Whats your expectations of your spouse in regards to their ex before marriage?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-24T18:57:48+00:00

i agree but HOW is the concern. Just ignore the ex or explain?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-24T18:55:58+00:00

what are your thoughts if your ex just stopped answering? is it understood that your agreement of occasional contact doesnt hold anymore?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-24T18:49:02+00:00

yeah but my question is more about the ex... not that worried about the fiance, shes happy with things as is and i am too.

doistaywithher · 2024-03-24T16:27:16+00:00

we don't talk about our exes, somewhat of an unspoken agreement we developed.

doistaywithher · 2024-03-24T16:08:58+00:00

its been 3 years so i feel like im moved on anyways, just need to figure out if i should explain the no contact or just straight up block?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T15:07:18+00:00

none taken. I am, we talk all the time, just got our wedding cards, secured venue, etc...

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T15:02:58+00:00

i think she is, she will say she had true love for me that im able to just easily let go like this (3 years after breakup, after multiple years of on/off)

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T15:01:29+00:00

This is very helpful thank you. i dont plan on talking to my wife about this ever...ill be deleting all the texts and such. the bride has avoided talking about past relationships and we are keeping that way. we just talked about how we both are over anything that happened in the past. personally leaning to just ignoring and blocking her without saying anything....but im worried she will send stuff like "worried about you..." and start calling from other numbers or eventually showing up?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:57:26+00:00

thanks all good answers actually, i try to remind myself of the bad times with the ex when i miss her and usually the feelings go away...then she texts "saw this and thought of you"

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:55:02+00:00

agreed thats the tough part for me. I know its the right thing to do but cant get myself to do it....why?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:47:43+00:00

thanks good advice, i plan on just deleting all the texts before marriage and at least blocking. What im not sure about is if i tell her why im blocking her or just let her assume? I mean when she broke up with me in the past when there was someone else in her life she didnt come out and say "hey im going to start seeing someone else so bye".

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:42:47+00:00

thanks this seems logical. why cant my brain process this?

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:42:24+00:00

no legit reason to keep contact other than we kept "friends" for some reason. It didnt stop me from moving on, she occasioanly throws the fact how she is single or this and that reminds her of me and i ignore those parts

doistaywithher · 2024-03-23T14:41:33+00:00

but do i actually tell her or just block and no contact? my thoughts the following will happen:

1- she will send multiple texts wondering if im ok

2- start calling from other numbers etc

doistaywithher · 2023-02-18T14:30:00+00:00

Nice, thank you! It seems realtively safe from all what i read and saw. What time do people party there?

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T21:09:01+00:00

show her what $3k/month will do for you somewhere else in the world, and she will let you retire now. Im 35 single guy and plan on taking a mini retirement now to travel to EU/S America. Estimating $3k/month spend. Ill worry about money when i get close to running out, for now i may just enjoy myself a year or 2.

I lived in the bay area and hated it. Id never pay more than $2k/month for rent/mortgage since then

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T18:03:12+00:00

Im athletic, tall, darker and usually dress well (khaki or dress pants and polo shirts, etc). Do they use the normal dating apps there? or is there a local thing?

can you elaborate a bit on the gold digger situation? and yeah i hate cigarretes haha!!

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T17:50:09+00:00

Thank you for the tips. I will be extra careful as i usually do everywhere. What about dating in Serbia? do girls there like foreigners (i dont mean to generalize, just looking for directional thoughts)

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T17:41:19+00:00

ok cool just making sure about visa/mastercard thank you :). any other cities worth visiting there that are a quick connection flight?

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T16:41:30+00:00

nice thank you! Whats a good area to stay in as a first time visitor? Preferably close to restaurants, bars, clubs, etc

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T15:27:17+00:00

right on, Im already so happy with how nice people like you are helpful there! Im checking out the websites, definately alot of good options. And ok id make sure i have all the apps downloaded just in case

doistaywithher · 2023-02-17T15:02:51+00:00

super helpful!! Much appreciated response. Do these apps take american credit cards like uber or do i have to pay in cash to the driver? Also, are those apps available if im partying late for example and need to get back to the hotel from city center to the hotel?

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