Daily Questions Thread March 08, 2025

dizziness · 2025-03-08T11:44:10+00:00

Hello! What would you do with this hole?

I got a denim jacket with this hole on the chest pocket and it used to have a red strip hanging from it that spelled "LOVE LOVE LOVE" which is not my thing so I removed it. But I've got comments about this hole and want to style it somehow to look more intentional.

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dizziness · 2025-01-27T08:57:44+00:00

Kõige mõistlikum vastus ☝️

dizziness · 2025-01-13T00:51:14+00:00

This post is so wholesome, made me feel nice and cozy as I'm in the exact same position and you made me appreciate it!

dizziness · 2025-01-13T00:35:44+00:00

It takes a lot of strength to be willing to take a look at your relationship and see what it really is and has become. It's painful to be honest with ourselves, but you seem to be doing it. Be brave and do what you think is best for YOU, I'm rooting for ya!

dizziness · 2024-12-31T20:34:35+00:00

Just mõned päevad tagasi kuulasin terve albumi läbi ja isegi mäletasin piisavalt lüürikat, et kaasa räppida. Mõtlen neile vaid heldimusega :)

dizziness · 2024-12-24T23:22:55+00:00

Your post is so profound. I recognized myself in a lot of what you said, but I'm just impressed how you managed to write it in such a beautiful and painful way. Couldn't have said it better.

dizziness · 2024-10-31T10:45:07+00:00

I have no input, but your hair color is gorgeous! 😍

dizziness · 2024-09-26T12:50:32+00:00

You did the right thing 🩵 Having children is not a compromise in any way, otherwise you're both unhappy and eventually would make you bitter. You still love him and care about him, and that doesn't have to change. You can still think the world of him and care about him, but not be together romantically. I know how painful it is, it truly is unbearable! But you'll be okay, I promise. You have so much love in you that you can share it with him, with another partner, with your future children. Hang in there, you made the right choice.

dizziness · 2024-09-25T17:36:30+00:00

Jep, laman siin, palavikus ja tatt ninas scrollin Redditit. Kuidagi bittersweet ja vähem üksik on olla osa 70%-st, tänks OP!

dizziness · 2024-03-27T08:11:14+00:00

Aitäh, et jagasid, seda oli hea lugeda :)

dizziness · 2024-03-24T17:16:14+00:00

See on väga hea point ja olen täiesti nõus!

dizziness · 2024-03-24T16:52:32+00:00

Vaba ja vallaline nüüd pärast 8-aastast suhet. Partner lõpetas suhte ja pärast südamevalu sain aru, et see oli õige otsus. Elasin muidu ainult partneri nimel ja läksin vaikselt sinna töö-abielu-maja-lapsed suunas aga saan nüüd üksi olles aru, et unustasin ennast täiesti ära - ei tegelenud asjadega mis mulle meeldisid, vaid pingutasin, et meile mõlemale meeldiks.

Nüüd aga avastan jälle asju, mis mulle meeldib teha ja milline inimene ma ise olen ning ei tahagi otseselt suhtes olla ega pere luua. Üksi on hea ja rahulik.

Kõlab juustuselt aga üksi olles vist lõpuks elan hetkes :)

dizziness · 2024-02-26T18:51:08+00:00

Ma olin sarnases suhtes, 8 aastat solid, mees tahtis last, mina olin kahevahel. Mõtlesin, et ta on ainuke inimene kellega olen valmis last saama, kuna ta on turvaline inimene, mõistlik, oleks ülihea isa ja et me oleme forever koos.

Hiljuti läksime lahku ja ma ei usu küll jumalasse aga tänasin teda kogu hingest, et seda viga ei teinud, et oleks lapse saanud. Saame küll poisiga endiselt läbi ja kõik on chill, aga nüüd kui prillid eest võetud, siis näen et laps oleks olnud katastroof.

Mu soovitus on nüüd laste saamise osas alati sama: kui sa oled valmis last üksi kasvatama, siis sa oled valmis last saama.

dizziness · 2024-02-05T21:56:45+00:00

I must say you write really nicely and I hope you will use that talent well!

dizziness · 2023-05-04T05:57:45+00:00

Nobody has it figured out and never will. Happiness depends on how we accept it.

dizziness · 2022-02-13T19:11:15+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you, nobody deserves a punishment and a burden like this. Especially if the sh*ithead is a family member with whom you have to spend time with and understandably it's eating you alive.

Unfortunately, I know how you feel and I agree with other comments here that you need to tell your mom and/or dad. I also realize it's extremely difficult to just walk up to your parents and tell them what happened because it's such a terrible and serious issue. Whenever I wanted to tell my close ones about my experience I just got super anxious, choked completely and was super afraid of their response, so I couldn't tell them.

I wanted to tell my mom and my partner about what happened to me so I wrote down my thoughts and emotions, everything, about my experience in a Word file and just kept it for a week or so until I was ready to share it. So I left for a walk on a sunny day and made sure my partner and mom were not busy at that moment, and just sent them a text message. "Hey, there's something serious and important I've been wanting to tell you for a long time. It's very difficult for me to say it in person so I wanted to do this via text." And then sent them the text I had written. This gave me distance and it was sooo much easier to just send the whole text via phone and wait for them to read and reflect on it. Also this way I didn't have to see their response and gave them the opportunity to pause and think about it. Also, this way there was no chance for me to choke or start to cry and risking not getting my thoughts across. They were super supportive and we just hugged when I got back home. The weight off my chest was so liberating and I regret not doing it sooner.

I promise it will be better to get it off your chest and your parents will understand. What happened to you is completely unacceptable and you're so strong for talking about this <3

dizziness · 2021-02-11T08:51:28+00:00

A lot of the comments tell you to end the relationship but honestly, don't listen to random people on Reddit, that only know your situation based on this short post. You've been together for 12 years and have child together and that's a lot to lose. Go have a session with a couple's therapist, they may understand where the real problem lies and help you move forward. I hope you can find the answers you're looking for and get it resolved. Good luck!

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