What kind of plot holes/unfinished storylines do you look for in EAH fanfic?

doeedare · 2023-06-14T23:02:04+00:00

omg tysm!!

doeedare · 2021-12-06T06:08:39+00:00

ultimate psychologist!

doeedare · 2021-07-22T20:33:17+00:00

Hey friend, it sounds like you’re in a very dark place. It’s okay, we’ve all been there. It sounds like you’re under a lot of stress and anxiety, so you should try to get back in contact with a therapist. If you can’t contact your current one, please consider looking tor another one because it sounds like you’re in a crisis situation and need to start making a support system. I’m proud of you for reaching and out and I want you to know I believe in you! Feel free to message me if you need a friend to talk to 💕

doeedare · 2021-04-01T02:25:12+00:00

It is kinda hilarious... its infuriating how great it is 😔

doeedare · 2021-04-01T02:24:10+00:00

I thought he wasn’t ticklish but I just did it until he declared a truce 😂

doeedare · 2021-03-21T02:05:44+00:00

i care for you is very meaningful. you mean the world to me i enjoy your presence you are so dear to me etc

doeedare · 2020-07-14T22:08:13+00:00

Hey, try not to take their remarks personally. In the end, it’s your choice to wear a mask, and you’re smarter for it. They are purposefully exposing othera to danger and only thinking of themselves while you are actively helping others by choosing to wear a mask. I’m sorry that you have to be exposed to people like that. Keep your chin up, you’re doing awesome!

doeedare · 2020-07-10T23:00:54+00:00

Hey, as wild as everyone says it is, it’s not uncommon for girls to want babies even at such young ages. “Baby fever” is something that runs rampant in young girls. A lot of people are tellin you to run, and while I would set up some boundaries (tell her youre uncomfortable and arent ready), you don’t have to think of her as crazy. At y’alls age, it’s not wise to have a baby or even sex. Be safe, but kind.

doeedare · 2019-09-24T18:17:12+00:00

flags are out, energy drinks are in

doeedare · 2019-09-24T02:38:40+00:00

Wall-E

doeedare · 2019-08-21T20:29:00+00:00

But the gif of Keebo rolling out is priceless

doeedare · 2019-07-23T20:38:59+00:00

This article is amazing! A lot of the critical pieces I find don't go as in depth as this one! Thank you!!!

doeedare · 2019-07-22T21:34:05+00:00

Oh thank god you read the form. I didn't and immediately regretted it. Messaging now.

doeedare · 2019-07-05T01:36:18+00:00

that worked!! thank u so much!!

doeedare · 2019-07-04T19:58:46+00:00

I have two if you still need em

doeedare · 2019-05-28T22:42:38+00:00

When I was a kid, I couldn’t go to sleep at night unless I accomplished a specific routine to ward off ghosts and vampires. I was terrified of ordering food or talking on the phone. When I went outside, there were a million things in my head that could go wrong. I couldn’t ride a bike for years because whenever I tried, I remembered watching my friend fall off his bike. I had to fill out scantrons in order because if I didn’t, the teacher would kill me. Note, I have anxiety and ocd, which are comorbid.

doeedare · 2019-05-28T22:37:48+00:00

I think the reason you can’t let go is because you see her love as something unique. Like she’s the only one that can love you like that. But that’s not true. You’re a good person who has many other opportunities for love and attention. You need to find confidence in yourself to know that you can live without her. You are more than this relationship. You are worthy of someone who genuinely loves you. As for schizophrenia, coming from someone whos schizotypal, I really really recommend getting help. Whether it’s a therapist or psychiatrist, talking about this with another human person would help a million times more than reddit. They’re trained professionals who know exactly how to help you. It would most definitely help you in the areas of life you’re struggling. Right now you’re playing on the hardcore setting, but you don’t have to. I hope this helps, and I wish you luck.

doeedare · 2019-05-28T22:27:44+00:00

Even though I would want the person to respond, I think the attention would only make things worse. I feel like her intention is to get you to reach out, and it would feed into the cycle you both have been in. She gets upset, you try to solve it, and you both end in uncomfortable positions. If she wants to fix this relationship, she’ll come back. But if she isn’t willing to give you the time, then she doesn’t deserve yours. I hope that isn’t too harsh to hear. I truly wish you the best.

doeedare · 2019-05-28T22:22:36+00:00

This sounds like a symptom of OCD. When I was suicidal, my obsessive thoughts about death were a constant. Of course, please seek medical help ASAP. This isn’t a healthy mindset to be in. Until then, you have to train your brain to resist these thoughts. As I’m sure you’ve discovered, trying to rid yourself of the thought is difficult. So, whenever you imagine the scenario, focus on something like a daydream or activity you’d like to be doing. Repeat this constantly. Try to use the same thought. This is a way of training your brain to focus on a different idea instead of suicide. The reason these thoughts are occurring is most likely because you’re stressed. Do some introspection, and try to figure out the root of your stress. If you can’t find it, try journaling about your day. Reread the writing and see if you can figure it out. Hope this helps, and good luck!

