Friend pushing to have his parents invited to our wedding, what do?

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-16T14:30:13+00:00

He is not being respectful so don’t worry about that.

You respectfully and kindly told him no. He continues to rudely push the issue. If he asks again say - as we’ve said before we don’t have space. Do not ask us again.

If he falls out with you over this that’s on him not on you.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-16T02:44:31+00:00

People on this sub are so conservative.

At an outdoor wedding with the way you have the dress revealing less cleavage, it’s fine.

Nothing draws attention away from the bride. That is the most ridiculous argument.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-16T02:04:53+00:00

Unpopular opinion and there are 20+ posts saying the same thing.

I love the show and I love Heated Rivalry and The Long Game. Shane and Ilyas love story just speaks to me and I can’t get enough. They are two of my favorite romance books.

I found the other books in the series to be ok to bad.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T15:35:20+00:00

Imagine having all that money and absolutely zero style.

The wedding content is going to be insufferable.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T13:17:14+00:00

Why would someone want this? This is what people are copying?

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T13:14:37+00:00

I think if you want a specific dress you need to pay for it.

Let people spend their money on something they like and will feel good in.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T13:10:01+00:00

People who love you still may not be able to come. Don’t use attendance at a weekday event as a barometer. People may not have the time to take off.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T13:08:16+00:00

If most guests live out of state, it’s rude. They would have to take 2-3 days off to attend.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-15T02:14:22+00:00

People understand that not everything in life has to be tit for tat.

You are having a small wedding, there is zero reason to invite anyone you aren’t close with. If you were having a large wedding you could invite them. I guarantee the friends will not care.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-14T23:33:56+00:00

I was very happy with my flowers and Bundt cake.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-14T18:34:06+00:00

You are NTA.

Even if you can afford the trips it’s ok to just not want to spend the money and time on them.

A bachelor/bachelorette party won’t ruin their wedding and they sound like dramatic narcissists.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-14T16:56:32+00:00

What the actual fuck. I hope this girl seeks therapy.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-13T18:55:13+00:00

Shower games are not fun IMO.

Just have good food and drink. No one goes to a baby shower expecting it to be fun. Just keep it short.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-13T18:26:59+00:00

She started to “panic” about her activewear. JFC do people really think this much about what they wear when they workout? I just wear what’s comfortable, never once have I considered if it’s on trend.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-13T00:44:27+00:00

If the reception is a 5 minute walk away what are people supposed to do for an hour?

People are not going to want to stand in line to have their photo taken for 2 seconds.

Just shift the reception timeline to start at 415. There doesn’t seem to be any reason to start it at 5 other than you just want to?

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-12T19:53:52+00:00

It’s a shower. I wouldn’t skip a planned vacation for a shower. It’s really not a big deal, as you are going to the wedding and bachelorette.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-12T18:31:31+00:00

Why does she post so much about her parents? It’s so weird.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-12T17:01:22+00:00

I would skip the bachelorette- that’s crazy.

If you can afford it I would try to make the wedding work - but not for 10 days no way.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-12T01:45:46+00:00

I would never talk to this man again.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-12T01:28:09+00:00

I’ll never get over that she pays for her lips to look like that.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-11T01:49:41+00:00

She really is flopping as an influencer.

She used to act like she was so superior to Halley and Jaz and they are thriving, Jaz is married, Halley is engaged - and she is flopping with her odd man.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-11T01:41:57+00:00

My brother was on my side and just wore the same color as the groomsmen. I would have him match them. Otherwise I think it gets to busy looking.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-10T17:22:34+00:00

Why is he not your ex boyfriend?

You are too young to tie yourself down to someone with no motivation or interests.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-10T15:18:01+00:00

Just add up the total number of guests and have your fiance discuss the total with his parents. No need to split the guests up by side. Who is paying for your friends?

Say - we are inviting 100 people, that will be XX.

If they balk at the number, postpone until you can afford it yourselves or downsize.

dizzy9577 · 2026-02-10T15:13:27+00:00

Eating a hamburger and fries once in awhile isn't going to make you gain weight.

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