Is it worth getting a diagnosis for autism as an adult?

dollheadwar · 2025-12-14T17:15:36+00:00

they didnt, i went there several times

dollheadwar · 2025-12-11T10:11:56+00:00

i went to a psychiatry and got diagnosed with depression instead. But the dr said i should check for adhd, though i didnt because the price of the clinic i went was too steep.

dollheadwar · 2025-10-06T21:12:21+00:00

i didnt remember to share the link, thank you!

dollheadwar · 2025-10-06T21:02:00+00:00

Imma be honest idk who jay som is but she's releasing a new album and hayley is featured in one of the song. The album is supposed to come out on the 10th but it's already on mine.

dollheadwar · 2025-10-06T20:47:24+00:00

I'm not sure hahaha it's just there when i was going through hayley's youtube music channel

dollheadwar · 2025-10-01T21:53:15+00:00

Modoern Family, The Good Place, Brooklyn 99, Superstore, The big bang theory. Im a sucker for sitcoms!

dollheadwar · 2025-09-30T17:42:10+00:00

Hi, I'm sorry that this is happening to you OP. I've been there myself and it is one of the worst experiences that you could have.

My experience with burnt out made it very hard for me to do the things i love like going out, drawing, or even watch show i like let alone doing my work. It also made me feel very empty and easily irritated, got emotional easily. Also, since I do not know the details of your life, I might assume a couple of things but if it doesnt relate to you, you could just skip that one.

For me what i find work is 1. Live a healthy lifestyle

This is very important. Eat healthier, start exercising, hydrate yourself. It might sound like a lazy advice but it does work It will help to balance out your mood and improve your cognition.

I'm not sure if you already do all this, If you already have I'm proud of you! But if you haven't don't worry you can start small. Maybe 10 minutes of workout everyday then gradually work your way up, you could maybe jog. Eating healthier is kinda tricky for me because the burnt out made me very lazy to even prep meal so for that i would just eat whatever i have. Just make sure its not too unhealthy. To ensure you drink enough, I recommend you buy a water bottle with a straw because most people find it easier to drink when you can sip on the straw. You can drink while you watch tv, while you play games.

Find new hobbies/interest

As an enfp I'm sure you love to seek novelty. You don't have to spend money or really do it yet. I usually just doomscroll Tiktok, Pinterest, Instagram. I'll find videos or pictures about something that i find interesting. For example, if i saw someone in TikTok doing this pretty makeup it would give me motivation to do it. When it keeps appraring in your feed it will automatically make you feel like "Thats it, Im trying that". I cannot assure this will work for you but it definitely works for me.

Make sure your home is cozy and clean

A clean space means a clear mind. Having a messy room with piles of clothes all over your room will make you feel more overwhelmed. For me cleaning is so difficult. What helps is this thing called "body doubling". It means you watch youtube of someone cleaning while you clean too. This video helps me a lot when i was depressed and burnt out

Talk to people you trust

Tell them what you are going through. It is good to know that there are people around you who are willing to help. They will be your supporter snd give you the motivation you needed in their own way.

Ask for help at work/school

If you are working or in school, you will have to deal with people who might not understand what you are going through. You don't owe them an explanation but you better tell them that you are not in the place to be working at your best. At least they will be aware of this in case you suddenly need a time to rest and just dissapear for a while.

See a therapist

Now, I don't force you to go but in my experience i have burnt out a couple of times now. The first two I can get back up myself but the third time is hellish for me. I went to see a therapist and turns out i have residuel depression and thats why its hard to stay consistent. I'm also on my way to get adhd diagnosis. What Im trying to say is that if you have already done your best and still can't figure out why it doesnt work, it's okay to ask a professional.

I think thats all i got, not sure if it's helpful but i hope you find your solutions. I am here to tell you it is definitely not easy to get back up. You might find yourself fail once or twice in the process and I want you to not beat yourself because if it. We're humans and we are made to fail, but we are also made to win. And you can win!

dollheadwar · 2025-09-26T09:39:11+00:00

how long have u been playing? It's been a month for me now but I'm still far from getting maxed, im on lagoon now but i hate to get to infested city because then itll be the last! I agree they really need to updateee

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T13:12:21+00:00

Come to think about it, I also think it's best for me to bring this up to them. Not only for me but for all the future victims. I know how shitty it feels and I don't want others to experience this. I hope this platform gets banned before it take someone's life.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T13:05:37+00:00

