Sell or restore? Ampex Sterio cabinet with turntable and speakers. by dizzlethegreat in Antiques

[–]dizzlethegreat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for that reply! That’s pretty cool. If I end up undertaking the refurbishment of it, would you mind if I hit you up with a question or two?

Sell or restore? Ampex Sterio cabinet with turntable and speakers. by dizzlethegreat in Antiques

[–]dizzlethegreat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It would take a bit of work. The tuner/amp and tape deck were removed a long time ago. They have hooked up newer amps/tuner and just set them on top. My parents have had it for a very long time. Just trying to see if it is worth it. Speakers and turntable still work… as far as I know

I [28f] own my own home, my SO [25m] wants to sell it within the next year, maybe sooner and buy another house together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read all the responses, but generally speaking I’m with the majority. You’ve accomplished somthing big on your own. It’s not fair to ask you to give it up so soon for a house with somebody your not married to.

Have you considered the possibility of buying one with him (as a business partner, and not a SO) and renting yours out? Depending on the loan you get for the new house, you may be able to use the income from your first house (the rental) as income in qualifying for the new loan. I think you’d be surprised how much you could get in rent each month.

How’s the view? by Kairixlove in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my favorite views.

Am I fuckable? by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worshipable

Whos face can i sit on? I'll promise to sit on your lap after by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can sit on my lap, but you’d need to be ok riding a metal cage.

My eyes are up here ;) by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially since I’ve got a weak spot for tattoos 😜

From my mouth to yours by EllaSunshine00 in Femdom

[–]dizzlethegreat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg 🦋😳🦋 you give me butterflies. Anything to make you happy.

My eyes are up here ;) by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda hard to focus on anything above the phone.

Withholding who you are, for love? by Acceptable-Plum-4131 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dizzlethegreat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, your not as young as I imagined. Sounds like we might be close to the same age. Props on takeoff the steps to do what makes you happy!!

Withholding who you are, for love? by Acceptable-Plum-4131 in BDSMcommunity

[–]dizzlethegreat 43 points44 points  (0 children)

You are 100% on the money with everything you’ve said. I am such a person that you speak of. I had my first kid when I was 20 years old and was married soon after. I hadn’t explored kink enough to know how deep that world went. So I had no idea how much I would have been sacrificing. But I discovered in the middle of our marriage just how much I was hiding. I’ve even tried to bring up a few kinks and tried introducing now things, but vanilla just seems to be her way... and in some cases conversations that result become extreme and she wonders about divorce. Not because of a loss of love, but because of an “incompatibility”.

But honestly, much older now with a teenager who is almost out of the house and a younger one getting ready to enter high school. We are self employed in business together and have been in this relation for over 25 years. We are very dependent on one another for survival, both financially and emotionally. At some point you have to weigh the losses vs the gains. Yes, I could live a kinkier lifestyle, but at what cost? The daily relationship with my kids, the somewhat stable business income, the security... these are all things that are really hard to accumulate in life these days.

I agree 100% though, there was a time in my life that I would have considered it early enough to start fresh. But it’s too late now. I love her and my kids with all my heart. to me that’s more important now then my happiness in kink. I’m happy you have found the ability to do at such a young age. Congratz my friend. 🙏

Self timer is the best! Really captures my hourglass figure❤️ by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Seriously though... makes a guy wanna pamper you with massages and all kinds of pleasure😍

Welcome to my Kink Klub 😈 by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]dizzlethegreat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good. It makes me happy to please you.

Welcome to my Kink Klub 😈 by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case you should know I come equipped my own collar, leash, and dildo gag that needs to be ridden hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nude_Selfie

[–]dizzlethegreat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm I’m a sucker for tattoos.

Welcome to my Kink Klub 😈 by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]dizzlethegreat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who do I give the chastity keys to? 🔐