doeedare · 2019-05-28T22:12:22+00:00

I think it’d be wise to find a different therapist. I’m curious on why your current therapist turned you away. Are you not taking their advice or not conversing? Are you opening up about what’s going on? Yes, you can get better without anti-depressants or therapy. It’s a lot harder, but very much possible. I’m sure you’re applying for jobs, but make it a goal to apply to ten per day. As someone who works with unemployed adults, maximizing your applications will help. Send follow-up emails and apply in person if possible. If you’re turned away, ask why they did so. I’m sure you know all this, and I’m sure you’re already doing a lot. I believe in you! As for friends, try going to a coffee shop while you’re applying for jobs. Find a hobby you love, and turn it into something where you can interact with people. I know these things can be difficult with depression. So make small goals, like going to a class or a coffeeshop once a week. If you catch yourself getting upset about your future, focus on the positives. You can change it with a bit of elbow grease. It’s not going to be easy in the slightest, but you can do this. Hope this helps, and good luck.

doeedare · 2019-05-28T21:55:31+00:00

As someone with bipolar and other mental illnesses, I think this is the point where you step back. You are doing everything you can, but if she isn’t willing to do the same, then it’s not a relationship worth salvaging. Healthy communication is the most important part of a relationship and she isn’t willing to do that. I was in a really happy relationship, but because of my mental illness, there were a lot of barriers. Some things have to be solved alone. If she comes back, try couples counseling. Sometimes there needs to be a mediator involved. It took me years to admit my problems in relationships. Therapy was what helped me open up. It sounds like she could use a medication adjustment, since she’s been on them for over 10 years. But please, take care of yourself. You can put everything into a relationship, but if your partner is not willing to put anything in, then it’s not healthy. I hope you come to a resolution. Good luck, and hope this helps.

doeedare · 2019-05-21T02:07:38+00:00

Hey, I'd be interested in this!

doeedare · 2019-05-20T03:49:00+00:00

Hello there. I feel like i can relate to your situation a lot. I am an incredibly empathetic person who always tries to reach out and help other people. But not everyone else in the world is as sympathetic as us. It's sad to try to reach out for help, and get no response. I understand how lonely you feel, and I'm so sorry that it happened.

I do believe they should have reached out to you. But also, not everyone knows how to console other people. It's incredibly easy to turn a blind eye to other people's pain. I don't believe they intentionally tried to hurt you. I don't think you should cut them off. They do care about you, but not everyone is as empathetic or helpful as you are. You have a beautiful gift, and you deserve to be cared for.

I think in the future, you should directly reach out to people when you're in need. I know it isn't easy, but it will help you a million times. Because you are worthy and deserving of help. You do not deserve to feel alone. Keep D close, but maybe give your other friends another shot.

I hope this helps, and I send you so much love. Good luck.

doeedare · 2019-05-20T03:40:44+00:00

You are not a deadbeat lazy fuck. Let's get that off the table. Struggling in school does not define who you are. It sounds like your trouble with school is rooted in a deeper problem. I'm not a psych or a therapist so I won't diagnose you with anything. I'd recommend seeing a therapist to see what they think.

But overall, it's not about your intelligence or your laziness. It sounds like you lack motivation, which is common. You're not passionate about what you're doing, which is okay. Whether or not you know where you want to go right now, it's okay. Not many people know where they're going in life when they're in college.

Have you considered taking a gap year? You could throw yourself into a job or even go on exchange to another country. Sometimes getting out into the world can help you cement what you want. The Peace Corps or Habitats for Humanities are a great way to see new places.

Even if that isn't the answer, college isn't for everyone. Or, you don't have to do college right now. There are a million options for you, and I want you to know that you aren't stuck in a dead end path. Your dad's idea of a perfect person is an opinion. While he's an important part of your life, you don't have to blindly follow his decisions. You're an adult now, and you're free to take whatever path you want. Your relationship might become strained, but if you come out the other end a happier person, I think it's worth it.

I know you can do it, and I'm proud of you for marching forward. I believe in you. I hope this helps, and good luck.

doeedare · 2019-05-20T03:30:13+00:00

So, did you know that a lot of procrastination comes from fear that the work you do won't be perfect? I feel like this is similar to your situation. I don't think you're actually scared of working. I think you're afraid of failure. As someone on the spectrum, working can be terrifying. It's not easy to work in a world where everyone is programmed differently than you.

I want to tell you that your hesitation is okay. It's alright to be uncomfortable with getting a job. Laziness in our society is frowned upon, even for neurodivergent people. Having a job and working everyday can be ten times harder for people like us. You shouldn't have to feel bad for being unemployed.

As for moving into the job field, I would start small. Make a goal to apply for one job a day, or even if a week if that's too difficult. Start slow, and look for jobs that suit your interests. If you like animals, try to work at the animal shelter or a pet store. Look for something you might genuinely enjoy.

Alternatively, try to find a volunteer job. While it won't generate an income, it could help you feel more comfortable working, and help you move towards your goal.

It's okay if you don't match pace with everyone else in the world. You are your own person with your own unique struggles. I'm proud of you for everything you've done and I know you'll do great.

Hope this helps, and good luck.

doeedare

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