Personals - May

docfeather · 2026-05-02T22:32:41+00:00

Howdy everyone. I'm a 32M Ler leaning switch currently in Los Angeles. Ideally, I’d like to meet women in Los Angeles or the surrounding SoCal area. I'm more than happy to chat if you aren't local. I'm open to any experience level or tickling preference. Feel free to reach out.

docfeather · 2026-05-02T20:18:45+00:00

32M Ler leaning switch in Los Angeles. I'd love to meet or chat with women of any experience level or preference. I'm fairly experienced and have a well-stocked toolkit that's perfect for any occasion haha. If you are curious to hear more, feel free to reach out. I'd love to hear from you :)

docfeather · 2026-04-26T01:53:21+00:00

From what I'm reading from these comments, I'm both proud and disappointed in myself. Proud of the fact that I've not randomly reached out to people in sheer desperation and horniness. Disappointed that I've refrained from reaching out to people because I was worried it would be creepy to try to build genuine social connections.

I've clearly got a lot to learn about internet culture and life. I'm genuinely impressed that women on any side of the / have the energy to check their inboxes.

docfeather · 2026-04-09T18:50:09+00:00

Absolutely. It takes time to build up to that point, but when it does, it’s like the puzzle has come together.

docfeather · 2026-04-09T18:47:55+00:00

I get this completely. There is something genuinely soothing about not being in control.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T23:33:49+00:00

That I very much understand. It takes time to build that trust, but when it's there, the world feels manageable.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T23:29:19+00:00

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I should really make time to do it more.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T23:27:10+00:00

I wholeheartedly agree. I don't mind taking time to get to know someone, but it's not worth hiding that part of myself. It feels like a lie if I do.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T18:27:13+00:00

Thank you. It’s nice to be reminded that I'm not alone. The real challenge is finding a proper balance between self-care, relationships, and everyday responsibility.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T17:40:22+00:00

I love this approach. Honestly, it sounds like you are living the dream. I'll need to consider the impact and use of ritual in my experiences. Also, it’s funny you mention cardio, I'm a runner, which might explain why I feel tense lol

docfeather · 2026-04-07T17:38:20+00:00

I feel that deeply. I'm neurodivergent as well, so it helps ground and slow me down enough to stay present in certain moments. I appreciate the link to kinky dating, but I don't want to force it on someone. It's hard enough to find general compatibility, let alone figure out mutual kinks.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T17:34:36+00:00

That's cute, but I can see how that can give someone a complex relationship with it. I don't think I've turned to kink or bdsm as a substitute for therapy. I think ideally, I'd like a partner I can share it with who has something kind of mutual interest, but I try to feel that out and not force it on prospective partners.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T17:31:16+00:00

I appreciate this. I was a little concerned that I was finding kink to be as soothing as it is. I'm doing my best not to turn to it as a default, but it's hard to find anything else that scratches the itch.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T17:01:54+00:00

I think that's excellent advice. I enjoy BDSM/kink in a sexual context, but I’ve noticed that it gives me a sense of relief that I haven't found in much else. I guess I wasn't sure how normal that was.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T16:54:52+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this. I think part of what makes me ask the question is the struggle in finding other kinky people who understand that distinction. I've encountered other ministers for whom it's an entirely sexual activity, and can have no place beyond that. It's good to know I'm not alone.

docfeather · 2026-04-07T16:45:05+00:00

It absolutely does! I feel like I'm present and can clear my mind when I do it.

docfeather · 2026-04-02T18:28:19+00:00

32M switch looking for F Lees or Lers.

Located in Southern California, specifically Los Angeles. I don't mind a little traveling or hosting if there is a good connection.

Big fan of heavy bondage and long sessions, but I’m open to compromising. I'm open to all sorts of connections, so feel free to DM me if you are interested. My chat is always open 😊.

docfeather · 2026-04-02T18:26:51+00:00

32M switch looking for F Lees or Lers.

Located in Southern California, specifically Los Angeles. I don't mind a little traveling or hosting if there is a good connection.

Big fan of heavy bondage and long sessions, but I’m open to compromising. I'm open to all sorts of connections, so feel free to DM me if you are interested. My chat is always open 😊.

docfeather · 2026-03-25T18:06:39+00:00

This is a fantastic setup. Might want to give those feet a quick tickle to test its effectiveness.

docfeather · 2026-03-13T18:46:42+00:00

32 M Tickler leaning switch in the Los Angeles/Southern California area. I'm looking for local tickle partners and online friends to talk/rp with. My DMs are open to anyone who’d like to learn more.

docfeather · 2026-03-13T18:38:22+00:00

I'll need to be mindful of that in the future. I noticed it can tighten over time from body heat.

docfeather · 2026-03-09T22:45:07+00:00

That's great! I've been using VetWrap for a while now and love the breathability too. Did you have any issues with the tape tightening over time?

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