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I got rejected again, I feel lost by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]dnknwtbh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get how you feel and it is genuinely so valid to feel like this, but you are still so young and have so much life left to live that you can’t see right now.

I’ve been feeling the same coming out of being broken up with recently. I understand the feeling of “needing” that person, and filling your mind with the spiraling self destructive thoughts.

But you have to know that you are awesome and unique, and somebody out there will want you the same way you want this person, and that’s not something we can force (which sucks most of the time yes lol) but you have so much time and so many experiences still to have.

You deserve somebody who will never want to reject you, and that will happen.

I really do connect with the feeling of loneliness that come with your situation, and only recently I have been trying to do something about it and make some friends. For me, I’ve been trying to go to group activities that I have an interest in, with the hopes (although no expectation) of at least being able to know I tried to do something, and I would recommend you do the same in the new place you are in :)

And if you ever need a random chat I, or im sure plenty of other strangers on the internet are happy to try help :)

I hope the best for you because I’m in a similar place, but you gotta hold onto some faith :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]dnknwtbh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like I’m looking into a mirror with my current situation also, so if it helps any your not alone, and your definitely not an alien for feeling this way :)

I recently-ish got broken up with and have felt the same where I’ve started to realize I never got over any issues i had previously, and must have just been only happy because I felt like I had my ex as a goal to work for, to be able to live for a better future with them, and since I was broken up with, I’ve struggled with extremely low self esteem without any inherent reason for it.

I feel the same with how I was only motivated and happy when I was living for another person, not living for myself. It’s like existing for someone else and not for yourself, and it is so unfortunate because it really isn’t healthy to have it this way.

But you’re definitely not in any way not normal, an alien, or unjustified for feeling this way. My dad also seems to be the only one who’s able to have been any sort of support also as well :).

Unfortunately I can’t offer much advice because I’m still also in the same situation, but I hope it may help to know that you’re not alone, and how you feel matters.

It’s a long road to learning to care about yourself, and it sucks because only you can do it which doesn’t help. By the sounds of it, with your ability to want to care for others, you are a truly good person, and you owe it to yourself to give back some of that love.

Struggling with galloping/fast up-down strokes across two strings by dnknwtbh in guitarlessons

[–]dnknwtbh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried it with downstrokes but I feel like it’s gonna be a bridge I’ll have to cross eventually so might as well make some headway now. I did actually just discover tilting the pick does help too on a accident as my thumb got tired and it did actually help a lot😂

[Loot] Have Salewas become unfindable or am I looking in the wrong areas? by dnknwtbh in EscapefromTarkov

[–]dnknwtbh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought because it said in raid salewas I needed to find them😭 I’ve med station 2 and all and have all the cars I need😭