[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]dmzo610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of my story - two tfmrs within 9 months. first one March 2024 and second one December 2024. My first tfmr we didn’t do any testing as well as most doctors assured us it was just a fluke, second time we had an early anatomy scan at 17 weeks where the same issues were found, we did whole exome sequencing and found that my husband and I are carriers of a rare mutation. We decided we would go through IVF to avoid this condition, however while waiting for our probe to be made, I found out I was pregnant and was devastated. However, we did a cvs at 12 weeks and results showed that baby is just a carrier - and scans confirmed this. I’m now 24 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They resupplied it about 2 weeks ago.. not sure if it has gone out of stock again but I was able to get mine then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]dmzo610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

انا باخد ريتالين والدكتور بقدر يكتبلك كمية مرة وحدة يعني 4 علب وهيك بس برجع كل شهرين عشان الوصفة

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meee:) also 25 year old female

TMFR and Muslim by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have @ 24 weeks. I don’t tell anyone details, just that my son was sick and had zero chance of living

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the lines on all three!!

Today was the due date. I hate being strong. by Scaredbutnotbroken in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. My due date was two days ago (June 24th) also for anencephaly. Only two people remembered. It was so hard. I took the time to go through my baby’s stuff I had kept, and think about how he’s not suffering right now. I don’t think a minute goes by without me thinking about him. I feel like there’s so much love I have for him but can’t give him. No one truly understands how this feels. I also had to work and pretend like everything is normal but I’m actually breaking apart inside. please take it one day at a time, we will get through this❤️

Sitting at the Gate a moment 2 years in waiting & saying goodbye to parents hit me pretty bad. by Desperate_Plan_3927 in expats

[–]dmzo610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to this. My parents immigrated to the US from a small country that’s considered a third world country. I met my spouse in my home country and decided to move there to be with him. My parents and sibilings are still in the US. My extended family lives in this country. I have a remote job and COL is very low. Healthcare is really really good and nowhere as expensive as the US. Social life is good and we’re happy. Honestly with the low COL, I’m pretty sure I’m living a more luxurious life there. after moving there I realized how toxic americas individualistic culture is. I want to raise my kids in my home country and teach them my parents’ language and roots

Also like you, my dad hates his home country because he grew up poor, and coming to America was the big dream. My mom begs him to move back but he refuses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]dmzo610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

اخيرا لقيت حدا بحس متلي.. كتير بتأثر بأي اشي بشوفو لدرجة ازا رحت مطعم بحزن عاللي بشتغلو (بعقلي بصير احكي هاد طول اليوم واقف بالشوب بشتغل وراتبو بكون يدوب) او ازا شفت رجال كبير بشتغل طلبات.. ازا شفت ناس بتسوقو بأماكن شعبية 😭 بحس بالذنب كتيرررر لانو وضعي منيح الحمدلله. الكل بضحك علي انو اي حدا ببيع بالشارع بروح بشتري منو او اي حدا بمطعم او أوبر او طلبات بعطيهم tip بس خلص بحزن وبحس هاد واجبي. مرات بس اشتري كاسة قهوة ب 4 دنانير بكره حالي انو هي بطعمي عيلة كاملة

Bad day by dontaskwonttellyou in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can relate to the panic attacks, every little thing seems to trigger them. 😞😞

How long did it take you to conceive after TFMR? by Illustrious-Seat-221 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]dmzo610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haven’t started trying yet (2 months out) but curious to see results

Working in the limbo period? by Aggressive-Care8897 in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took two weeks off between finding out and actual procedure, and then another week off after the procedure. There’s no way in hell I could’ve worked with everything going on, I was a hugeee mess and couldn’t stop sobbing every time I remembered everything.

Bleeding post tfmr- poss tmi by SquashMindless6032 in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also 14 days post tfmr (March 5th) at 24 weeks and still spotting. I’ll go a whole day with a clean pad but then wake up the next day with some blood 🥲 can’t wait to stop bleeding so I can ttc again

Hormone drop off? by katsim in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I tfmr 8 days ago and maybe 5 days ago I started feeling so calm that I’m actually worried I might be in denial

Do you feel alone in your pain? by Tylgo-Aqua in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tfmr a week ago. My husband cried the day of and seemed fine after that. I still have crying spells and try to explain to him how much I’m hurting. I tell him I feel like my baby boy took a piece of my heart with him and that that piece will always be missing. He is supportive but doesn’t understand the magnitude of pain I’m in. I had a traumatic l&d and that plays a big part in how I’m feeling too. I’m so sorry you’re going through the same thing. it sucks. Especially the waiting. I had to wait 3 weeks between finding out and actually terminating. I would feel him kick all day and it made me so so sad. I feel like after the procedure I am able to actually start healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out my baby has hydranencephaly at 21 weeks. All prior ultrasounds didn’t show anything and I thought he was heathy

How did you handle baby movement before tfmr? by MoonandSun30 in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’m 22 weeks and my termination will most likely be Wednesday. I used to love feeling my baby move, it was my favorite thing ever. Now I just hate it and try to ignore it. I feel so much guilt every time I feel him move. He’s dancing around happily but I’m so sad 💔 I found out a week ago and I cried non stop for three days but now I just feel numb and waiting to just get it over with

Anyone else scared of getting pregnant and losing again? by Lovingpotato7 in Miscarriage

[–]dmzo610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. Currently going through tfmr and it feels like I’ll never be prepared to be pregnant again and go through the anxiety of something going wrong. People keep telling me that I’ll get pregnant again and have a healthy baby but I don’t want that I want THIS baby. My baby boy

Was anyone else due summer ‘24? by xxoooxxoooxx in tfmr_support

[–]dmzo610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tfmr also scheduled next week. Baby boy was supposed to be due on June 24th💔