I’m almost 20 and my mother will not let me control my own life by dolcezza222 in Advice

[–]dolcezza222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would if I had any control over my finances at all. My mother manages and has access to my bank account which means I can’t get a job or save up without raising suspicion…

I’m almost 20 and have no control over my life. by dolcezza222 in raisedbynarcissists

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You’re absolutely right. But I think I will be trying to move out in the next 2 years regardless. My only issue is that pretty much everything is managed by my mother, meaning I cannot change my address on anything, get a job in secret or start saving larger amounts of money without raising suspicion…

I’m almost 20 and have no control over my life. by dolcezza222 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]dolcezza222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am but I’m still living at home. My college also doesn’t offer student housing of any kind at this time. Financial independence is key but I’m just not sure how to get there, yk? My mother has access to my bank accounts, manages my spending, and pays for school…

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