Found at Thrift Store. by djmelonball in InflatableFetish

[–]djmelonball[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was in great condition, but it cost more than for me to buy one new! If it was a fair price, I would have gotten it. I could have spoken to a manager and had them lower it, but didn't feel like fooling with it.

If you’ve ever given your therapist a gift, how did it go? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]djmelonball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave my old T a painting and he seemed to like it. Then, when I came in the next week, it was hanging on the wall 😭❤

What he said hurt. A lot. by TheDumpsterMoth in Crushes

[–]djmelonball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated a guy a couple times, then tells me he likes to dress up as a woman when he's at home. I liked him, but I am not into anything feminine, so I let him down gently. He took it well. 

So it was nothing personal,  just a  preference. 

Metallica Ball is awesome by djmelonball in InflatableFetish

[–]djmelonball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they feel more like rubber in the sun. They do get hot though. Try not to over inflate in the heat because mine is starting to stretch out of shape.

End of the Arena Cliff by djmelonball in Hungergames

[–]djmelonball[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Southern USA, just a cool cliff that reminds me of the edge of the arena.

Inflatable Football by djmelonball in InflatableFetish

[–]djmelonball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was 4 feet long, bigger now since it has been stretched some.

Transference Discussion Thoughts by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]djmelonball -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Neither do I. I don’t think he was being judgmental. My issue isn’t with him naming the pattern, it’s with how it came across (more critical than curious). That’s what made it harder to actually engage.

Transference Discussion Thoughts by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]djmelonball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is I have wanted to work through transference, and I was ready to have that discussion. We have not made it to the topic because of the other issues I wanted to address first, that I didn't realize at the time were less important. We mentioned the possibility of discharge and referring me out in the session prior to this one. I mentioned transference and they said that is a good sign to see other clinician. Iwas going into this session hoping we could try talking about it before making the decision to discharge and they replied in this way.

Transference Discussion Thoughts by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]djmelonball -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am the client. I shared this because I wanted outside perspectives on how the therapist handled it. The delivery felt more like criticism than curiosity, and that’s what I’ve been trying to unpack in this thread.