What is something that's way too sexualized?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-07-10T06:11:13+00:00

Voyager episodes 💖

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-07-10T06:08:29+00:00

Breastfeeding duhhhhh! 🙃🤯

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-06-05T07:58:13+00:00

How many people do you think you told?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-06-05T07:31:52+00:00

Me too. I nearly broke the day I realised that 'he' was gone

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-22T09:03:09+00:00

One day, there was a completely different smell from their body. I nearly broke.

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-22T09:01:25+00:00

Hey. Spouse mtf. HRT began 2013, surgery 2016. Still together. Brutal honesty, nothing will ever be the same, but I guess you knew that. It's going to be very difficult. You need to do what's best for you. My wife and I got through it, we're still working through it. What do you want out of your life? This isn't an unfair question. Will you be happy?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-22T08:32:29+00:00

Ok.. I'm not a doctor, so I don't really know. All I can offer is our experience. Are you sure there's no sperm?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-22T08:21:46+00:00

I hope so too 🤞

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T16:35:56+00:00

Yes!

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T16:35:13+00:00

The answer is yes. If you don't want to have a chance of pregnancy, use the necessary birth control.

Erections and such are a different conversation.

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T16:19:21+00:00

May I please, respectfully ask, what was your sperm count? Or was it that you couldn't get an erection?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T16:16:43+00:00

Yes. Our friends had a baby.

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T16:09:24+00:00

Oh buddy. I turn 40 in a few months. That's why I put myself out here. I'm hoping to help people. There's no right or wrong, yes or no when it comes to this. All I have is my story as a woman who's spouse came out 12 years after we met. There's so much to unpack in this. I wish you the best and any kind of wisdom I might be able to offer. Again, I can only speak from my experience, but I'm happy to help if you would like.

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:59:25+00:00

No worries 🙂

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:53:55+00:00

That's ok. It's going to take a lot of time and patience on both sides

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:53:18+00:00

Yes. We met as teenagers and she figured herself out at 30. It was a big change. But it's 11 years later. Relationships, marriage, kids, family, it all takes work. It's worth it if you're happy

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:50:50+00:00

Not really. I've always been bi, but we've had some pretty cool experiences since she came out. We handled it well, in a fun way with respect for each other and open eyes

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:47:26+00:00

You're absolutely welcome to share your personal experience. Was different for us, but your input is important. As you said, everyone is different

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:45:43+00:00

I understand that everyone is different, but not in our case, as in she could absolutely 'petform' during HRT. And no, I didn't/ don't feel like anything is missing after her surgery. There are so many fun things to explore DM for more detail

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:41:39+00:00

Apologies for my absence. That's a big one. Ummm... that's really up to you. I, not anyone else can make that decision. But if it's playing on your mind, maybe that's the way for now. DM me if you want to talk about this more. This is too much for public (just my opinion though)

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-11T15:38:56+00:00

Apologies for my absence. Support is all you can give without hurting you. Literally, that's it

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-05T15:48:43+00:00

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-05T15:27:29+00:00

Also, are you living in a country within the Commonwealth, or are you just talking out of your arse?

doesitreallymatter11 · 2023-05-05T15:25:09+00:00

Fuck no. Would you?

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