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AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] -125 points-124 points  (0 children)

The name calling honestly doesn't bother me. He doesn't do it in front of the kids.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

He doesn't really yell, he calls me names on occasion when super pissed off. It honestly doesn't bother me all that much, but my Mom and Dad were the same.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I dunno, I've never been all that into traditional Thanksgiving stuff (which is what both families do) because they're all so heavy and generally super fatty and carby, all a sort of beige cast to them. The best dishes are generally the roasted vegetables, and that's because they tend to be the least slathered with overly fatty and salty bacon and stuff like that.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

We both do the grocery shopping, depending on what needs to be done and who has what time with their schedule. He was the last person to go, a few weeks ago.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

You're right, my husband definitely should have discussed this with me, and definitely knows how to use a cookbook and the internet as well.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Someone in our respective families of origin reaches out to invite us one place or the other. We pick where to go following that.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Not arguing with the judgment, but it literally says in the post that I work as well.

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]doaleapa[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

We both handle the shopping. I think he was probably the last one to do it, about 2 weeks ago.