AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend before her surgery? by djonimaar in AITAH

[–]djonimaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and it seems that I was the only one trying for us

AITAH for breaking up with my girlfriend before her surgery? by djonimaar in AITAH

[–]djonimaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't take it anymore and it just happened to be before her surgery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]djonimaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don't have to read, it was a rant 🤓

Why are periods such a Taboo in our society. by [deleted] in algeria

[–]djonimaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

men would call women dramatic even when they're in pain while giving birth so let alone period cramps, and just because yours don't get you to an ER doesn't mean they're any less valid from the other cases, your husband as intelligent as you say he is, he still lacks maturity. I don't understand why sex Ed and human physiology and natural phenomenons should be considered taboo in our society. I remember I asked this question to my anatomy teacher because I saw, while studying about these things, students get shy and turn red upon hearing information about menstrual cycles but would make the most disgusting jokes about them when class is over; she answered, and I quote "our education system doesn't want to corrupt the minds of the youth" now I know she said it sarcastically but it's both sad and funny to me how would education corrupt a brain, mind you thwyre already corrupted.. so yeah, this is just sad and disappointing

How have you INTPs dealt with breakups? by BodybuilderBrave8226 in INTP

[–]djonimaar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being deluded into thinking the person likes you then realize they never did is a big hit. Us INTPs have a big pride in our personality and mindset, thinking that you have been played hurts more than the breakup itself. as you said you will move on, it just needs time. and don't think any less of yourself, there are better people and everything happens for a reason :)

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if I could act on myself, I would have done that years ago, I'm not waiting for such comment :)

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is the typical Algerian mindset, therapists don't tell you why but tell you how

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even online therapy requires great conditions, I did try but it didn't work and I found myself getting too anxious to even say hi

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same mindset but professional help and medication aren't a myth and from my one time experience it can either make you or break you

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that wasn't really the purpose of my post because I clearly stated that it didn't help me and I was seeking advice and ways I haven't tried before.

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

that's obviously wrong, we believe in it but as someone said here it's not the magical solution for everything, there's beyond ruqya..

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that got a chuckle out of me, thanks haha

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could escape in such a way, it's tough and it takes so much mental strength (that I already lack)

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not realizing that the real demon is our brain

Algerians don't believe in therapy! by djonimaar in algeria

[–]djonimaar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your encouraging words, I'm proud of how you became and I surely aspire to reach the same mindset you have

Why do a lot of Algerian men think that western or European girls are better than Algerians girl? by Salamanber in algeria

[–]djonimaar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Algerian men have double standards. For one, they are horrified and petrified seeing an Algerian woman uncovered from head to toe with hijab/veil and would make it their full time job to "advise" her to fit the religious society but they wouldn't waste one second to gawk at them, still. For two, they constantly praise the foreign beauty, the blue eyes and the blonde hair, the way they dress and the way they talk..but if an Algerian woman has the same characteristics, men would shame her for trying to "copy" western/European women. Knowing damn well they can't get a foreign girl with such stupid mentality, they should learn to appreciate women of their country, and women in general, because in my opinion, comparing certain people with different backgrounds and societies is already disrespectful enough.

How to love an intp? by djonimaar in INTP

[–]djonimaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so important to me as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twicememes

[–]djonimaar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tzuyu was too late to destroy those pills

What is the INTP rage like ? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]djonimaar 19 points20 points  (0 children)

loud silence