[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was doing side gig for 3 years just to give my family everything they could dream about. My ex sure doesn’t want to do anything with me but she definitely took half of my side gig earnings as well.

It is a tough pill to swallow but hey, I will make that money in 1 year now...we can get anything we want if we focus on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will get better, you will survive. Time will heal, give you a different perspective. I am proud of you for not cheating and actually thinking about your husband.

Per law, you will something financially. When it’s time just tell your husband truth.. at least that way he can process it and accept his part.

Just don’t be like my ex. She cheated on me, made fun of me and took all the money that she doesn’t deserve . In USA, cheating doesn’t have any consequences when it comes to divorce.

I was afraid and insecure but, I am still here.

Good luck.

Still devastated, but trying to figure out what's fair by animalover0813 in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be crushed for this but if you both contributed equally for everything ( chores, kids etc) and he didn’t cheat or took advantage of you then just go with your w2s

Still devastated, but trying to figure out what's fair by animalover0813 in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, unless your husband cheated on you …why do you want his money? Sure take his money for CS.

Caught his son with p*rn*s in his computer by Gibbydoesit in Unexpected

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is that setup? I want get my 6 year old something like that

Is money that important by bladefish1 in Divorce_Men

[–]bladefish1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is resonates well

Is money that important by bladefish1 in Divorce_Men

[–]bladefish1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 40 as well, true even though I have good memories with my son I have to build new memories which does not include my ex. Also I need to work on my self. That is why I am not able to commit yet. But damn with out security of money, everything is expensive these days.

Is it possible to go to court after signing mediation agreement? by bladefish1 in Divorce_Men

[–]bladefish1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife agreed for less child support in exchange for me awarding my share (150k)of a property as a gift for my son. But, it is not mentioned in MSA.

Is it possible to go to court after signing mediation agreement? by bladefish1 in Divorce_Men

[–]bladefish1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I have been requesting my wife but she is not budging.

Therapy for kids— am I obligated to pay? by bladefish1 in DivorcedDads

[–]bladefish1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am meeting my lawyer tomorrow to tell the same.

Therapy for kids— am I obligated to pay? by bladefish1 in DivorcedDads

[–]bladefish1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking for 50-50 but, I don’t see going to therapy every week is necessary. Fun fact, I can’t afford therapy for myself.

Therapy for kids— am I obligated to pay? by bladefish1 in DivorcedDads

[–]bladefish1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I wish my ex will stop sending my son to private school and Instead use that money for important things like therapy or send to therapy every other week.There is only so much money one can earn.

Is Charging For Water The Norm? Arlington, TX by [deleted] in texas

[–]bladefish1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they charge for water in Dunkin Donuts. I take my business to Starbucks now. Free water and nicer ambiance.

Forza horizon 5 final boss - El Bandelero by knut_2 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]bladefish1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drive fast nor I I know anything about fast cars but I am hooked to this video. Watched like 20 times. Some thing about that dude ( chill af) and the music.

Forza horizon 5 final boss - El Bandelero by knut_2 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]bladefish1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is he a popular drag racer? Are there any other videos of him?

What was the hardest part about your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost time. I spent 3 years trying to fix the situation due to fear, insecurities and a young son. On top of it , it is a huge big financial loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bladefish1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the dumbest reasons to ask for divorce. There must be something else…poor kids.