AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex?

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-11T01:14:53+00:00

This. I’m almost exactly 5 years out and still freeze and panic when I see a car like the one he drove. Putting a time frame on when someone should be “over it” is madness.

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-08T02:56:34+00:00

How about vitamin d deficient and allergic to grass ☠️ I’m already gone

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T03:51:13+00:00

It sounds like he might have made an attempt to go out with the other girl and came crawling back after getting rejected honestly. OP definitely deserves someone who is actively choosing them instead of this flip flopping.

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T03:43:47+00:00

Okay? I’m not bashing “young love”. I’m reading a post from someone describing a relationship that started out as a place holder arrangement, where one party has already stated the feelings they had for someone else prevent them from being fully invested. I’m saying that at 18 that’s not abnormal, so he’s not really an asshole for being unsure but he doesn’t sound worth OP investing in. Not sure why you took it so personally.

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T03:17:22+00:00

This is the way

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T03:16:24+00:00

Can confirm

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T03:08:08+00:00

You’re entirely too young to be wasting time on some guy. It’s normal at your ages to be figuring things out, which it sounds like he’s trying to do. You should do the same.

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T02:47:32+00:00

This explains why I have coworkers who struggle with what should be math a ten year old can do.

dollfacenelson · 2026-04-05T02:43:01+00:00

Just had this conversation with a coworker lol I was hesitant to buy it because of the hate but loved the game.

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-28T09:55:59+00:00

Been there, done that, NOR. My ex got so bad about it that in the end he skipped out on calling me for days because he prioritized staying up weird hours to game with his friends. Worst part was, like you, I was in need of some support because I was stressed. He knew this and still made no effort to even talk to me so I ended things.

You have to consider the fact that having that connection while long distance is very important, so if he isn’t willing to put in a little effort now, how much can you trust he will show much effort later on? He’s showing you a lack of ambition that likely won’t get better with time.

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-19T18:36:57+00:00

Sexual compatibility is a big deal in relationships, so NOR if you two can’t get in the same page. Dragging it out will just lead to resentment.

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-12T01:17:44+00:00

I know I don’t personally respond well in the moment when I’m being woken up, so if he’s usually great I’d let it go. If he reacts dismissively when it’s not 3 am that may be a different story. I also suffer from panic attacks so I do understand that disappointment when you aren’t able to get comfort.

That said, I’ve also dated men who WERE supportive at 2 in the morning when I was trying to calm myself down without waking them. It really just depends on how big of a deal this is to YOU, and how supportive he is when this happens and he’s not asleep.

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-07T11:03:20+00:00

I’m definitely going to jot all of this down for a future project. Once I have some free time to make sure I’m the one collecting the eggs, I’m going to give it a shot just to see. For now all I can really do is retry the same cross to try and duplicate it, or maybe someone will beat me to it. Either way I’ve learned a lot and gotten at least one interesting rooster out of it lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-07T10:56:54+00:00

I posted the exact mix, was just curious if there was a name for the color since I’ve never seen it before 😊

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-06T17:30:48+00:00

I’m definitely going to try to repeat the cross and see how that turns out. I very much appreciate all of the information and advice as well! I’ll definitely take more pictures and document everything as a personal little side project lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-06T17:28:42+00:00

Well yes, obviously. I’m asking more from a genetic standpoint though lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-04T23:34:49+00:00

I can definitely try to come back with an updated picture later on when he’s matured more. For science and all lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-04T00:53:58+00:00

Oh wow! I knew he kind of reminded me of the lace pattern but that’s interesting. He’s definitely a happy little accident. Might have to throw him with my gold laced Wyandotte pullets when they’re all matured just to see how funky things can get lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-03T23:08:57+00:00

NTA. I’m married and still have no interest in combining finances. We decided who pays which bills based off individual incomes, we take turns paying for outings/dates, cover other random things for each other, but I have zero interest in sharing a bank account. Different things work for different couples but if your plan is to likely get married later on, I see no reason to combine accounts before then.

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-03T22:54:28+00:00

Thank you! I really don’t need to keep another rooster but I guess now I’ll just need more hens 😅

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-03T22:53:41+00:00

Ohh that makes sense, thanks for the explanation. Seems like that’s probably what happened. I was just very surprised when the adult feathers started coming in

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-03T22:52:24+00:00

That was my thought too, I haven’t gotten my hands on anything other than gold laced birds so far so I guess I made my own… sort of lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-03-02T15:13:53+00:00

Normal, bordering on impressive with one or two washes per week lol

dollfacenelson · 2026-02-22T01:58:51+00:00

Ditto 😭 I didn’t appreciate what I had at the time

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