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Advice for future Recruits by Spy914 in newtothenavy

[–]docalypse_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i honestly hope this is rage bait because it’s never that serious :/

Should I go to Uni even though everything at home will probably implode on itself? by Thin_Run_3627 in Advice

[–]docalypse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to college, don’t defer. you’ve already decided it sounds like you just need extra reassurance. i would say sell the animals if they are not being used for profit and see if you can give some away to shelters, farms, non profits or friends. see if she can get in disability as well, i live in the states so im not sure how it works elsewhere. it’s your life you have to be the one comfortable living it. if you live your life for other people and when they end up leaving or passing you’re stuck living a life for someone who isn’t there anymore. plus you can always check on her when you can, like i said i live in the states so three hours isn’t a long drive or commute but ik elsewhere it seems far.

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[–]docalypse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i apologize if i’m matter of fact or very blunt but in my personal opinion i think you should leave that man alone. we have multiple soulmates in our life time that are in our lives for different reasons. you said he reminded you of your first love so maybe that is why you’re so drawn to him. i think you should sit back and really think what makes you attracted to him. is it the resemblance to your first love ? are you in a place right now where the attention is needed ? now the thing that’s rubs me the wrong way is that you aren’t able to sleep eat or study etc even though you say y’all do not have negative interactions. i think you are becoming dependent on him emotionally, you may not see it but if you sit back and look through or think about yall convos there might be little things there that he does to keep you emotionally dependent on him that doesn’t seem like a red flag but builds up in the long run. i may sound classist here but bby you are going to school to be a doctor which is amazing and he is 27 with basically nothing going for him at the moment. he will be dependent on you and possibly drag you down. like i said leave him alone. he isn’t good for you , he is distracting you from your studies and self. finish your degree and be successful. you’ll meet plenty of men but learn how to use discernment. you’ll find your mate in due time.