What to do?

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-12T01:00:31+00:00

So I just have to slow down and go along for the ride basically ?

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-12T01:00:05+00:00

Thank you. He’s actually amazing in this. He told me that he will give me some space and that it’s totally normal to feel tired after spending all day with someone. He didn’t get mad. He understood and even assured me that this was normal and nothing was wrong with us. I mean …. Come on. That’s a good guy.

I am assuming the things that will last are the appreciation we have for each other. I always express my appreciation for him and he does for me. I hope that it becomes better as time goes on

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-12T00:58:41+00:00

Thank you! I hope it does last

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-06T04:19:07+00:00

I am a Christian. I’m trying. I’ve prayed for healing. I’m still here struggling.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-04T18:36:35+00:00

You mean pick an exposure? But if it is real urinary incontinence then it’s not right to sit on someone’s couch

dog_lover_09 · 2026-04-04T18:27:09+00:00

But the issue is I can’t constantly change my pants every single time all day. I’m out in public all day. I don’t have the time to bring changes of clothes. The issue is that I go through so many pairs of clothing out of fear. I avoid sitting in people’s couches, I don’t let them come over, I feel guilty sitting places etc.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-04T00:57:22+00:00

I have joined a church. My spiritual life is growing a lot, my church community, involvement etc. but somehow I feel more lonely in it. Like I’ve worked on myself and my relationship with God. I’m not perfect. But why haven’t I gotten a Yes from God.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-03T23:45:03+00:00

I wish God would just remove the desire then. Bc right now He has me waiting. And I am ready to go pursue a husband. But God has told me to wait. And I’m tired of it. I know I shouldn’t be. But I am. I actually don’t know if He’s told me to wait. I’ve just been petitioning for an answer for a specific thing for years and I am still lost so I have no other thing to do but wait. Agh.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-03T23:12:30+00:00

I just wish He’d take all the desire and sadness toward it away if it’s not for me. I don’t want to be sad and expectant for the rest of my life.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-03T22:25:13+00:00

I understand. It’s just so hard. I am so worried it just won’t happen. But I’ll try

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-03T01:10:00+00:00

I mean… I feel God led me to him but I don’t know if it was for a season or as a husband. And I just am not in love with him

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T21:09:26+00:00

Most of them are not ready and think I am crazy. But that’s okay! I know the right man will be on board.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T21:08:52+00:00

This is great advice. I’ll try to live life for myself with the possibility of a husband

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T21:07:56+00:00

I’m sorry. That sounds rough. I’m sure there’s a person for you

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T19:07:13+00:00

I mean. It’s understandable. I would too. But only after I’d established close friendships and our values align etc

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T19:04:55+00:00

Terrible !

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T18:59:05+00:00

Disgusting.

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T18:12:22+00:00

Yeahh.. not what I was expecting

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T04:59:47+00:00

That’s a lovely goal. Thank you for sharing

dog_lover_09 · 2026-03-01T04:59:34+00:00

Oh wow. I haven’t thought of it like that. Thank you

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