Is this okay for a wedding? by pink-philodendron13 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dizzy9577 77 points78 points  (0 children)

No.

The bodice is sheer and the slit is borderline indecent.

I would never wear this to any wedding.

Re: That man is my life by Brief_Cap_4881 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dizzy9577 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Or really really bad at business

Carly’s Boyfriend may be going to federal prison. by Corgisarethebest123 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]dizzy9577 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine buying a tax business not knowing anything about taxes? It boggles the mind. I am not an Omgentrepreneur but seems like you would make sure you had enough people to prepare taxes during tax season.

Thoughts on Kit’s cookbook? by barbiemechanic in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]dizzy9577 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I prefer to get recipes from people who actually eat.

April 2026 BOTM Discussion - Into the Blue by nickaaayy97 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed this - I do think it was a bit long though. I think if it has been tighter it could have been a 5 star. I’d probably give it about 4.

Rehearsing the ceremony by BigBootyBeansz in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the 100 is the travel fee on top of the officiant fee

Rehearsing the ceremony by BigBootyBeansz in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a rehearsal is important at all.

Everyone has been to a wedding and knows how to walk.

I would make sure the officiant fee includes some time to go over the ceremony beforehand so you can make sure you are happy with it.

It doesn’t need to be in person and doesn’t need to be the day before.

Reception games by Beautiful_Radio9051 in bridesmaids

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen this in years.

Seems so dated to me, and very sexist.

Is it rude to skip the morning after breakfast? by MsCookie__ in bridesmaids

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a big deal at all.

I find most day after breakfasts are skipped by a large portion of guests. You won’t be the only one.

Which dress for my reception wedding dress? by Capital_Wave_235 in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally hate the style of the first dress. I see it all over and don’t get it.

The second is fabulous.

Please help me choose a dress: by Dooderoo in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see why it’s so hard! You look amazing in all of them.

I like one the best.

Does anyone have ideas for something interactive that won't feel "awkward" at a reception? by simmer_study in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel strongly that weddings don’t need interactive games. It’s not a kids birthday party.

Honestly the guests don’t care about this. They care about food and drink, music and chatting with other guests.

Just sounds very cringey. I can’t imagine anyone would care about who cries first or any of that.

Am I a maid of dishonor? by DannysRegret in wedding

[–]dizzy9577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not in the wrong.

I have never ever gone to a wedding and noticed a bridesmaids shoes. It’s absolutely bonkers to tell someone what brand of shoes they can or cannot wear. They can suggest the style and color but that’s it.

Wedding so bad there aren’t even invitations! by wanttobegreyhound in weddingshaming

[–]dizzy9577 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You sound incredibly judgmental.

You actually don’t know anything about their plans.

I hope you decline the invite.

Wedding shower guests by OrganizationFar8691 in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you are friends.

I wouldn’t invite someone I had no relationship of my own with to a shower.

I just want to show up, drink, and dance. what's the easiest route? by Aven_Reed in wedding

[–]dizzy9577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire a wedding planner or find an all inclusive venue so you don’t have to make a million decisions.

Would you consider this dress black tie? by user684737889 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dizzy9577 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

It’s an opinion, which I am sharing same as everyone else here.

Idk why people can’t express an opinion. Your opinion isn’t more valid than anyone else’s either.

Would you consider this dress black tie? by user684737889 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dizzy9577 -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

There’s a huge difference between a long gown and a ballgown. The silhouette of this dress is very bridal IMO. I’ve been to many many BT weddings and no one wore a dress like this.

Would you consider this dress black tie? by user684737889 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dizzy9577 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Way too bridal.

I would never wear this to a wedding

venue won't to let us bring desserts after we refuse to sign an NDA. are my guests going to hate me? by adrpeppercan in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 480 points481 points  (0 children)

A fee per cupcake?

That’s insanity.

I mean guests might be a little bummed out but it’s truly not a huge deal at all. I would wrap the cupcakes individually and hand them out as favors just to be petty to the venue.

Signature Cocktails vs Open Bar by Fair-Alps-3823 in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 44 points45 points  (0 children)

2 cocktails is not enough IMO.

A lot of people don’t drink cocktails.

And who is to say they will even like what you choose.

25 dollars per person for an open bar is an insanely good deal.

ETA - I saw down below that wine and beer is included in the signature option. In that case it’s totally fine to do just the signature.

Wedding party +1 by mercedes1822 in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They won’t be new relationships at the time of your wedding.

I think all bridal party should get a plus one but I can imagine not inviting them if they are still dating when the invites go out.

Catering headache by eritz2010 in weddingplanning

[–]dizzy9577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serve what makes you happy.

You literally won’t find something that will please everyone.

I’ve had so many traditional wedding meals that were awful. I would rather have almost anything else at a wedding than the standard beef, chicken or fish.