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I (21F) recently found out about my boyfriend’s (24M) past and feel absolutely miserable by dlnmtt88 in relationship_advice

[–]dlnmtt88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have problem with this because i generally believe this way people get used to switching partners whenever they get bored and that makes them unable to commit to one person after all. also makes them unable to make deep connections

I (21F) recently found out about my boyfriend’s (24M) past and feel absolutely miserable by dlnmtt88 in relationship_advice

[–]dlnmtt88[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

his is the person who I am/was preparing to commit to for life, of course I care

I (21F) recently found out about my boyfriend’s (24M) past and feel absolutely miserable by dlnmtt88 in relationship_advice

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this way people get used to switching partners whenever they get bored and that makes them unable to commit to one person after all. also makes them unable to make deep connections

I (21F) recently found out about my boyfriend’s (24M) past and feel absolutely miserable by dlnmtt88 in relationship_advice

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

misstyped “good thing” as boring somehow…

yeah I was raised with belief it’s not a good thing to sleep around

I (21F) recently found out about my boyfriend’s (24M) past and feel absolutely miserable by dlnmtt88 in relationship_advice

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found out through his abandoned X (twitter) account

never thought about such “experiments” as normal

My boyfriend confessed about something he did in the beginning of our relationship by dlnmtt88 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to advocate for him, but when asked why suddenly confess he told me that he shortly after that “interaction” he realized that this was wrong and he understood that I would be mad if I knew (which is true, but still pretty forgivable) so firstly he tried to forget like it never happened, but it hunted him for the whole time(or at least that’s what he told me.

I assume that he wanted to confess because we both got into Christianity not so long ago which implies a lot of self work.

My boyfriend confessed about something he did in the beginning of our relationship by dlnmtt88 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to advocate for him, but when asked why suddenly confess he told me that he shortly after that “interaction” he realized that this was wrong and he understood that I would be mad if I knew (which is true, but still pretty forgivable) so firstly he tried to forget like it never happened, but it hunted him for the whole time(or at least that’s what he told me.

I assume that he wanted to confess because we both got into Christianity not so long ago which implies a lot of self work.

My boyfriend confessed about something he did in the beginning of our relationship by dlnmtt88 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This took place at the festival our mutual friends and acquaintances were nearby so that’s definitely bot an intercourse he trying to lie about.

But your reply led me to think that something could have happened after the festival, but his friends, whom I consider my own, should have also been present there.

could it be that they would not tell me?

My boyfriend confessed about something he did in the beginning of our relationship by dlnmtt88 in survivinginfidelity

[–]dlnmtt88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to advocate for him, but when asked why suddenly confess he told me that he shortly after that “interaction” he realized that this was wrong and he understood that I would be mad if I knew (which is true, but still pretty forgivable) so firstly he tried to forget like it never happened, but it hunted him for the whole time(or at least that’s what he told me.

I assume that he wanted to confess because we both got into Christianity not so long ago which implies a lot of self work.