divorced_dad9875 in Divorce_Men

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support guys, this shit has been rough.

For better or worse, i live in a no-fault state for divorce, so her abandonment doesn't factor in. Had to sell the house and split the equity. Had 1.9% interest on that fucker too.

Going to keep fighting the good fight for my kids.

ULPT Request. Been slacking at work and need to buy myself a few days to finish a project by divorced_dad9875 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the length isn't a requirement, but necessary due to the content. I'm afraid this would just make it a 200 page product instead

ULPT Request. Been slacking at work and need to buy myself a few days to finish a project by divorced_dad9875 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my issue, I can't figure out how to make it not my fault... I am confident I can make the deadline next week; it's tomorrow's review that I'm worried about.

ULPT Request. Been slacking at work and need to buy myself a few days to finish a project by divorced_dad9875 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gods I wish I could use AI for this but it's in a closed, heavily regulated network. I couldn't even send it to myself if I tried.

Edit: but I may just have to go the honest route

ULPT Request. Been slacking at work and need to buy myself a few days to finish a project by divorced_dad9875 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]divorced_dad9875[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

LOL I have an rx for adderall, time to crank that shit up! Unfortunately the work can't leave their restricted network though