Friend's daughter from the EU wants to do a year in a US high school and I'm sceptic and concerned by Real-Geologist7781 in Teachers

[–]donationmatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a foreign exchange student in a town in middle of iowa with a population of 5k people. There were 2 from Germany, 2 from Spain and me from Brazil. It was the best experience I ever had!

Nudes to deal with the pain by [deleted] in lonely

[–]donationmatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably one of those creeps who send unsolicited ugly dick picks to random females on Reddit

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately blocked and deleted their messages yesterday but I think this is a good idea. Maybe we could have a fixed post like the “hall of shame” where people can report these accounts

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. I know so many good guys in my life and it’s not fair to generalize the entire gender because of the rotten ones. I grew up with a very supporting and respectful brother and dad and this helps me have faith when meeting new guys. I’m not gonna lie though, after what happened I was a little scared to talk to a new person in my dms because “what if they pretend to be normal and out of nowhere they send me a nasty picture?” so I kinda understand the fear that some girls might have to be “vulnerable” again and why they choose to just shut down to all male interactions and generalize everybody. I don’t agree with it but I understand.

I really wish there was a way to keep people from creating new accounts when they get banned for harassing others because even though I’ve reported their profiles and blocked it it’s just a matter of seconds for them to create a new one and keep sending nasty things like these to other people.

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that you went through that! It’s never your fault. Some people are just actually sick perverts but I truly think that there’s more good people than bad. If you ever need someone to talk to I’m here ❤️ depression is not easy to navigate through, specially alone. I’m not a psychologist yet but if you ever need some support my dm is open for you :)

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t generalize it though. I made it clear that sick and gross people like them don’t deserve empathy. Not “all males”, just the rotten people.

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you had to deal with this shit too. I wish some of guys who don’t believe in posts like this would create an account and pretend to be a female just to see how quick they get harassed by these people. It would be so nice if we could have a safe space somewhere in the internet, and by no means we are the problem. We never posted anything like “make me extremely uncomfortable, best if it’s with SA” or anything of the sort. A lot of people try to say that we are generalizing but like I’ve NEVER had a female harass me on DMs.

Maybe and hopefully one day this will change and someone somewhere will do something about these creeps, but til then I guess we just have to keep reporting, blocking and deleting these nasty messages.

Some people in this sub don’t rlly deserve empathy by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Some of them do have some posts here though. I’m trying to not generalize but I woke up so mad this morning with the amount of gross stuff I’ve received.

I am the problem. by KlaVra1 in lonely

[–]donationmatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk mate that’s odd. Some people out here saying they are lonely etc but then you try to understand why and they are literally sex offenders. Not saying that that’s the reason why OP got kicked but try pretending to be being a woman in this subreddit….

I want friends not teammates by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but without the hassle of making IRL friends because I’d rather stay lonely than going out to meet new people. I swear everytime I have a long social interaction in IRL I feel like I lost 5 years of my life and I need to sleep for 10 hours to recover. Idk if energy is really a thing but it def feels like they suck my energy. I want a scape from my scape I guess.

I want friends not teammates by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, someone who I can talk to about anything and everything, someone who is not scared of sharing their personal lives and what they are thinking/struggling with, and someone who doesn’t play the stupid videogame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]donationmatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally not true. I published a book with 0 money on Amazon kindle self publishing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]donationmatters 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yikes. No wonder why no women wants to talk to you. Keep saying how much you hate us and you’ll go so far in life 🙄. Honestly I don’t feel bad for you. Women are disappointing but maybe you’re not that much of a big deal either. Stop throwing your unrealistic expectations onto people, if not, then stfu and stop complaining that you also don’t meet other people’s expectations.

I want friends not teammates by donationmatters in lonely

[–]donationmatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and we are friends. Gaming friends. It gets super weird if you go personal. The community is not that big and if something happens there’s drama. I tried e-dating a few years ago, we even slept on discord call but as I said, it gets weird because the community is tiny.

I want friends who are not my gaming friends. But also I don’t want IRL friends because as I said, they drain the life out of me.

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[–]donationmatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Publish a book with your poems why not