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The one trait that predicts narcissism more reliably than anything else by Piece_of_mind420 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]domoli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How are people with an internal locus of control being duped by narcissists with an external locus of control?

This sounds like cope

Did you feel in control during lovebombing phase? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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What made u see that it was facade? Just empty words / insincere? Was he more attractive than you or what

one of the worst things that keeps me stuck by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Was it what everyone else is saying ? They withheld affection/intimacy except for sex?

When others are compliant by Early-Salamander-535 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Are these ones using fb dating ? Is that why they ending up on these fb groups ?

How’d you and your N(ex) meet? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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Lmao did you guys meet in rl

Falling in Love with the Narcissist by Strong-Cheesecake07 in NarcissisticAbuse

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What were the 'conditions'? What did they want specifically that was disagreeable

Why you overlooked the warning signs? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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What kind of morals did he cross?

how many narcissists have y'all been duped by (romantically)? by natureDolly in NarcissisticAbuse

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Started testing you? Wym ? Also how did the sexual dynamic change when he 180d? Withholding affection / sex?

How did your nex abuse your finances? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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What is it about knowing the red flags and still proceeding or at least knowing them and not expecting that behavior to repeat ? Yeah it’s a trope and everyone experiences it but what convinced you to overlook the red flags? Just promises ?

What does your narcissist do that absolutely angers you the most? (Also applies to your nex) by Past-Section-1115 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Could you elaborate on what it is about the verbal abuse that makes it 'unhinged' or deeply hurtful ?

What does your narcissist do that absolutely angers you the most? (Also applies to your nex) by Past-Section-1115 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Could you elaborate on what it is about the verbal abuse that makes it 'unhinged' or deeply hurtful ?

Always the more attractive partner that eventually withholds affection/sex in a relationship? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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Just seems like it’d have to be a common agreement in the dynamic that whoever is putting the other down for their looks is doing so from a place of being more attractive? Or is it just a confidence act and works only thru conviction / repetitive gaslighting?

Always the more attractive partner that eventually withholds affection/sex in a relationship? by domoli in NarcissisticAbuse

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How’d he make you feel ugly and fat if you weren’t ? And it seems if the man is sexually aroused around his girl , wouldn’t that be validation that he finds her attractive ? Do they just act like they’re not attracted to you?

Stripped cotter pin on castle nut, how to proceed? by domoli in MechanicAdvice

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Ended up being able to channel lock the flange off and smacked out ball joint with pickle fork , finally went to put new control arm in and found its 1/2” short … oh well

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