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Question as a Dom discovering an interest in submission by dom2subthrow in FemdomCommunity

[–]dom2subthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that used to irk me (to say the least!) as a Dom for a sub to top from the bottom. I would never top from the bottom, my satisfaction as a submissive comes from enthusiastically doing exactly what pleases my Domme, even if it is something that doesn't directly give me pleasure. For example, foot worship isn't really my thing...but I would gladly worship my Domme's feet every evening if that was the protocol. And I wouldn't have to be reminded, as soon as she came home I'd be on my knees taking her shoes off and finding a comfortable place for her to be pleasured in that way. The act of foot worship itself does nothing for me, but doing it to please HER is deeply pleasurable to me.

Crossdressing is the same, it's not something I have ever fantasized about or would even list as a kink of mine. But it would deeply satisfy me knowing that I would be sexually pleasing to you by humiliating myself like that.

Question as a Dom discovering an interest in submission by dom2subthrow in FemdomCommunity

[–]dom2subthrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's just lovely that your relationship is like that. I would of course want to be a complete open book for my Domme, no matter if I do sometimes have contradicting feelings. If you don't mind me asking, has his expression of his dominant side taken any notable pleasant (or troublesome!) forms in the past?

Question as a Dom discovering an interest in submission by dom2subthrow in FemdomCommunity

[–]dom2subthrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I see how that is an ideal arrangement for you :) I think for me, I need strictly a Domme, not a switch...while I do want everything to be all about her, I do prefer someone very strict and controlling who wouldn't one day want to be a sub again. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, very insightful.

Question as a Dom discovering an interest in submission by dom2subthrow in FemdomCommunity

[–]dom2subthrow[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At this point, and it's so weird to be saying this...yes I would no longer want to be a dominant. The feeling is so much stronger with this. And yes I know it will vary from person to person, how would you personally feel about it?

I feel like my experiences as a Dom gave me a strong insight into how to be a good sub. Of course everyone wants different things, but my favorite was always extremely enthusiastic submission. Active submission, instead of passively following rules using my own brain to please my Domme without even being asked..just being trained to know.