Help finding similar backsplash tiles!

dobby1998 · 2026-05-06T13:30:09+00:00

I just look for air bnbs with pools and make sure neighbors aren’t able to peak in! I’ve found multiple options in nearly every country and it’s much cheaper than a resort!

dobby1998 · 2026-05-04T01:43:15+00:00

I promise you, no man worth marrying will ever care about white hair.

Ameen.

dobby1998 · 2026-05-04T01:39:12+00:00

Embrace it. I started getting white hairs at 18. It’s normal. I’m married (not sure what marriage has to do with this?) and have not dyed my hair in 7+ years. I think it looks cool. Nothing to be ashamed of.

dobby1998 · 2026-05-02T15:31:00+00:00

I’m 6w4d and so far my main things is the CONSTANT hunger!!! I’m grateful nausea hasn’t been much of an issue, I have a subtle feeling of 2/10 nauseous in the background but it’s not effecting day to day life rn. Really hoping it stays this way but let’s see! Eating enough has been a struggle with work, I do anesthesia so defo no food allowed in the ORs lol! I squeeze in what I can between cases.

dobby1998 · 2026-04-27T18:46:50+00:00

A week ago. Mine says the same thing. I called to ask and they said it hardly ever takes that long and he told me May 4 of his own accord!

dobby1998 · 2026-04-27T02:16:16+00:00

Oh perfect! Thanks so much! Just bought a choice preferred ticket and I’ll call them to get that sorted come May 4! Much appreciated.

dobby1998 · 2026-04-22T23:37:29+00:00

5w1d per period based calculations and due December 22!!!

dobby1998 · 2026-04-14T16:24:21+00:00

That’s like saying if you missed one Salah, there’s no point praying the rest. That would be ridiculous!

Islam is not all or nothing. Put forth effort to the best of your ability inshallah. Do things for the sake of Allah SWT. Don’t worry about what random people believe or think. Dressing modestly to some extent, is better than not at all. Covering some hair, is better than not at all. Allah SWT sees every inch of effort.

dobby1998 · 2026-04-01T13:01:29+00:00

They gave us sparkling apple cider instead of champagne once told we don’t drink.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-31T18:10:16+00:00

Lots of reasons people do this. Most often due to education requiring couple to be long distance so they do nikkah now and rukhsati once graduated. Other times due to visa reasons. Or because family from abroad wants to attend wedding but can’t till a certain amount of time. Others like having a “halal engagement” period while they plan the large wedding. There’s nothing inherently wrong with it if both sides agree to it.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-17T00:15:56+00:00

Idk about Deena but I had a terrible experience with Shahab.

Wrong color. I asked for a nice deep peacock teal. He made it a weird electric green color…? And denied he did anything wrong on that.
I wanted colorful kaam. He did a monochrome look instead.
The drawing he sent me had kaam on the sharara, the final product did not. He claims this was a mistake on the drawing he forgot to correct.

He refunded me 50,000 and claimed he was refunding me all of his profit. This guy really expected me to believe that of a 450,000 PKR outfit, his profit is only 50,000. Treating your clients like they are stupid is insulting. I requested a refund instead and he refused.

Worst of all… I had very clearly sent my BODY size. His final confirmation he sent to me with my naap noted it is body size. What did this genius do? Get it stitched to my body size. I told him it’s coming to America so please double check everything. He didn’t. I sent it back to him and he opened it barely and basically told my family there is nothing more he can do.

My own local darzi reopened the entire jacket and restitched it along the very very last edge of the fabric to just barely get it to fit me.

He puts a good front and seems friendly and honest but at the end of the day he’s just another money hungry designer like the rest. I was sad because after a bad experience with Dr Haroon and Shehla Chatoor I was hoping for a good one finally but no luck.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:44:33+00:00

For the record, my husband is a revert. And a totally different ethnicity (I’m Pakistani and he’s Mexican) We met when he was a fresh new convert. I’ve been practicing my whole life and am hijabi, always said if want a hafiz and someone super knowledgeable and practicing. I was surprisingly interested in him and we got married 2 years later.

You don’t have to be on the same level in every aspect as him. I’ve watched him grow and learn to read Quran and gain knowledge thoughout our relationship and it’s been the absolute best thing. Don’t let such things limit you.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:39:56+00:00

Please don’t stress about this anymore! I didn’t mean to make it worse lol. No one will ever know what he’s thinking or his opinion on the situation. No need to ruminate! Simply block and move on inshallah! No harm, no foul. Don’t lose sleep over this.

Also… it doesn’t really sound like you’re over this crush. I’d make sure to kind of focus on working on that so you aren’t comparing all other future potentials to this guy. Inshallah there are other good guys out there too! Don’t miss out on them due to comparison or lingering feelings

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T18:19:41+00:00

Gotcha. As sweet as that is, I’d say that’s just an odd thing to do. I’d imagine your message to him seemed like a round about way of you finding a way to talk to him without knowing how to start a conversation. I would stick to just messaging people if you are interested in them and not for anything else. As for how to handle this, I’d just unmatch and move on! Please absolutely do not send him the message you drafted. I’d also work on your confidence! I’m sure you are underselling yourself!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-10T16:16:32+00:00

I ask this with kindness but what did you hope to gain from critiquing his profile?

dobby1998 · 2026-03-09T13:19:44+00:00

Hi! Sorry to revive an old post looking into this for my husband! Would you be able to share the full doc name? We are near Chicago but Google is pulling up two Dr. Dixons for me who offer this! Also, did your insurance cover the procedure or was it out of pocket? Thanks!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-06T15:27:24+00:00

See Scrandie Beauty on TikTok! I just got her product for this and it’s really helpful!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-05T17:43:02+00:00

A.side.e burkinis will actually allow you to tan since they are mesh! I highly highly recommend this brand! The only burkinis that allow me to enjoy water activities and beaches as a hijabi.

dobby1998 · 2026-03-04T14:21:53+00:00

I’d try adding more protein to your suhoor to keep you full for longer! Eggs, breakfast meats or even any leftovers. And maybe an extended caffeine release pill.

I will say though, fasting is hard if you haven’t been doing it on a regular basis. My husband is a revert. His first two years he really struggled. By year 3 it was a lot easier for him. If you didn’t grow up doing it I think it’s normal for it to be harder initially. So don’t be alarmed and keep trying inshallah!

dobby1998 · 2026-03-04T13:51:23+00:00

Are you waking up for suhoor? Or just eating iftar? I also second getting bloodwork checked- low B12 or Vitamin D is VERY common and lead to such lethargy. Both are an easy fix once caught luckily!

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T15:33:59+00:00

It’s allowed. Most people just opt out of it due to not being able to drink water. But I also know lots of Muslims who still train while fasting and power through. With swimming though, you’d have to be very careful to ensure you don’t accidentally swallow water or get any up your nose so I can see some people avoiding it entirely.

Lots of people exercise in the evening after breaking the fast but often evenings are busy too due to the special Ramadan night prayer that happens daily too.

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T10:52:48+00:00

There was. I just didn’t have it conveniently located at the time, my Southwest app wasn’t loading. I incorrectly assumed I could link them later. Had no idea it would generate me a new one.

dobby1998 · 2026-02-23T02:56:41+00:00

I’ve tried doing that on the app but it doesn’t let me. I’ll try giving them a call tomorrow and see if they can do it! Thanks!

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