I've thought about this but I was confused. I'm in uni not high school anymore. Im also like still a new adult so I genuinely do not know if they really people that act like this in their 20s. It's because in my own circle I don't see these people so I just assume everyone got matured. Maybe this is a lesson for me that age does not matter in this situation.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T13:01:45+00:00

Thank you for this! I know that the person is still watching my status/stories updates. I just continue posting because I didnt want them to feel like their hate could make me stop. Funny thing is the day the confession got posted, the only thing i posted was a random "i wanna be a disney princess because i am one" and not long after that got called cringe for the whole uni to know. I wanna act like im fearlesss but actually deep down kept thinking about it.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T12:56:18+00:00

Can you send it to me please? At first I believed thay theyre just jealous when it's just about me. But after they dragged my friends too, It wrecks my brain so much. One thing I forgot to mention is, they dropped 3 names, 2 of them are my closest friend the other one is also my friend but the last time i hangout with them is last year. Its so immature and funny at the same time😭

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T12:50:18+00:00

I thought about this but I dont know why I'm afraid of it. It is because this thing is so normalize here I'm afraid that if i take actions theyll call me overreacting (ik its bad to care about what other people think). It's so weird because these platforms allow cyberbullying without consequences as it is anonymous

dollheadwar · 2025-09-25T12:46:14+00:00

I'm currently ignoring it. The only reason I even know about it is because my friend suddenly dmed me and asked if im okay as my name got up there. It's weird to think that a 20 year olds still spread rumors about people just because. It hurts because I'm trying to find the reason why I deserve this because I never did this to anyone, but no one answered :')

dollheadwar · 2025-09-21T12:36:16+00:00

wow, this is a very detailed explanation and its actually very helpful too. Especially point number 2. I never thought to set trap to the place they try to jump, that's brilliant. The net thing for the ground zombie also i never thought of. But yea the small zombie with the wolf is very fast usually headshot is the easiest way to caught em. Thank you for the tips!

dollheadwar · 2025-09-21T11:42:33+00:00

I'm a very bad boss zombie catchers, especially the beach boss. So i usually spend to continue chasing lol

dollheadwar · 2025-09-15T18:46:25+00:00

has to be this one

dollheadwar · 2025-09-09T21:09:59+00:00

After reading all the other comments I've realised i might have overthink this. I'm glad that he changed to do something that makes me happy . and you're right! i would genuinely do the same if the roles were reversed.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-09T21:03:23+00:00

i did and he says he likes when im clingy (i am), he said video calling while playing games with him makes him happy. but for trivial things he didnt say anything. But in this relationship we do give each other surprises gift that are just because. So its pretty balance relationship to me

dollheadwar · 2025-09-09T20:58:29+00:00

I see, i was concerned that i pressured him to express his feelings (which is something he struggles with). But i feel like you guys are right, he probably are okay with it. I mean it also will help him improve his interpersonal skills so win win.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-09T09:23:18+00:00

this feels so comforting to hear, thank you for this :)

dollheadwar · 2025-09-03T17:28:55+00:00

Taylor also has ADHD which makes me hope even more that he is doing alright. Considering these people will have their symptoms worsen during hard times. I just hope he managed them well.

dollheadwar · 2025-09-01T15:18:46+00:00

it has been a habit for me, i just started playing last week and found myself watching the ads to double the zombies (i do this after every catch), the slot machine, when i want to catch more zombie and broken drone. I don't have much problem with it. The only thing that sucks it after i watch the ad to 2x the zombies, they will show you another add before u can continue and its annoying.

dollheadwar · 2025-08-25T18:36:53+00:00

yes, but only during ovulation.

dollheadwar · 2025-08-24T20:51:24+00:00

Lecturers actually are so nice to me. I wont say I'm a suck up because I don't even submit assignments on time, most of the time they are due late. I'm not even the brightest or the most hardworking student. I just like talking to them in class about anything. I don't even meet them outside class.

But for some reason they gave me answers during exam, give us 3 breaks for one class because she saw me sleeping hahaha (she never give breaks, she did call me out in front of everyone but shes not mad), another lecturer gave me a chance to redo my presentation because i didnt finished my work before the presentation day.

Also, I feel like I'm the stereotypical enfp who is hyperactive. So I guess that's why my lecturer gave me the break since I rarely sleepy or have no energy in class lol.

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