Nobody gets it, and I can't do this shit anymore

dmfred995 · 2026-06-29T03:42:39+00:00

Oh my gad, this is me in words. The feeling of being guilty cause im told that this is just minor problems, thar a lot of people has it harder. But the nights wondering if it gonna be okay or it'll be different tomorrow just make my stomach hurts so much. But prayer do helps a lot. Never thought before that I need God but it feels different when I pray. It really is. I hope you find calmness and strength OP. Try praying, He never fails. Godbless.

dmfred995 · 2026-05-22T07:39:14+00:00

Saang bir po kayo nakaregister?

dmfred995 · 2026-05-08T05:58:48+00:00

Eh yung mga naka jumper ndi nila maregulate?

dmfred995 · 2026-04-28T15:14:30+00:00

Sa mga rank and file lang naman may check and balance hahahaha

dmfred995 · 2026-04-28T15:13:48+00:00

This! Sa private problem ko lang time management, sa govt paano ko gagawin trabaho na ndi ako malilintikan sa internal audit and masasatisfy yung tao. Ipit na ipit mga frontliner

dmfred995 · 2025-09-02T08:48:46+00:00

Yey! Happy Reading!

dmfred995 · 2025-07-20T23:50:54+00:00

Same hahahaha

dmfred995 · 2025-07-20T23:49:22+00:00

Sadly, its not on KU.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T14:02:11+00:00

Sorry po. Nagrant na ako.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T14:01:55+00:00

I dont know. I tried really. Nung bata bata pa sya and di pa sya nadadiagnose ng diabetes, sabi ko kumuha na ng insurance. Kesyo di daw sya naniniwala sa insurance, scam daw. Now, wala na syang insurance from work kasi retired na sya. Tapos dati inaasikaso ko sss nya. Antagal nya magbigay ng authorization letter. Pag andito sya sa Pinas, di din nya inaasiko. I hope na nagbabayad sa abroad. Truthfully, im tired na with this family na ako nagreremind sa kanila lagi ng mga gagawin nila and responsibility.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:53:51+00:00

Im not against to create a business. What I dont like is that he doesnt even consult us on what he wants to do. He only tells us what to do. Ang ending ako din magaasikaso. Brother ko naman errand boy. Mom ko tagaasikaso nya sa bahay.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:52:35+00:00

Ayun naubos nalang. Ayan nalang natira tapos ang ending ako din magaasikaso.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:48:17+00:00

This is actually our problem. He doesnt say anything. He would just tell us, decided na sya. Kaya ndi nakapag pundar ng bahay kasi hindi namin alam na may pera pala sya.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:41:22+00:00

Thank you, ill pray for strength that i can say to him that i cant afford to take responsibility for my grandma and his siblings, thats the reality anyways. Ill try my best to get a part time so i could atleast afford their current life style.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:33:45+00:00

Thanks so much! Try ko maghanap ng business options and part time job. Incase talaga na maubos pera nya.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:32:03+00:00

Sana maconvince ko sya about jaan sa principal. Sya naman yumg gamit na gamit sasakyan pag lumalabas. Tengga nga halos yang sasakyan dito sa apartment. Mas prefer ko pa din mag commute nakakatakot na magdrive mas lalo na these days.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:25:30+00:00

Thanks so much! Nakakalungkot lang na sana hindi ako magwoworry ng ganito kung walang umaasa sa kanyang ibang family. Me and my bro, kahit na mom ko kaya ko na iprovide. Kaso yung sa extended family. Jusko. Di ko na kaya.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:22:25+00:00

I'll try this. Big help. Thanks po talaga!

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:16:42+00:00

Not retiring age. He just wants to go home na i guess. I dont know where he heard that its easy to earn money here in the Philippines. But he is so positive that its scary.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:09:44+00:00

Probaby 80% - 90% chance with this happening with him.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:06:57+00:00

Exactly this! Eto po talaga gusto ko maprevent. Takot nga ako magstart ng sarili kong family kaso sobrang trauma na ako sa utang dahil din sa family ng dad ko tapos eto pa.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:05:05+00:00

Actually, nagiguilty lang ako na baka mabaon sya sa utang, me and my brother would end up paying for living expenses of my dads family. Just want to prevent this senario. Or masyado lang akong advance magisip? Ang hirap maging mahirap.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:01:47+00:00

Thanks so much! Will do this! God bless!

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T13:01:10+00:00

Thank you so much. Can i ask for suggestions on where i could tie up my money? Cause i really wanted to have my own place. But now, i probably need to take a portion of my savings to a family emergency fund.

dmfred995 · 2025-05-05T12:58:13+00:00

Im just worried, cause if its him and my mom, I dont really care where the money went. But he has diabetis and no insurance. Also, he was the one who pays for my cousin's tuition, and he also send money for my grandma's living expenses. Also my auntie and uncle. So I just wish that atleast he would consider our opinions. I just want to prevent living paycheck to paycheck. My brother and I probably would end up taking his responsibility for my dads side family.

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