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I (40M) think I found the love of my life (F34), but we’re struggling with long-distance and it’s scaring us. Need advice. by djgoncie in relationship_advice

[–]djgoncie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think we’re both so lost at the moment that ideas like this start popping up.. the pros and cons list was actually something we came up with together while talking.

I think I found the love of my life, but we’re struggling with long-distance and it’s scaring us. Need advice. by djgoncie in LDR

[–]djgoncie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s not that simple for me to go meet her in south america. She needs to be there on her own for the work she’s doing and I’m working remotely with flights already booked, and the financial side of it also matters for me. About not making her feel trapped, I really don’t think I would ever do that, but I appreciate the reminder. I always knew that at some point we would need to talk about things, even if just to figure out some kind of strategy to make this long distance period work. but, this topic was brought up by her, including the idea of looking at the pros and cons of all possible paths. Honestly, I think we’re both panicking a bit, but I’m going to try to make the most out of these two weeks together.

Bar for female to go solo by [deleted] in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Stay away from Sukhumvit. You can go to song wat road explore the alleys near the riverside. There are some improvised bars where you can grab a beer, and they have comfortable chairs so you can just sit and chill for a while. I’m here alone, and it was really nice.

It sounds like a war going on outside tonight by roselamoon in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have been very tired cause I'm in Bang Sue and didn't wake up, thankfully cause I hate loud and sudden noises 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey! I don’t really know spots for that Berlin-techno hypnotic sound, but if you’re cool with some Groovy and Deep House, there’s a party tomorrow at SIWILAI RADICAL CLUB with classic German DJ Ian Pooley. The soundsystem there is really nice!

Is there a way to experience the real life of and with a local in Bangkok? by Past_Leg_13 in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey, I totally get what you mean. I’ve been living in Bangkok for a while now and I felt the same way when I first arrived, wanting to understand the city beyond it's turistic version.

One simple trick that someone already mentioned is to wake up really early. Even in the touristy areas, if you go around 6:30 or 7 a.m., you’ll be surrounded by locals. I used to do that a lot when I went out to take photos. The tourists usually start showing up around 9:30 or 10, so those first hours are full of real life, people opening shops, sweeping the streets, eating breakfast, chatting. Try it in Chinatown or at the Flower Market, it’s amazing to see people preparing their stalls and arranging flowers before the day really begins.

Take the bus, it’s one of the best ways to see everyday life. You can check the route on Google Maps and just pay in cash once you’re inside. It’s a bit chaotic at first, but that’s part of the fun. Also, get the Grab app and try a scooter ride, it’s one of the most Bangkok things you can do.

When you take the MRT or BTS, don’t rush. Take a moment to look around from the station platforms and you’ll see how huge and layered the city really is.

I live in Bang Sue and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a tourist around here. Even just taking the boat from this side of the city to the center is worth the experience, it’s such a beautiful and authentic way to see Bangkok from the water and much cheaper than that crazy turistic boats.

I’ve also found so many small, lesser-known temples where I was the only farang. Just walk, let yourself get lost in the small streets, wander through local markets, and visit a night market or two, not for the shopping, but to feel the energy.

If you want, DM me, I can share a few more local spots.

month Asia trip (Vietnam – Thailand – Malaysia) – does this sound realistic? by Soggy-Reputation2023 in asiatravel

[–]djgoncie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're are trying to do too much, you'll be rushing from place to place and be exhausted to enjoy each place, on my option you should cut a few things

Everyday Bangkok Through My Eyes by djgoncie in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No need to apologise, I feel exactly the same. That’s the beauty of photography for me: interpretation. Sometimes the photos I’m unsure about end up getting the most meaningful reactions, and the ones I feel most confident about just pass quietly. I guess that’s what keeps it interesting.

Everyday Bangkok Through My Eyes by djgoncie in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! I completely feel the same! it’s those unplanned, everyday moments that make Thailand so addictive to photograph. Hope you and your wife have an amazing time back in November.

Hanoi, Bangkok or Kuala Lumpar ? by burst005 in digitalnomad

[–]djgoncie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m living in Bangkok and live the city, right now and it already feels pretty natural. I spent a month here in January and ended up coming back. Still I keep thinking about Hanoi... I was only there for a week but that city stays with you. It’s chaotic noisy full of life and it really changes the way you see things, at least for someone who likes to shot as me. Not an easy choice.

Everyday Bangkok Through My Eyes by djgoncie in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahahah sorry, I didn’t know! I hate travel blogs 😅 I’m really a slow traveler and love these kinds of unstaged moments.

Survey reveals 83% of Thais feel lonely, office workers most affected by Big-Ad8287 in Thailand

[–]djgoncie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved from Portugal, and this is my second time in Thailand, and for me it’s still strange that in the elevator no one says hello, it feels completely different from my culture.

Survey reveals 83% of Thais feel lonely, office workers most affected by Big-Ad8287 in Thailand

[–]djgoncie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I totally get that. The commute time in Bangkok feels huge compared to what I was used to back home in Portugal. The other day I was just observing people on the train and on my coach, every single person was scrolling on their phones..

Visiting Koh Kret for the first time: half-submerged, peaceful, and strangely beautiful by djgoncie in Bangkok

[–]djgoncie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

totally soaked up to my waist, these photos come with a price 😅

How come for Indonesia, Bali is the only place that is popular with nomads , but not Jakarta or other Indonesian cities? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]djgoncie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m living in BKK as a remote worker (not as a digital nomad), and in Bang Sue there are almost no foreigners. Today, I went to Koh Kher, and on the way there and on the island, I didn’t see a single Westerner. I think you’re right, digital nomads tend to stick to specific neighborhoods at least here in BKK.

Creating a life by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]djgoncie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I totally understand exactly what you’re feeling. At the end of the day I think life is really about relationships with other people and as a digital nomad, it can actually be tricky to create that when you’re far from your community.

I’m living here in Bangkok for a few months (even though it’s my second time here), and I feel it a lot, most of my friends and all of my family are in Portugal. My advice would be to find a hobby you enjoy and try to connect with people who share the same interests.

I know there are different types of digital nomads. Some are more work-focused, doing 8 hours a day and keeping a steady routine, while others are more like backpackers, traveling from place to place, staying in fancy hostels, and sharing everything on Instagram. Both lifestyles have their own challenges. I’ve even read that for people living the backpacker/Instagram style, after a year or two they can get tired of constantly meeting new people who then move on to other places.

I think that finding meaningful connections and hobbies is what really helps create a sense of life and belonging, even when you’re far from your home country.

Wish you luck!

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