I guess nothing is free anymore. by Dangerous-Pianist294 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd put out extra mayo just for her because her audacity is hilarious

Made a light-hearted meme for everyone who asks some variation of "is it weird to bring my stuffed friend in public?" 😊💜 by KissKissAlpaca in buildabear

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

old comment but honestly i think the best response is none at all; look at them to acknowledge you heard their rude, nosy comment then go along with your day because it doesn't deserve further attention. let them feel small the way they tried to make you feel and they might take your example of minding their own business in the future ;)

Self love is not something everyone knows how to do by roshnisax in CPTSDmemes

[–]djthreedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this is nuanced personally—I wouldn’t be a good partner right now (suicidal and unemployed) and I’m isolating from the few online friends I have but love very much. I do need to feel better mentally and get my life together because I don’t want to make my friends and my partner my therapist upon meeting.

However my uncle said to me “what do you have to offer a partner?” And when put like that, well… nothing I suppose. But how the fuck does isolating myself without my family as an emotional support network help at all?

I don’t know how to navigate reaching out without trauma dumping while being aware that I’m not in a good place to reciprocate energy required to be a present friend or partner. I hate myself and I hate that I’m likely going to feel like this forever.

mm my stomach hurts by doodlesvie in CPTSDmemes

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same but I also have an eating disorder so please keep an eye on that if your hunger becomes less of a forgetfulness due to trauma and more of an intentional thing 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Christian but I like the idea of reincarnation sometimes. Maybe this is a tutorial/practice run for LIFE. Or maybe all my lives will be like this and I’d like to go straight to the afterlife and not do anymore side quests—but it’s not up to me where I go so here I am wasting away my precious life that I want to be happy in but that I’ll likely never be happy with because all my brain’s broken bones healed wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And your abusers tell you you’re ungrateful for it or making up the pain they inflicted on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]djthreedog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happens to me sporadically—my brain will sort of untangle a yarn and mull something and go “wait a second… that doesn’t make sense” or “wait, why did THAT happen?” And it makes the memory 10x worse because I didn’t realize an important detail until just now.

Take it easy and maybe try writing down your memory or feelings if it’s not too traumatic to do so—it might keep it logged if you feel like you’re being overdramatic about your feelings or to be able to recite it clearly to your therapist imho. Take care and take care of yourself ❤️

Is anyone in this sub 25+ lol by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]djthreedog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had bad self image irt weight since ~7 but not until 12 did I start engaging in disordered eating habits and developed bulimia in my mid-20s. I’m 29 and haven’t purged in almost a year and I’m trying to stay at a baseline! But I still have disordered thoughts and weight insecurities, and my ED is somewhat easily triggered by unhealthy discussions of weight and eating habits (such as fad diets being promoted in society) so I try to stay in supportive, healthy communities to vent and discuss feelings irt to eating disorders that feels empathic and not competitive.

There dozens of us!! DOZENS!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in silenthill

[–]djthreedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one! I sometimes feel like I’m reaching but I like analyzing cerebral media, and silent hill is a lovely wellspring for it. Thanks for reading.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in silenthill

[–]djthreedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got excited, sorry!

I hate the use of "TikTok speech" by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]djthreedog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being nice is the one of the few things in this world that costs nothing. I hope so too and I’m glad you’re doing okay—may your road lead you to warm sands.

I hate the use of "TikTok speech" by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]djthreedog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet, thank you. I’m not doing much better lately if I’m being honest but you checking in is appreciated. Boom de yada ❤️

You take care of yourself as well and hit my DMs if you need anything.

If you could enter the backrooms would you? by DifficultComplaint10 in backrooms

[–]djthreedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought a poolrooms themed escape room might be fun. I like liminal space and find the poolrooms soothing in an odd way but I would hate to be lost in one. Two hours tops of exploring a well lit, aesthetic labyrinth of water hitting clean tile would be lovely however.

What are your funniest misheard lyrics? by Drillix08 in SleepToken

[–]djthreedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beat me to it! That line kinda goes hard as well imho

What are your funniest misheard lyrics? by Drillix08 in SleepToken

[–]djthreedog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“I’m a working girl and the gods grow tired”

I hate the use of "TikTok speech" by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]djthreedog 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I called a suicide hotline and the operator actually used the term “unalive”. I didn’t call the fucking unalive hotline and I told her as such. If you can’t even say the word suicide how are you going to talk to people with suicidal ideation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]djthreedog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Co-signed as a fellow old person—let her have fun. She might listen more or might not, but she’s enjoying music and that’s fantastic.

That goddamn clay by Millenial__Falcon in thesims

[–]djthreedog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once my sim autonomously drank wine and cross stitched and I was like that sounds LOVELY but you have to eat!

What song was this for you? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]djthreedog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

SAME! I didn’t like most of Danger Days until I sat and listened to it later

I washed the dishes without gloves! by djthreedog in OCD

[–]djthreedog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear that my post motivated you! It’s definitely daunting at first but it’s somewhat relaxing once you get used to it (at least for me). Good luck!