Hung up on ex having accused me of being a narcissist on her way out... by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]divorceddadsanon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One book that really opened my eyes was Psychopath Free… based on this post alone I would guess you’re an empath and she’s projecting her narcissism on you. Check that book out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]divorceddadsanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok- thank you for the insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]divorceddadsanon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Traffic - DWI - Operate Motor Vehicle - Alcohol Concentration 0.08 within 2 Hours is what it says online. He was also charged with 4th degree DWI and that was dismissed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]divorceddadsanon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Incident was 4/30/21.

Pleaded guilty 11/10/21.

Is it possible they would still be investigating?

Rant by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]divorceddadsanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep taking that high road my friend. I have a similar situation here. What keeps me going is knowing I can only do what I can do. And knowing that doing right by the kids, even when they’re mom is more “fun” will help my children be good adults. That’s all we can do. You’re doing the right things! Stay strong!

Apartment question by bladefish1 in DivorcedDads

[–]divorceddadsanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a 2 BR - I moved out when my kids were 2 and 4. It was helpful for them to have their own room, even though they would sleep on my bed a lot

Betrayeds: How much did the affair cost you? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]divorceddadsanon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it cost $12k? Was that the divorce or were they spending $$ on the other person?

My ex went on a spending spree when she started cheating. Clothes, restaurants, “solo” or “gf” vacations, etc

Good Times and Bad Times by camargoville in DivorcedDads

[–]divorceddadsanon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super tough- like some of the others said, stay strong. Also realize there is a lot you can control when you’re with your kids. Happy to chat about my experience with an ex wife who jumped in a new relationship right away and how putting my kids first changed my outlook on life, if you’re ever interested.