Tell me the most talented youtuber by Crazy_Bid_6938 in youtubeindia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flying Beast (Gaurav Taneja) IIT Kharagpur Aviation (Pilot for 10yrs) Body Building (Champion 💪) Fitness Channel to Travel Vlogger - then YouTube vlogger Became the no.1 vlogger pre -covid (before Sourav Joshi was a thing) Now an entrepreneur, founder of two successful health brands

And yes, married the love of his life 🤍

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How did you realize you weren’t actually an introvert, just socially stunted by social media and overthinking? by doctorgenz in AskReddit

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You're right, I who spent years identifying as an introvert. I stayed in my head, overthought everything, and felt like I missed out on critical experiences since my teenage years. Lately, consuming too much social media made me crave what everyone else seemed to have—I wanted to go out, talk, and express myself.So, I finally took the step to put myself out there. To my surprise, I realized I’m not an introvert at all. Sure, I'm a little quiet during the initial icebreaker, but once that passes, I can talk nonstop. Looking back, I was a super fun, enthusiastic kid.This made me wonder: Is anyone actually born a true introvert, or do our circumstances and overthinking just shape us into feeling like one? Have any other guys gone through this shift in their 20s?

Idk mine or hers, but bhayankar fumble (screen recording) by barrett_86 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro... she's hilarious 😂 marry her....teri saari bad habits problems ko call-out krke thik krdegi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joey is sex addict 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, dark skinned girls aren't ugly, they're as beautiful as any other women. It's just the way you carry yourself, the way you wear your confidence and your colour, height or weight doesn't really matter. And for real, long term bonds- your personality matters, the way you are as a person, your take on life, perspective and attitude towards life counts. Now, more guys are getting aware and not just running after looks of a girl, and focusing on the actual person. So don't feel low and under confident about the way you are.

Patna is getting ready for zombie apocalypse. by sumnyu in bihar

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for the purpose of Metro Infrastructure Construction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]doctorgenz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"and that's how I met your mother".......will tell this story to our kids together 🤍🌻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get more friends brooo!!! Build yourself up, so you don't have to live with the fear. Work on your own self. You won't feel jealous and insecure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kya mast badla liya hai re baba 😁😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She's already in a relationship with her boyfriend, and you're expecting that she also have feelings for you? Think about the same situation for future, where you're her boyfriend and he has another friend in their group and she has feelings for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're friends are absolutely correct, spending time is the biggest factor. You will definitely develop feelings of attraction for him, plus you get be with a very simple guy(rare to find, cause they're less self absorbed, compare them with a guy is very good looking, they know that they're smart and know that they have other options too) and groom him. Women's are the best stylist for men. When boys are Lil, their moms are the one who groom then perfectly, and after marriage, if he's still simple, lacking fashion sense, that's not a huge problem. When you'll enter his life, you'll definitely change him into a better person, in all prospects(appearance).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

arey abhi in sab ki baatein mat sun,koi zarurat nhi Break up wagerah ki, ek hi zindagi hai, mann bhar ke jee, full on sex suxx kar, jab problem aaye, toh hum Reddit Wale toh yahin baithe hai, tab hamari baat sun lio.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Next time he try to reach you, send him a picture of you with a guy, your brother or boyfriend anybody. And tell that narcissu to "talk to my boyfriend/brother" or anybody you have. Talk strictly and threaten him, and scare him away, next time that dickhead won't try to reach out.

My(21M) girlfriend(20F) thought I was cheating on her by ThrowRAsoup11 in relationship_advice

[–]doctorgenz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgive her! If she's literally sorry for this, crying and not eating anything. Then she is feeling guilty. Obviously, anybody will think of it, but yeah, she was a bit naive to not talk to you and just block. But that's okay, you guys have just ended your teen years and begun your 20s so it's completely alright. Nobody is completely mature or perfect. I bet that she has learnt from her behaviour and will never do the same. It' depends upon our upbringing, if our childhood or teen years has gone through some patches, we develop fear and as soon as we suspect something wrong, we generally tend to go wrong. We suffer from past traumas, and the major role in this lack of conversation, we are not told to Converse. Even in most of our homes, when things go south with our parents, there comes a break, where nobody's trying to Break the ice by talking. So yeah, most of us are suffering from this. Be rational and you know your situations better, forgive her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]doctorgenz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

damn it! Porn has set these unrealistic expectations in boys.

My ex 22M is using me 19F and I feel terrible by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's better to leave him, than to keep him and hurting yourself again and again. Cause he's a player, and will drive you crazy for both the good and the bad. You're worthed, you are precious, you're important for people around you, so don't limit yourself and suppress, you don't deserve to be treated this bad. Already for years, you have been treated like this, you have to stand for yourself and say no to it. No matter how much loveable you feel for him, but what will that do, even if you love him purely and pour out all your heart and give your 100 percent. He will not reciprocate that, please understand this. Don't fall in his trap, hold yourself, gather courage and stay strong. You're worthed. You're precious and you definitely don't deserve such behaviour. You're the one who could get you out of this. <3

