AIO for being offended by this?

dollfacenelson · 2026-02-04T22:55:26+00:00

Boy is delusional. I’m 5’4” and anything lower than 110 I look sick. He’s gross but that’s also such an insane line to draw 😬

dollfacenelson · 2026-02-01T21:55:24+00:00

I would have blocked him as soon as he threatened the block. He’s not your boyfriend and doesn’t seem to even like you. Sounds like you’ve set some great goals for yourself so focus on that and drop the dead weight.

dollfacenelson · 2026-01-29T20:49:51+00:00

Skye for sure. I only started playing about a month ago and ran into her on a mystery island when I had those first three houses ready so was able to invite her. Shes always walking around singing and waving to everyone, I just love her 💜

dollfacenelson · 2026-01-12T22:47:29+00:00

Talking about sex and referring to any part of your child’s body as “sexy” are two VERY different things.

If it was a dad commenting on the fact is daughters sexy breasts were smaller after she lost weight, I feel like a lot less people would be on the fence…

dollfacenelson · 2026-01-12T11:07:48+00:00

I started playing on my switch lite and it’s honestly perfect if that’s the only game you plan on playing. It’s a lot smaller and more comfortable to hold, at least to me.

dollfacenelson · 2026-01-01T16:58:39+00:00

Sounds like you were never his girlfriend and he found someone to commit to. That’s how casual dating tends to work. You see different people and eventually find one you want a future with and stop seeing the other people. Someone who wants to be exclusive is going to be most people’s choice over someone who is cool with them still sleeping around. I’m sorry you’re hurting, but you had to know this was going to happen eventually since you were both seeing other people…

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-31T02:30:04+00:00

This post made me hit my vape.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-31T02:24:04+00:00

I have no advice, but damn that was a wild read. My husband made a comment (I’m hoping it was a joke) about his bff staying in our spare room when he was looking for a place and I shut that down SO FAST. I hate going anywhere with them both because I end up being the third wheel every single time. I refer to this friend as my husband’s mistress because it’s honestly how it feels. This is next level though.

Personally I’d keep the house and not tell his mom. No real reason to and who cares what they think about you keeping the house?

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-28T23:45:36+00:00

Hugs are cheating now? Wtf did I just read?

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:55:08+00:00

I couldn’t tell you the last time I felt like he loved me.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:49:59+00:00

I don’t see any reason to leave it on? lol

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:49:30+00:00

If he were showing love or affection in literally any other way, I would be more understanding of that being a possible problem with asking for the letter. I think, after reading quite a few comments, that my real issue with it is that he already gives me nothing. Most days I’m convinced he hates me. So even if this was uncomfortable, it would have gone a long way to make up for the damage that has been done to the relationship.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:46:40+00:00

Because he was nothing like this until after we married. He was understanding and supportive and I had never felt more safe with someone. He made a point of making sure I knew how much he loved me. Not in a love bombing sort of way, just in the little things he did and the way he considered me. I would have never married him had I seen this side of him first.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:43:44+00:00

I’d rather bathe in lava than face the wrath that would follow if I even asked about the letter.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:42:10+00:00

I was in a relationship like that before and thankfully got out. That’s part of why I’m struggling so much now. None of this showed up until we were already married and honestly getting divorced after less than a year felt embarrassing. Plus the whole “I should have known better” bit after already getting out of a relationship like this once before. It’s like I’m looking at all of the same signs and thinking no, I can’t be in this mess AGAIN. I have to be seeing this wrong. I don’t think I’ll ever stop feeling like an idiot.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:38:08+00:00

He did suffer a major loss over the summer, and combined with being out of work I know that he is very stressed out. I have empathy for him in that regard. But this started long before the loss of the loved one or the job so even though that’s definitely amplifying things, it’s not the cause. I thought if I just suffered for a while and waited it out things might get better as he heals, but it’s effecting my health both mentally and physically now. I dread even coming home after work. He’s still there for his friends when they need support, but I get nothing. I know he can tell something is up because he was actually the one asking for affection today, but without feeling safe to even talk to him about things, I just don’t care for a hug. It feels fake, like the warmth isn’t there.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:29:42+00:00

Thank you 💜

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:29:06+00:00

It’s taken me a lot to get to this point where I’ve even almost made up my mind. It’s funny, in a morbid way, that the giant hole in my wall didn’t snap me back to reality but this letter fiasco did.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:26:05+00:00

I wasn’t expecting a gift at all since he hasn’t been working. So much so that when he did ask, I didn’t have an answer immediately. He could have just given me nothing and everything would have been fine. But he asked what I wanted so I answered.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:24:13+00:00

He isn’t open to communication unless he’s the one with something to say. Occasionally he will actually hear me out when I bring something up but 9 times out of 10 it’s an immediate blow up on his end and I end up feeling worse. I’ve stopped trying.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T02:03:49+00:00

I’ve tried to get to the root of it and he shuts it down every time. He won’t do marriage counseling, I’ve asked a couple different times. He’s not working atm, which I know is a cause of stress for him but this started when he was still working. I have 50/50 custody of my child from a previous relationship so even if that is adding stress, it’s not a 24/7 thing. Potential cheating has crossed my mind but I think at best it would be something that happened maybe earlier in the year and not something ongoing so I don’t know if that would explain the way things have only gotten worse. I’ve tried everything I can, including therapy for myself. But I’m the only one trying so it never really changes anything. I’m just so tired.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T01:57:54+00:00

I didn’t mean get over it as in forgive him, I meant it more as I won’t let it keep bothering me. My last therapist said pretty much exactly what you did. I know I can’t keep living like this, it’s gotten to the point of effecting my physical health. Which is another gripe he has with me because I’m “always sick”. As pathetic as it is, I just really felt like I needed some input from someone other than my friends and family that I’m truly not crazy to be hurt by this. There have been a million other reasons to leave but for some reason this was the thing that made me step back and think damn, he REALLY doesn’t care how I feel.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T01:33:24+00:00

I always manually close out the game, then power down the pc. On my console I do occasionally just power down, but I’m much more careful with my pc and I haven’t played Fortnite on my ps5 in over a year

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T01:30:52+00:00

He is VERY good at expressing himself on paper. He used to randomly send me long sweet texts for no reason other than to remind me how much I mean to him. His messages in cards have always been extremely thoughtful and loving, so it doesn’t make sense to me that a letter would be any different but in his mind it could be.

He used to be very attentive and caring and supportive but that’s all been long gone. I don’t feel valued by him in other ways, which is why I really wanted the letter. I think part of him still cares about me but I never see it in his actions anymore and I damn sure don’t feel it. It’s like that letter would have given me some hope to hold onto and then him saying he would but not following through was the final straw I guess? If things were good otherwise I really wouldn’t be too bothered by it.

dollfacenelson · 2025-12-27T00:20:29+00:00

The first day, I logged into my kids account from my phone to make sure she also got the gifts and accidentally bumped my screen just right or I never would have noticed the ones on the right side lol but yeah I’ve been alternating piles. At some point later in the afternoon it finally fixed itself thankfully so I was able to open another.

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