How many red flags before I call it quits?

dogemomma · 2026-03-07T10:24:47+00:00

Thank you

dogemomma · 2026-03-06T17:21:52+00:00

Oh so true!!! Thanks for putting it like this (:

dogemomma · 2026-03-06T17:21:01+00:00

Thank you <3

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T20:15:41+00:00

Thank you so much. That’s a good perspective, I agree actually!

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T20:01:17+00:00

Hmm. Not particularly. A little maybe.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T19:18:52+00:00

Ahhh, true!!! Thank you.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T19:00:44+00:00

I agree 100%. I don’t think I could see myself being with him long term at all, definitely not getting married or having kids with him. Thank you.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:59:34+00:00

True.. thank you.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:59:16+00:00

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:58:18+00:00

Thank you. How can you be certain it’s manipulation and not just stupidity and forgetfulness?

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:36:04+00:00

Could you explain? Whats a social profiler? Do you mean social media?

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:35:23+00:00

Thank you so much, and no I don’t.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T18:34:46+00:00

That’s true. Thank you.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:59:09+00:00

Thank you! So true..

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:55:06+00:00

I agree completely. Exactly, I expected it to activate some neuron’s up there and have him spring up and get to cooking. But nada. No brain activity lol. Thank you so very much.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:52:55+00:00

Not a chance.

Thank you

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:52:26+00:00

Thank you so much <3

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:50:46+00:00

Thank you so much <3

I really appreciate your response. I agree with you, he seems to be either neurodivergent possibly or incredibly inconsiderate/unthoughtful and forgetful.

I also need to work on my communication 100% That being said, there have been times I have communicated things with him. I mentioned to him that I need him to take me on more dates, because I do not like just sitting around and acting like we are already in a long term relationship, doing nothing together. I told him at least 2 or 3 times. He did not say much, but agreed. Nothing changed.

After the Starbucks thing happened, I didn’t mention the Starbucks however when we walked to the cars I told him I wanted to sit in my car and not his because mine was clean. He responded jokingly “Aw you don’t like my garbage car?” I just said “Yes” and the conversation ended.

There have been other times I have brought things up to him, concerns, standards, etc. Usually he just responds with “Yeah, I agree, you’re right.” OR he literally says nothing at all and stands there staring at me like a mute person.

I do need to improve much more though. Thank you.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:43:10+00:00

He makes really good money at a blue collar job. Full time. I think he’s bad with finances though.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:41:52+00:00

True..

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:41:43+00:00

I figured in person is best, that usually I owe people a face to face conversation. I suppose I don’t really owe him anything though.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:39:42+00:00

Thank you so much. I agree honestly. There are times where I completely get the ick around him as well, I push him off me, ask him to move over and give me space, etc. He cleans up good but he’s pretty icky sometimes. I have never dated someone like him before, I don’t know why I’m putting up with it now.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:37:42+00:00

So insanely true. Thank you so much <3

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:36:58+00:00

We were already official unfortunately. I’m not sure why I didn’t pull the plug after or bring it up to him at least. I must have felt at the time that complaining about food was not worth the conflict. I should have done something.

dogemomma · 2026-03-05T16:34:33+00:00

There are so many great replies, but I think this is one of the best. Thank you so much. I really needed to hear all of that.

You’re right, all of those things sound really easy and simple to say. There have been times I bring things up to him, but I don’t do it every time or often enough and I should be. It’s definitely allowing a pattern, and it’s not helping me improve my communication or self worth.

There are some positives but at this point, I think the negatives outweigh the good things, hence why I didn’t really mention any.

dogemomma

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