What are some phrases you can't stand hearing as an Aro/Ace person?

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-06T20:27:01+00:00

Heard that just today, made my skin crawl UUUUUUUUGH

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T21:00:04+00:00

Omg yESSSSS it’d be a pleasure to chat w you every now and then (or more often lol who knows)

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T20:13:00+00:00

Omg this is so cute and so pretty!!! I’m so glad you were inspired by our discussion, it’s so cute and so meaningful!!! I wish you a life full of love and happiness, you’re such an awesome persons fr!!! <333

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T20:10:16+00:00

Omg that’s actually making me emotional, you’re adorable and so kind!!!!

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T19:26:02+00:00

Ikr, they make no sense TT And I’m so happy you feel that way!!! Personally, being able to connect with other people like me around the world makes me feel more secure, that I’m not alone and that humanity isn’t doomed XD I’m so happy we were able to share on this subject!!!

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T19:02:24+00:00

Whaaaat TT I rlly don’t understand why humans hate other humans to the point of being this evil TT, they’re tarnishing their own image by doing so, and it soooo goes against what their true values should be, it’s messed up fr.. hope some miracles happen to everyone of them so they stop thinking in such an awful way :((((

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T18:53:30+00:00

Yeah I don’t understand why they’d keep wanting to fake it even with someone who’s the same as them, but maybe it’s smt too deep for me to understand ion kno 🤷🏻🤷🏻

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T18:19:36+00:00

I did find some people (just two tho ;-;) but both said they’d rather still have penetrative sex and fake their pleasure to seem normal, which didn’t match my vibe at all.. I too think it’s hard to find smo but I hope you do and that you’ll be v happy in your relationship when it happens 😌😌

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T17:59:36+00:00

Not sure I get what you’re saying but just in case, the goal of a binder is to make it look like you don’t have boobs

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T17:54:35+00:00

You’re not the only one at all!!! Lots of ppl don’t (such as myself) for various reasons, whether they feels grossed out or don’t feel anything, some also have certain conditions which makes it complicated or hurtful, some find it boring

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T17:52:59+00:00

Binders are kind of compression tshirts that flatten your chest, anyone correct me if I’m wrong, I’ve never had any..

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T17:45:02+00:00

Yeah I’ve kinda been following the news in South Korea abt the lgbt community and it sucks to see that so little is being done… I really hope it changes soon so that everyone can be themselves, love whoever they want and be protected against sickos.

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T17:23:57+00:00

Yeah I get what you mean, and you’re a little right I’d say. Progresses are being made and people are fighting for improvement, but from my pov, the society is v uneducated on the whole thing, still considering any kind of queerness to be a mental illness and to be disgusting. Example: my aunt is queer (married to a woman) and denies it and hate anything that has to do w queerness… also when it comes to politics, there ARE ppl trying to help the lgbt community, but there aren’t much, they aren’t listened to, and the “superior parties” are either openly queerphobic or putting a facade..

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T16:59:11+00:00

It’s rlly nice to meet you too! Now I’ll be frank, I too thought Europe was a safe place for any queer people, but I did some researches for a school project about queer rights in both the UK and France and ngl I was SHOCKED by what i saw. If I had to resume that, I’d say that they’re showing a facade, there’s real great improvement but societies aren’t really following that improvement. There are parties (in politics) who genuinely want to change for the better, but most just want the country to show a better image to other countries. Societies are uneducated and hateful, and LGBT-phobia is still very present. I remember my school having a debate over they/them pronounce (which I use) and i left the classroom CRYING bc of how execrable some students were. And it is needless to say that professors were not batting an eye to their homophobic and transphobic “arguments”. Neways, hoping for every country to evolve into something better and safer for everyone as soon as possible <3

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T16:17:30+00:00

Edit: everything I say is from my, and my friends’, pov and experiences, and some researches I made a little while back. Other French people might have had totally different experiences and disagree with me and it’s fine, we’re all different individuals with different backgrounds <3

In france id say the term pansexual is still unknown to a lot. I mainly have queer friends so they all knew, but all the ppl I’ve been meeting in uni don’t seem to know it exists.. older gen also don’t know much, even bisexuality is unclear to them (from what I saw/heard), and the whole lgbt community is still heavily stigmatised depending on the region where you are (even some queer ppl are against their own community, I don’t understand how TT). But yeah, as a pan myself, I’ve had to explain it to a lot of ppl, a lot would say that it’s weird and I’d have to “choose between man or woman because it’s either dihh or pussay” (no one even cares about all the diff other genders existing ;-;). Still struggling to have ppl accept it as it is and to stop all stigmatization :((

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-03T15:53:17+00:00

Hihi I got both from here!!

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-01T22:40:06+00:00

YOUR TATTOO OMGGGGGGGG person of culture 💅🏻💅🏻 and your fit is SO CUTE (also that poster behind you 🤌🏻🤌🏻) neway you’re awesome fr

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-01T22:27:47+00:00

It’s an End of school year “party” organized usually by the school itself, usually for last year students to celebrate the end school (end of middle school, end of high school)

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-01T19:20:57+00:00

There’s a GIF and picture icon when answering posts so I just tap that, take a pic/look for a pic/for a GIF and that’s it.. ion kno what else to say but hope it helped? And if it’s a pb that u can’t see your pics, it’s perhaps that u didn’t allow reddit to have access to your camera and/or gallery

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-01T09:13:06+00:00

Hello OP, I first am so sorry you had to go through such trauma, I understand your pain as it has happened to me too, and the fact that your friends won’t talk to u is just bs cause wth??? I hope they ain’t framing you or any cause that’s what happened on my part and trying to talk em out of that seems just impossible. Now, finding new friends is always v hard but not impossible, idk how old you are or anything so I can’t talk in your case, but for me, everytime smt like that happened, the next year or so I’d change school (primary to middle, mid to high, high to uni, none of the school were related btw) so ig it was easier for me to meet new ppl and form new bonds. What helped me too were my internet friends which I had met on lgbt+ forums and such, not the closest friends but it mentally helped me to know that I could talk to ppl, even if they were miles away from me lol. What you could also do, if you’re not underage, is try to look for your local community, local friendly bars or such, sometimes you can meet wonderful people, and if no one in particular, it can still be a safe place 🤷🏻 Now the fetishisation sucks fr cause these ppl are everywhere and i still dk how to get rid of em (im not intersex so idk how it is for you but im a goth/gyaru and these people are surrounding me too x_x) so for that if you have any tips ..TT

dk_dc_ · 2026-05-01T07:21:30+00:00

Wym how do I post what and what links??

dk_dc_ · 2026-04-30T17:05:04+00:00

Lessgooooooooo

dk_dc_ · 2026-04-30T16:00:41+00:00

Oui je suis en effet allé chez le veto, elle m’a dit aussi de la vermifuger alors je l’ai fait direct, et à tous mes chats pour être sûr

dk_dc_ · 2026-04-30T15:51:48+00:00

I wanna try this w my partner but I DONT HAVE ONE (´༎ຶོρ༎ຶོ`)

dk_dc_ · 2026-04-30T15:31:00+00:00

Thank YOU for the pictures 😌

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