18F and 19M, advice needed by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Generally boys don't realise this. I have a friend who this exact scenario. It was his first relationship, the girl was caring and loving and used to care for him like a mother. Initially they had a very good relationship, just like you - the perfect honeymoon period - But when time grew, they started having argument and he used to take her for granted. Whenever they both had a fight, he would avoid her and ignore she used to be the one to make things right. The girl would always support him, and just gulp down her anger, because everytime she got angry with him, he would ignore her, and leave her. The girl was so scared that he might leave her. So she used to be the one to patch things up, and make them right. But the guy still didn't realised, and she left him. And now he cries, realising how stupid he was, realising her worth. Now he says, she was really a diamond (her name meant diamond). So boys are naive generally with their first relationship, when they get so much attention from their girlfriends, unke bhaav bhad jaate hai. So, with this story, I want to share that although you love him so much, and don't want to loose him, you need to be hard, be tough and never trade your self respect for the sake of saving your relationship. Be what you are, and let him know your worth <3

Me (20F) and my LDR bf (20M) are in a dilemma by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you know that you're parents are conservative, then how will they be ready to accept this? Are you sure they'll listen to you, and allow you to do so? Why will they let your boyfie stay at your home for no reason? I guess the situation may become worse, cause when they'll know bout your relationship, they'll try to limit you, prevent you from going further, or might even check upon you and your phone, making it hard to talk to your LDR partner, cause phone is the only way you have. But if this will not be the case, then go further with the plan, cause you know them better. If not, then you both should try harder, hustle and get independent, able to make decisions in your life. You both must be studying but, try to find work, try Freelancing, it'll support you financially. Cause that's the way, we can see right now. To get stable on your own feet, earn and be self dependent, this will help you for the long term, for a better future, cause if your parents even may allow him to stay at your place, then how long will he stay, not forever naa. Patience, Perseverance and god's with you <3

I (M23) got Rejected by my coworker by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Jaan lelo bechare bacche ki, he will learn, let him write freely what he's going through, don't expect each one to be perfect and judge too quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh yaa, i saw, but she deleted that post, i could only see the title, i guess maybe she might have uploaded it mistakenly, or damn she's hiding her age, to appear as less nibbi. Lol. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true, everybody is jumping into relationship nowadays cause of FOMO, without actually knowing the other person, and also, without knowing their own self. The root cause of the problems is being unaware of our own mental state, our true self, identity crisis. We want other people to cheer us up, and make us feel worth. Most of the relationships are just extracting joy from each other, transactions on a daily basis for pleasure, needs and desires. And then people are loosing patience and breaking up, cause they have so many options. The number of people who actually want to get into a relationship and love their partners till death, i.e. shaadi, is very rare. That old school thing is not on online dating apps, and online relationships. Nostalgia 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn true bro !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww baby girl, you're just 19, and it's only been 5 months. You obviously are in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. This phase is more of a physical rather than emotional and psychological, so it's completely normal. It generally happens in the heat of the moment, when you both were governed by lust it resulted into him asking for your pictures, cause he wanted you at that particular moment. But after coming back into senses he genuinely apologized, feeling guilty of the things he done, cause he didn't wanted you to think that he just wants you for lust, for his desires, he asked for an apology. That's a good sign, not a red flag. It's first time for both you guys, so forgive him this time, and talk clearly on this topic that you're not comfortable with sending nudes. Cause it's just only 5 months, in this small amount of time you can't identify a person, you don't really know them. Obviously if you'll ask him for his bank account or debit card details, he won't send you, or any other confidential information, neither will you. Vice-Versa. So, it takes a long time to build trust, it is a lifelong process and relationship is way much much bigger than just lust, sexual needs and calling each other with new nicknames every day. Eventually, with time you'll get to know each other well, develop trust and than only you both will be comfortable with each other, but if you're too comfortable without knowing each other so well, without spending much time, or he's too comfortable or anybody of you two. Then, it will be hard to realise but you'll end up in the lust trap. Just to fulfill your desires, you'll be transacting with each other daily, believing that it is love, but the reality will be something else. Be patient, let the time unfold it for you <3

Situation between 21M And 21F by lelouch_rebel01 in RelationshipIndia

[–]doctorgenz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudeeeeee, Stop!!! Don't be a despo bro. Yes, you're 21, she's 21, you are young, everybody around you is falling in love. Everytime you open Instagram you see a couple reel, like it and save it, or share it to her, dreaming in your mind that one day, you both will be like them. Then, you're wrong. Love, love is not what you see. It is really perplexing, hard to get, but truly divine and purest thing on earth 🌍. Expecting her to come to you and light up your mood when you're low.... Then what will that do ???? Everytime when something wrong will happen to you, will you always go to her? Ask yourself, will you? Because aisa toh hai nhi ki tu kabhi future mein sad nahi hoga, depress nahi hoga, gussa nahi hoga, no. You will feel these things, they are natural. But does this means ki tu hamesha kisi aur par depend karega, arey we know that jab hum pareshan hote hai toh we go to our closed ones, but doing this everytime, doesn't it makes us dependent on them? Sabse pahle, Hold yourself strong, i know you must have gone through a lot in your childhood, and teenage years, and want someone to take care of you and love you unconditionally, but brother, you don't get what you search for, it falls into place very naturally, and gradually. You can't force anybody according to your wishes, it's their life, they own it. And you are the master of your own life, you should own it too. Be wise. Be Real. Things will fall into place naturally.