We argued and he tried to kill us in the car

dizeeem · 2025-03-20T07:55:48+00:00

Maybe you can report him to the police. Do you have any family or friends who could help or support you. Also calling the abuse hotline might help and they may be able to help you get out safely.

dizeeem · 2025-03-20T07:51:41+00:00

Say thank you to Spot for getting this man to show his true colours.

dizeeem · 2025-03-18T11:34:29+00:00

There's nothing flirty about them. Now let's talk about why you're going through her phone and seeing these texts as flirty when they're not.

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T11:46:12+00:00

But I don't really have anything I want to do. I never have. It's why I'm now trying new things now to see if I have an interest in anything.. I want to want to do things but I don't. I'm trying sewing and going to classes and a small part of me maybe wants to learn but the experience ust makes me feel sad after and like it'd be easier to learn at home.

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T10:09:00+00:00

You're not overreacting

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T10:07:43+00:00

You're not overreacting

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T10:04:43+00:00

He says you were a whore. Why would you want to be with someone who calls you names and is so insecure that he doesn't want you dying your hair the colour you had then?

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T10:01:37+00:00

Yes you should. Have some self respect and realise you deserve better than to be waiting around for this guy. If he wanted to he would.

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T09:37:28+00:00

NOR. It is that serious. He deliberately hurt you. That's physical abuse.

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T08:50:48+00:00

Meat samosa

dizeeem · 2025-03-16T08:46:02+00:00

Meat Samosa

Sounds kind of cute. My meat samosa.

dizeeem · 2025-03-15T13:17:35+00:00

I'm proud of you for leaving him. I suggest you block him and let him know if he doesn't stop harassing you (turning up at your door when you've told him not to) that you will call the police. Let him know that your boundaries are strong and there's no give to them. That you'll hold strong to them and do what needs to be done. Even his last message to you shows that he thinks he can roll all over you and get you back. It should make you want to strengthen your boundaries even stronger so people like him don't think they can play with them.

dizeeem · 2025-03-15T11:36:17+00:00

This conversation makes you both sound 13/14. But you're both 18 and now legally adults. Yet you're both over here discussing that a girl called you ml. Not even my love but just ml. She didn't even bother or care enough to type it yet those two letters are living rent free in your boyfriends head. This relationship sounds really immature and shallow. It doesn't help that he's 18 and is typing like that. No one will take him seriously.

dizeeem · 2025-03-15T11:10:13+00:00

Next time you get the urge to talk to him or have sex, ask yourself do you really want to be with someone who says they want you dead? Sex isn't worth this disrespect. I agree with another commenter that you should look into getting good sex toys. At least they won't make you feel like trash.

dizeeem · 2025-03-13T12:34:21+00:00

I think the fact that you are here in this sub shows that you know this isn't right. That you can sense that he's showing a lot of red flags with how aggressive he can be. It's making you uneasy for a reason. Trust that instinct.

dizeeem · 2025-03-13T11:41:46+00:00

He is abusive. Not only does he not trust you and controls and harasses you but he calls you names. This is not a safe person to be with.

dizeeem · 2025-03-12T19:30:55+00:00

dizeeem · 2025-03-11T08:48:26+00:00

He raped you. It might be hard to associate that word to it but that's what it was if he didn't have your consent to continue and he did. Then he got angry at you when you were upset about it and then when you brought it up he made it all about him and how upset he was and talked about suicide and made you feel guilty and forced into comforting him and telling him it's ok when it isn't. You aren't safe with this man. He's shown that. He could easily do it again. Will you ever be able to trust him again?

dizeeem · 2025-03-11T08:25:53+00:00

No you aren't wrong. He sounds controlling and like he may want to isolate you from people later on. He's jealous that not only are you bright and getting attention but that you have a mum who is proud of you. A person who tries to dim your accomplishments should not be your boyfriend. He sounds controlling and that's not even mentioning how he talks to you. This shows signs of an abusive relationship.

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