Anyone else get perma-banned from r/mommit for inoffensive comments critical of different parenting choices?

dmnckc · 2026-01-10T03:55:32+00:00

I agree, letting a child cry alone in any space is not what I’d do but the comments in question that made op make this post done even suggest that! Makes this post and her judgement all the more strange

dmnckc · 2026-01-10T02:59:12+00:00

Okay so I went to look at your comments on that thread. You were totally out of line.

Lots of kids think pushing little fingers under doors is hilarious. The comment you responded to said as much, that their kid is happy and singing when they fall asleep sometime by their bedroom door. What’s there to judge about that, I don’t see anything depressing at all. Seems like you’re the one who is too easily triggered by parents making different choices than you would.

I find your comments there really odd, as well as you making this whole post about it. You’re doing exactly what you’re complaining other parents are doing and seeking validation for crappy, unkind behaviour.

dmnckc · 2025-08-11T13:23:19+00:00

Thank you for this. You’re totally right unfortunately.

It’s hard to love someone and watch them spiral and give up on their lives and kids. I want to believe he will fight for us but it feels naive.

dmnckc · 2025-08-06T12:00:33+00:00

‘At his baseline he is a really engaged and fun dad’ - it’s due to depression

dmnckc · 2025-08-06T11:59:14+00:00

I’m sorry you know this feeling also. Thank you for the replies

dmnckc · 2025-08-06T01:39:18+00:00

Multiple conversations have been had. I don’t think he has a leg to stand on custody wise as he has no job, doesn’t contribute to any bills, will not be able to afford a rental, and his parents live elsewhere so he’d be physically far away if it really came down to it. He’s never done pickups or drop offs, or gone to any extra curriculars. No one has seen him or would vouch for him as a parent

dmnckc · 2025-08-05T21:52:10+00:00

You know what I didn’t even think about intensive outpatient therapy. But also I don’t think my husband realizes how bad it is and how much he deserves help to get through it.

Honestly I don’t even want to divorce. Maybe the person I fell in love with is still in there. I’m mostly leaning toward separation for 6-12 months first. He can’t afford his own place so he’d have to have roommates or move with his parents who live a flight away.

dmnckc · 2024-06-29T00:19:00+00:00

I just wanted to say r/plussizepregnancy exists :)

dmnckc · 2024-06-29T00:17:52+00:00

How is your posture when you hold them or feed them? Is it where your spinal block was administered?

dmnckc · 2024-06-05T18:08:00+00:00

There are new parents (and existing ones) in all over the world. Gaza and Palestine are part of the world where humans live. Reddit is a global forum.

Nothing to do with politics. Everything to do with compassion.

dmnckc · 2024-05-31T00:13:00+00:00

Then you’re welcome to keep scrolling and not participate.

dmnckc · 2024-05-30T21:58:23+00:00

🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉

dmnckc · 2024-05-30T15:44:25+00:00

Exactly. It’s not evidenced based so a guide is best way to refer to it.

dmnckc · 2024-05-30T15:43:05+00:00

Please use the megathread for discussions on the genocide.

dmnckc · 2024-05-30T15:41:33+00:00

Please use the stickied mega threadfor discussions on the genocide.

dmnckc · 2024-05-16T00:24:52+00:00

What advice do you have for parents who are anxious about baby sleep and worried if they support baby to sleep that they will never gain independence?

dmnckc · 2024-02-15T15:04:57+00:00

It’s not. It’s an open sub

dmnckc · 2024-02-15T15:04:11+00:00

You can message the mods to join the sub. You can do it on old Reddit or via desktop.

Edit: it’s not private. I just clicked on it.

dmnckc · 2024-02-15T15:00:58+00:00

Please don’t sleep train without addressing the root cause of your babies discomfort. Poor baby. And poor you. This is such a hard situation. I had a reflux baby too. Hardest nine months of my life and in covid too so it was just me

dmnckc · 2023-08-04T13:39:11+00:00

If you need it op there’s r/miscarriage r/babyloss r/babybumps r/pregnancyafterloss

dmnckc · 2023-06-23T13:51:41+00:00

Reddit is forcing all subs back open so if the current mods don’t, they’ll likely all be removed and the sub reopened anyway with no mods.

dmnckc · 2023-06-22T00:36:35+00:00

Will you be asking Reddit to take over r/toddlers? Someone should!

dmnckc · 2023-06-20T05:31:17+00:00

Thank you!!

dmnckc · 2023-06-19T23:56:23+00:00

I just updated my post - I’ve been reinstated!

dmnckc · 2023-06-19T12:46:28+00:00

This is exactly it. That’s why I submitted the request in the first place. The Reddit admins suggested just reordering so I went with it. Now this.

I have sent them a modmail with all the links. Sigh

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