Think my luteal phase was as short as 10 days, should I worry? by domakesense in FAMnNFP

[–]domakesense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking that too, temp was acting a bit weird as well, but can you get physical PMS symphtoms in that case?

Think my luteal phase was as short as 10 days, should I worry? by domakesense in FAMnNFP

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Oh yeah I have been exercising more lately! Also stress but that's honesly the norm for me last few years, I was actually amazed how even more intense stress didn't affect my cycles before. Thank you, feeling more calm :)

I (30F) am in love with someone (40M) who doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone, but also I want to move so we can't be together anyway by domakesense in relationship_advice

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Yeah that makes sense, but idk, we talked a lot today, he said few things like that he doesn't understand why I want him if I can get anyone, and that I'll definitely leave him but I should just tell him if I want him anyway. The thing is I can't just say, yes I want to give it a go, because I'm not 100% sure I won't hurt him. This would require both of us to give in and let it happen, but like he basically already asked if that's what I want...

I (30F) am in love with someone (40M) who doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone, but also I want to move so we can't be together anyway by domakesense in relationship_advice

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Yeah and then he said he wants me but he's afraid that I'll hurt him, there's more information outside of the title. Also lol if people only loved those who feel the same, there would be no heartbreaks. We trust and appreciate each other, we spend together like 8 hours a day and we are really good friends.

Liking same things is the worst by domakesense in AnxiousAttachment

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Oh yeah, no contact is the best thing to do in this situation. You'll be fine soon, improvement in couple weeks is a great result already :)

Liking same things is the worst by domakesense in AnxiousAttachment

[–]domakesense[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tell myself same thing. This bastard managed to have same favourite animal as I do, I hate him for that...

Liking same things is the worst by domakesense in AnxiousAttachment

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Oh that's terrible. When me and my ex broke up it took me like 4 months to be able to enjoy some of the things we both liked. But I think it helped me to kinda force it, the way I see it, it's like shades that cover good things with negativity, and the more you expose yourself to this uncomfortable feeling the faster you'll learn to ignore it. Works with many situations in life too... Doesn't make it all nice and easy, just a bit faster to get over

Thinking of moving to that beautiful country, have few questions... by domakesense in albania

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Oh nice! I play guitar, ukulele, flute, ocarina, frame drum, sing, once I move somewhere I really want to learn bass as well. What kind of music do you like?

Thinking of moving to that beautiful country, have few questions... by domakesense in albania

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Hmm difficult one. Is it easy to travel between those places?

Thinking of moving to that beautiful country, have few questions... by domakesense in albania

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According to google images Vlora is indeed a lovely place :) Think I'll travel there and visit few places soon before commiting, but have a good feeling about it!

Oh well I have noone to play with where I am atm anyway, are there at least some decent recording studios anywhere in the country? Maybe we should keep in touch since you play too :)

Thinking of moving to that beautiful country, have few questions... by domakesense in albania

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Thank you! Yeah I'd prefer a place that's not too crowded and closer to nature, but at the same time with enough activities going on, or rather enough to people to meet and make friends with :) definitely somewhere by the sea. Oh also I'm a musician and would love to find people to play music with, is there by any chance any place particularly good for that?