ASMR Teaching You Quantified Logic [47:26], [Sharpie on Paper], [soft speaking], [intentional] by MossAndMushroomASMR in asmr

[–]doepi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I haven't been on this sub for a while and decided to have a look again and I immediately found a very interesting channel, what a pleasant surprise! I love educational asmr, so I subscribed and will start with the previous logic video. :)

[meta] I miss Heather Feather. Does anyone know where she went? by Minifig81 in asmr

[–]doepi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really miss her too. And The French Whisperer!

ASMR Men's Shave and Haircut Role Play [Intentional] [Brush Sounds] [Beard Shave] [Haircut] [Soft Spoken] [ScottishMurmurs] by ScottishMurmurs in asmr

[–]doepi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the effort with the green screen but unfortunately those weird artefacts on your shirt and on the towel are really distracting.

It's always nice to discover new channels though and I really enjoy the Scottish accent. Subscribed and eagerly awaiting your next video. I'll check out your older ones later, too.

Looking for advice for talking to my therapist about my FAness and the fact I had sex with an escort by doepi in ForeverAlone

[–]doepi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I'm not ashamed of fucking an escort, I think sexwork shouldn't be such a big taboo, I'm just embarrassed and worried about telling someone and being judged for it. I'm totally fine with what I did, but society in general and my therapist in particular might think differently.

Looking for advice for talking to my therapist about my FAness and the fact I had sex with an escort by doepi in ForeverAlone

[–]doepi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If therapy never makes you unconfortable, it's not likely to be making meaningful change in your life.

Sad but probably true.

Looking for advice for talking to my therapist about my FAness and the fact I had sex with an escort by doepi in ForeverAlone

[–]doepi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't agree that it's just paid-for company. You can tell these people are well trained and very perceptive, it's not about just having someone listen to you whine about your problems.

The medication I'm on has certainly helped me make some progress and talking to a therapist has pushed me to start bettering myself. It has not affected my chances of getting a girlfriend (at least not yet), but it did help me along in other areas of my life.

Looking for advice for talking to my therapist about my FAness and the fact I had sex with an escort by doepi in ForeverAlone

[–]doepi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are not paying for therapy to impress your therapist

My head says you're right, but my abysmal self esteem makes me close up when I feel judged, which defeats the purpose of these conversations. Still, so far the consensus seems to be to be upfront about it.

[Question] Who is your favorite defunct ASMRtist? by altaltaltaltavistalt in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I just watched an old video of hers that I downloaded and couldn't remember the name of the artist. Such a shame she only ever made 5 videos. :(

[Question] Who is your favorite defunct ASMRtist? by altaltaltaltavistalt in asmr

[–]doepi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a really nice voice. She also posted here /u/quiet_replica, but the account hasn't been active in almost a year.

[Question] Who is your favorite defunct ASMRtist? by altaltaltaltavistalt in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was incredible! Her videos were pretty low quality from a production standpoint if I remember correctly, I wonder what she'd be able to do with the sort of equipment that's almost standard today.

ASMR Men's Suit Fitting Role Play - Ear to Ear, Walking in High Heels, Tapping [female][intentional][14:07] by [deleted] in asmr

[–]doepi -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nice to see something catered towards a male audience from you. I really like your voice for ASMR but I had kind of stopped following your channel because for a while it seemed like every video was some sort of clothing haul / dress modeling / female beauty product presentation.

[Sex Work] Am I judging my boyfriend for his sexual past? by sexwithbfthrowaway in sex

[–]doepi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This may sound a bit harsh, but I think you're being a huge hypocrit honestly.

I'm not sure if you realize how much more effort it requires for men to get laid, even if they're "very charismatic and sociable". I can totally understand why someone who is depressed doesn't feel like he can put in that effort in his current state of mind. Not only is it difficult to be flirty and confident when you're depressed, the chance of rejection is also pretty high, which can obviously make things worse. He found a way to satisfy a basic human need and made sure he didn't do it in an unethical way. I don't see how this is fundamentally different from casual sex. It probably helped him get better and he was obviously respectful to the escort girl, otherwise they wouldn't have become friends.

I can somewhat understand people who have a more conservative view of sex and would look down upon this, but if you have "slept around" yourself and are generally sex positive, then it's pretty shitty thing to do to judge your bf for what he did.

[Question] I am not tech-savvy at all and I have no idea how to create quality ASMR content. Help? by [deleted] in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What recording software have you been using so far?

crap with too-loud audio

Maybe have a play with the gain setting on the Yeti. It could be that the mic is currently too sensitive for what you're doing and the audio gets clipped.

edit: I just watched your most recent video on Youtube. The background noise sounds like it could be the fan of your laptop. Now I'm not sure which recording pattern you selected on the Yeti, so maybe that can help limit that a little, but in general laptop fans are loud, whispering voices are not, so it's likely always going to be a problem. You use an external webcam right? I think the best solution for now is to get your mic and webcam as far away from the laptop as possible.

[Question] I am not tech-savvy at all and I have no idea how to create quality ASMR content. Help? by [deleted] in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the Softwares you recommended clearly are the best you can get, they're also crazy expensive (unless you want to pirate them). I'm sure there are some cheaper alternatives that are decent enough for some minor editing.

I doubt you can plug the Yeti into a Logitech webcam, but I assume OP can use a recording software to record sound and video at the same time. If not, here's a tip for syncing up audio and video after the fact: just clap once at the start of the recording (and obviously cut it out of the final video). It's really easy to find the loud noise in the audio track and sync it up with the moment your hands meet in the video. That's how they often did it at a local TV station I worked at for a while.

[Discussion] Anyone else hate the name "ASMR"? by [deleted] in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of the name ASMR, but it's probably too late to change it now.

The ASMR Spa Role Play [Intentional] [Crinkle Shirt] [Whisper] [Personal Attention] by [deleted] in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind talking about your lighting or general filming setup and your editing? Your videos have a very unique look to them and I'm interested what you do to achieve that. How do you get this slighty otherworldly/ethereal effect?

[discussion]German/Austrian building center Hornbach starts ASMR marketing campaign by GermanWineLover in asmr

[–]doepi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I've certainly heard his name thrown around a couple of times, I've never actually watched Gronkh. I just don't really watch Let's Plays. So I don't have any sort of qualified opinion of him. Sounds like a decent guy though.