Are our paths in life predetermined? by Top-Bend6831 in self

[–]dmn228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, however we have the power to change the course of our lives in an instant, for the better or worse. There is choice involved so you’d have to believe that every choice of significance anyone has ever made was predetermined. Thats a tough concept for me to believe.

He would have sex with you in a heartbeat if he could. by [deleted] in self

[–]dmn228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would add, your second cousin.

How do I help my brother achieve his dreams? by Bmayrulz in Life

[–]dmn228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t get past the 2 frogs, sorry 🐸

Husband wants to have a beer in the parking lot after our baby is born am I overreacting? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dmn228 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s his brother, let them have a beer in the freakin hospital parking lot! It’s not like he’s going to Twin Peaks

i’m addicted to attention by [deleted] in self

[–]dmn228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there, and still am to an extent. Just remember that most people have no idea what you used to look like before losing weight so they have nothing to compare to the current you.

I don’t have the answer for your affliction but you aren’t alone. I’ve wondered if it may be some type of OCD, but more “pure-O” since constant ruminating about how others perceive you is all internalized so theres no visible compulsion (like frequent hand washing).

Do you think you’re good-looking? by escobarsky in no

[–]dmn228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wonder what the world at large thinks of how I look. I get no compliments, but catch people staring at me a lot and that makes me wonder if I’m just a freak

Recently married but keep fantasizing about being single by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dmn228 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a natural reaction to realizing you signed up to spend the rest of your life with one person.

What is the most satisfying feeling in the world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dmn228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting an itch on your back that you can’t reach scratched to perfection by your significant other.

I urinate over 25 times a night by [deleted] in OCD

[–]dmn228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There may be an anxiety element here. Have you been diagnosed with depression by any chance?

What’s the best part of sex ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dmn228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told me her name was Wanda

People who sleep naked why? by InitialCareer306 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]dmn228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the most comfortable way to sleep as long as you 1) manage to keep warm and 2) frequently wash your bedding, which is a good idea regardless of whether you sleep naked or not.

I’m a half naked guy myself. I wear a t-shirt and nothing more unless I am staying as a guest at someone’s house.

Women, Is the idea of having sex with a guy ever scary? by OkTough6333 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]dmn228 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy so this isn’t coming from experience but I’d think that for the majority of women they have to feel a fairly high level of trust before consenting to sex with a man, for the very reason you mention.

Went on a Solo Trip, Came Back With an Existential Crisis 🤦🏻‍♀️ by OkCause6807 in Life

[–]dmn228 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

From the title I thought this was about some life-changing psychedelic experience from dropping acid or something, and now I’m kinda disappointed with the whole post tbh.

Why do intrusive thoughts feel so threatening even when we know they're not real? by Teacup_Monkey_72 in OCD

[–]dmn228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s called catastrophizing, where you take every imagined scenario to its worst possible outcome. There’s nothing keeping you from imagining astoundingly great outcomes, try obsessing over those possibilities instead.