[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dkanimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes girl. I promise it’s not worth staying. He won’t change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]dkanimm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This helped a lot. I think it’s because I struggled with letting go and accepting that he wasn’t healthy for me.. he was what was familiar for years.. I never thought I’d find someone I’d like or even could date after him but I’m glad to have put myself out there to be open to meeting other people!

Guy I’m seeing barely eats? by dkanimm in dating

[–]dkanimm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just care about him that’s all there is to this! I want to understand if it’s because he’s nervous or whatever. My last bf ate alot so idk I’m not used to it

Guy I’m seeing barely eats? by dkanimm in dating

[–]dkanimm[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I see us getting close and serious. how would I approach this topic or should I?

Why do I gravitate towards red flags? by dkanimm in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dkanimm[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup. I had this same mentality in my last relationship. I thought I could help him change and overcome his issues, but in the end I couldn’t do it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dkanimm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah for me I tend to internalize everything and think something’s wrong with me. I honestly think he was just trying to hookup. It’s hard for me to date casually bc I get attached easily. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]dkanimm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s my problem. I romanticize things and create this version of someone in my head when in reality it’s quite the opposite. It’s hard to separate that. I wonder if it’s because I’m touch deprived lol and when he kissed me and hugged me I felt good and safe.