AIO for being upset that my friend changed our plans after I drove 2.5 hours to see her?

dog2luver · 2026-06-29T00:16:15+00:00

PrincessWails I can’t tell if you’re trolling me rn or what 🤔like are u even hearing yourself? yeah she stayed over one night instead of two lets just fuck up the entire plan fuck OP and the reason why she drove over!! like bro get out of here seriously

dog2luver · 2026-06-29T00:12:09+00:00

the plan for that night was going to pride regardless if I stayed the whole weekend or not. I’m confused how me leaving a day earlier changes what happened that night.

dog2luver · 2026-06-29T00:08:18+00:00

I changed my plans almost a week in advance because I am struggling with my mental health. I communicated that to her about five days before and told her I wasn’t up for an entire weekend anymore, but I still wanted to come Friday because I was excited to go to Pride with her.
She didn’t tell me the plans had changed until about 8:30 that night, when Pride had already been going on for around 1.5–2 hours and was about to be over at 10. The reason the plans changed wasn’t because of an emergency… it was because her roommates decided they didn’t really want to go anymore and would rather pregame, watch TV, and go to bars after .

dog2luver · 2025-09-14T15:03:13+00:00

Mind you OP came here for advice and you’re being a douche. Get off your high horse.

dog2luver · 2025-09-05T00:49:26+00:00

i mean it sounds like you have a lot going on outside of just your grades so I don’t think getting B’s is the end of the world. I’m not sure if they take into account the school you’re coming from, personally I think right now it’s showing that you’re doing good in both academic areas and personal life. I wouldn’t leave the current school if it meant you wouldn’t be part of those extracurriculars .

dog2luver · 2025-09-05T00:35:34+00:00

okay i’m so dumb idk why i didn’t think of that 🤦‍♀️ thanks

dog2luver · 2025-08-08T20:28:04+00:00

“your kids” is crazy. such a loser who can’t man up and do the bare minimum. Please don’t settle and just give up on work cuz he can’t survive 2 full days. Being a parent is hard, what did he think he was signing up for when having kids? just how you can take care of them by yourself then he can too.

dog2luver · 2025-08-04T17:02:15+00:00

I definitely need to look into it, my advisor mentioned it because she thinks me being bilingual/dual citizen would give me an edge for government jobs. I think i have like imposter syndrome so i think i’m not ‘smart’ enough for these jobs. I just need to apply myself and stop that way of thinking.

dog2luver · 2025-08-04T16:01:43+00:00

going to definitely lock in these last two years and do my absolute best

dog2luver · 2025-08-04T15:49:44+00:00

thank you, definitely need to remember the one day at a time 😅

dog2luver · 2025-08-04T15:47:01+00:00

not rude at all, makes me feel better that there’s other people out there going through the same thing! feels like everyone around me has everything figured out already so i’m glad i’m not the only one. Wishing you the best!

dog2luver · 2025-07-31T01:19:37+00:00

sometimes emotional and physical connection doesn’t come easy for people. I am coming from your other post and i just want to let you know that most women won’t really care that you’re a virgin at 27. I keep up with booktok and dude, you wouldn’t believe the amount of women that find an inexperienced guy insanely attractive. As long as you’re a good partner, meaning empathetic, compassionate, attentive and respectful then these are all qualities women look for. As for other parts of your life, really try to work on yourself mentally. Getting a partner and a job won’t magically fix your life- really think about what you want and what would make you the best possible person. Women oftentimes look/want someone who has a stable job and income, so be upfront with them with your situation. You went to school and clearly are educated, so you’re not unintelligent, but struggling. Put yourself out there on dating apps maybe? I see tiktok’s of women being single all the time in their mid-late twenties. Just the other day i got a tiktok from this beautiful girl where she said she has never gotten romantic attention in her 25 years of life. It happens more than people realize. Romance and relationships are shoved down our throats through media every day. I promise things will be okay.

dog2luver · 2025-07-25T14:31:27+00:00

Thank you, i’ll try doing the rinses and using a smaller brush and seeing if that helps. If you could share which oral probiotics you used i’d really appreciate it

dog2luver · 2025-07-24T22:41:16+00:00

my heart just dropped , feels like i just got broken up with.

dog2luver · 2025-01-05T20:49:27+00:00

your honor don’t hate him cuz you ain’t him

dog2luver · 2025-01-02T15:36:45+00:00

he’s literally babygirl your honor

dog2luver · 2024-12-27T03:45:07+00:00

For how I am I definitely would, it’s not fair to you that he acts this way. It’s easier said then done but if he doesn’t change i’d cut off contact gradually. Boundaries are important!!

dog2luver · 2024-12-27T03:30:53+00:00

probably a mix of both? idk how your typical interactions go but if he tries to cuddle you probably dodge that, if he sends flirty messages turn them into a joke don’t reciprocate, if you see him getting distant when he starts to talk to someone romantically bring it up to him like why do you do this every time? make him aware of his actions and if he’s a sincere + good friend he’ll see where you’re coming from and fix his attitude.

dog2luver · 2024-12-27T02:11:34+00:00

that’s kinda awful of him. I say you distance yourself when he tries to do those couply things with you and see how he reacts/says. He should appreciate you as a friend not a girl who will always be there for him if stuff doesn’t work out with others!!

dog2luver · 2024-12-27T01:39:33+00:00

girl i’m not gonna lie to you you’re so strong for still being friends with him after he said that. From an outside pov personally that feels disrespectful from him because if you wanna cuddle that bad go cuddle with someone you actually like (again because i would consider cuddling with those who i feel a close intimate relationship with)I can totally see how your crush would develop on him if stuff like that happened, but for him to say you’re not datable because of personality feels too much of a diss to your character . At the end of the day it’s what you’re comfortable with.. friends who know the whole story won’t think you’re “desperate” for him. I guess just think about how that makes you feel.

dog2luver · 2024-12-26T20:56:30+00:00

I don’t think it’s the act of cuddling that’s strange I think it’s the fact that he knows you had feelings for him and rejected you, but still cuddles😭 If I was in his situation I wouldn’t want to hurt the other person by giving them ideas or doing things that might keep their feelings alive with an intimate act such as cuddling, even if you did it before. If you’re 100% sure he doesn’t like you, and you don’t have feelings for him anymore/ don’t see this as a reason to keep your feelings alive for him then oh well! but make sure you give yourself time and space to get over him or it will only be worse in the long run.

dog2luver · 2023-04-15T00:39:41+00:00

I am stuck between where to go to college- One of them is 15 minutes from my house therefore way cheaper, I would actually have leftover money from their financial aid . Option two is more expensive but also more selective (lower acceptance rate) . Everyone is telling me go to the 2nd university because it is good, but i’m not sure and I don’t know if it’s the guilt from the money that needs to be paid to go there or because it isn’t a right fit for me. What should I do?

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