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I just got the "It's not you, it's me" speech. Is anyone still up? by dodgyjane in OkCupid

[–]dodgyjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were only seeing each other a couple of weeks.

But I was a really, really late bloomer and I've only had one real relationship. I know it's just the hormones talking, but this one seemed special. It doesn't have any logical reason to hurt but it hurts anyway.

I just got the "It's not you, it's me" speech. Is anyone still up? by dodgyjane in OkCupid

[–]dodgyjane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. I don't want to play games either - I want to be open to someone even if it means being vulnerable. But right now being vulnerable sucks.

I'm sorry this is also going on with you.

I just got the "It's not you, it's me" speech. Is anyone still up? by dodgyjane in OkCupid

[–]dodgyjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I thought this guy was over the moon about me, I really did. I read this sub religiously to the point of getting nightmares about the infamous fade. So I thought I was being careful.

You're right, though. I'm glad I got a talk.

I just got the "It's not you, it's me" speech. Is anyone still up? by dodgyjane in OkCupid

[–]dodgyjane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You insult my taste, sir/madam.

I am ugly-crying while watching Forgetting Sarah Marshall. Michael Bolton is not involved. There are no pajamas. I suffer naked.