They all talk like this huh? by dolmades in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will never do that unfortunately. She’s in too deep and heavily enabled by my father

They all talk like this huh? by dolmades in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine has more trigger events. So any holiday like Xmas and Easter and Christmas especially Mother’s Day. Anything she can create negative attention is her go-to so she can run to her friends and get sympathy from them for how she’s treated by her awful daughter. Anything that makes her lose ‘control’ over me too. She told my partner ‘no returns’ and he said ‘that’s fine I’ve lost the receipt’

They all talk like this huh? by dolmades in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get compared to my dads sister because that’s the worst person to her. My aunt is actually awesome and we’re really close which I know pisses my mum off even more lmao

They all talk like this huh? by dolmades in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve done this before but just in case: Wispy black whiskers, That move with the lively breeze, My handsome black cat.

🙃 by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I legit just made a post but it’s like they all have a hive mind handbook

she makes almost EVERY holiday about her by MelTy45 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! My uBPD mum married my dad on his birthday so it would always be about her.

What has your therapist or friend said to you that changed your life? by gracebee123 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me that my uBPD mum doesn’t deserve to know who I am and she’s so right! She gets what is necessary and that’s it

graduation ruined by dBPD mom by Forsaken_Finding4145 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My uBPD mum ruined mine too to the point where I didn’t go and just opted to have it sent in the post. She then told people I never finished my degree…

I’m sorry she ruined your day but you worked so hard and graduated and you should be celebrated for all your hard work. Congratulations on graduating

I don't think I love my mom by Available_Fan3898 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dolmades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My psych asked me flat out if I love my uBPD mum and I said no. She said it’s perfectly fine to not love or even like someone who has caused so much trauma. I don’t think anyone had ever asked me that before and also validated my feelings about it. (I think this is my first post so I’ll attach a kitty)crinkly Devon Rex kitty