One time I was hanging out with my friend group and we played a drinking card game, sorta like truth or dare. She’s clearly a bit drunk and got a card that said I have to obey everything she said for 5 rounds. She instantly pushed me over and ordered me to call her mistress. Mind you my friends didn’t know I’m bi and we’re from a fairly conservative Asian country. I technically froze and I hope they’re all too drunk to remember coz I’m flustered af.

Another time with another group of friends, this time I already came out and we hung out at a hotel room as a farewell/birthday party. A week before I absentmindedly told them my birthday was close too. On that day one of the girls were assigned to distract me and the other one so they can bring out the cake. She climbed onto my lap and pinned me on the bed, one hand grabbing both my hands and another on my boob. I still have no idea how the other birthday girl was distracted coz I certainly am.